Synopsis
The bodymindself podcast, newly launched in January 2017, is an ongoing series of conversations that psychologist and cognitive scientist John Francis Leader (JFL) will be having on the topics of applied psychology and cognitive science, experiential learning, perception, virtual and mixed reality, embodiment, mental processes and identification. The aim of the series is to include the voices of people from very diverse backgrounds, ranging from academia to those working on the frontline in applied fields, with the hope of gaining an even greater systematic understanding of the topics being explored. All views expressed are those of the person who expressed them and not necessarily those of JFL. Your comments, likes and dislikes are very welcome and will help guide future discussions. To stay up to date subscribe to twitter.com/jfldotcom and itun.es/i67P795 to receive new episodes.
Episodes
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What’s the difference between Mindfulness & Hypnosis / Hypnotherapy?
06/11/2020 Duration: 15minFriend A is into mindfulness. Friend B sings the praises of hypnotherapy. When you see them practice, from the outside it doesn’t look that different. What is the difference between hypnosis and mindfulness? This episode explores the similarities and differences. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #mindfulness #hypnosis #hypnotherapy #meditation #mbct #mbsr #therapy Video: https://youtu.be/g-D1Q2ATvLk If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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How to Negotiate effectively
04/11/2020 Duration: 10minMaybe you’ve got a big deal or an ongoing dispute that you want to be on the other side of. Or maybe you don’t, but you’re interested in how you can communicate more effectively in a casual sense. This episode explores how to more effectively reach resolution by seeing things from a systems perspective and finding ways to help the person you are negotiating with work with your interests at heart (even if they lack empathy). JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #negotiation #resolution #communication #understanding #negotiating #sales #influence #empathy Video: https://youtu.be/llOzg85oUfU If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for inform
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Happier in the past? How belief systems change (and stay the same) over time
30/10/2020 Duration: 10minYou’re still you - but - when you stop to reflect on the past, and compare it to right now, you may notice some significant differences. This episode looks at how our perspective, and therefore happiness, can change over time—and why sometimes how we feel changes, even if our beliefs remain the same. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #happiness #beliefs #change #time #past #cbt #nostalgia #behaviourism #behaviorism #cognitivebehaviouraltherapy Video: https://youtu.be/whXXVo_KGtg If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Resistance is Futile: Ways to work well with your deepest darkest thoughts and feelings
28/10/2020 Duration: 07minAvoidance makes sense- at first glance why would you want to give energy to the things you don’t like. However when those things persist anyway there can be problems. This episode explores some ways of working with that sort of stuff. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #resistance #acceptance #repression #suppression #worry #internalisation #emotions #emotionalregulation #cbt #mindfulness Video here: https://youtu.be/lLYMAnrQVII If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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How (not) to Relax
26/10/2020 Duration: 06minMake sure you relax! As good as the intention might be, those words can have the opposite effect. This episode explores some better approaches to relaxation, with all of the commitment but none of the pressure. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #relaxation #calm #ease #relax #pressure #stress #stressrelief #stressmanagement #worry #peace Video here: https://youtu.be/3R6gttr5r8o If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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The Bulldozer Approach: Is it ethical or effective?
23/10/2020 Duration: 10minYou’ve probably encountered people in your life who push ahead without much regard for consequences. Is such an approach ever ethical, is there anything to be learnt from it, and does it work in the long term? JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #bulldozer #determination #goals #achievement #narcissism #sociopathy #psychopathy #empathy #narcissist #sociopath #psychopath #empath Video here: https://youtu.be/PHc7_pa3CiM If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Perception Matters: How to know when your perspective is + isn’t consequential
21/10/2020 Duration: 08minThere are lots of ways at looking at things, but does it really matter? This episode explores finding the balance between subjective opinion and informed objectivity so you can navigate well in your life. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #perception #perspective #opinion #subjectivity #objectivity #subjectivism #objectivism Video here: https://youtu.be/NVIFU-ZSM4k If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Bad Experience: Is it good for us?
19/10/2020 Duration: 11minAs you might have noticed at this stage in your life, there can be the odd challenge. But- what would life be like if there weren’t any challenges. Do we need them to grow? Or conversely do they stop us from progressing. This episode explores whether bad experiences are good for us. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #bad #negative #experience #hurt #trauma #ptsd #growth #development #healing Video here: https://youtu.be/DOKG4cL5Oqw If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Job Compromise: Should you compromise when finding a job?
16/10/2020 Duration: 10minYou’re a complex person with a variety of talents and abilities. One of the consequences of this is that potential jobs may not meet all of your needs… so some compromise may be needed. But how much compromise- where should you draw the line? JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #employment #career #job #compromise #lifepurpose #occupation Video here: https://youtu.be/nLLC3dfUfNE If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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The myth of the Inner Critic: How to make friends with what seems like negativity
14/10/2020 Duration: 11minLike every great story, sometimes in your inner life there can be a twist-- that apparently negative voice was actually a great supporter. That doesn’t mean though that what it’s saying is right or that improvement isn’t needed- this edition unpacks the somewhat complex relationship we have with what is often called the 'inner critic'. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #innercritic #negativity #selfdoubt #selfesteem #selfimage Video here: https://youtu.be/AuVQgC4aO-s If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Permanent Progress: How to move forward without slipping back
12/10/2020 Duration: 06minIs it possible to hit the save button and keep your personal development progress, or do you need to keep working on it? JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #progress #change #slippingback #goals #achievement Video here: https://youtu.be/007FZbZ8ex8 If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Therapeutic Bypassing: How to make sure you’re not skipping essential steps in your development
09/10/2020 Duration: 09minYou wouldn’t want to build yourself a fine looking house with poor foundations. Likewise with personal development. Some ideas here on how to make sure you’re not bypassing necessary developmental steps. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #therapy #bypassing #personaldevelopment #spiritualbypassing #therapeuticbypassing #repression #superficiality #suppression #superficial #holism Video here: https://youtu.be/9CMy3Cr9rvg If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Beyond Regret: How to move forward (with some help from 80s TV)
07/10/2020 Duration: 09minDoes anyone remember the TV show Quantum Leap that aired in the 1980s and 1990s? Just so happens it’s a useful metaphor for how to deal with regrets, learn and move forward. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #regrets #movingon #healing #learning #regret #quantumleap Video here: https://youtu.be/VV42yiBQ-Uk If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Is social media use bad for you? It depends- here’s how to set your own mental algorithm
05/10/2020 Duration: 10minYou’re doing it right now! Using social media has become an increasingly unconscious part of our day to day life. But does it need to be a problem? Some considerations on how to stay safe and intentional in your social media use. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #socialmedia #algorithm #ai #online #safety Video here: https://youtu.be/XnTvalpHW44 If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Changing long term habits
02/10/2020 Duration: 08minBeen doing something for a really long time and want to change it? A reflection on some of the differences in working with long term habits vs new ones. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #habits #change #longterm #achievement Video here: https://youtu.be/ENkQBc_72oE If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Recovering from lockdown: Dealing with sensitivity in social situations
30/09/2020 Duration: 11minStepping back from the familiar and then reengaging with it is a powerful behavioural change technique. However recent lockdowns in many regions have forced this upon many of us, without consent and often without therapeutic support. Some considerations on how to socially reengage. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #lockdown #social #interaction #anxiety #stress Video here: https://youtu.be/MTZ7vjl3j7Y If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Is it okay to be materialistic? Or would you prefer the luxury of less...
28/09/2020 Duration: 08minDo you step out of your luxury bed every morning onto a marble floor, take a swim in your pool and then drive your sports car to the airport to take your second getaway this month? Or maybe you wander through life with hardly a possession to your name, letting destiny provide you with what it will. A consideration of materialism, and a recognition of the luxury of less. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #materialism #minimalism #luxury #materialistic #possessions Video here: https://youtu.be/FtZU8xTwArI If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and
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Learning from con artists: how to use the skills of persuasion for good
25/09/2020 Duration: 14minWe’ve all seen the films + read the books. Slick smooth talkers in suits, stock brokers or contemporary hackers with expertise in social engineering. The end results are terrible, but can the skills of con artists be put to positive use, to help rather than harm? JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #conartist #scam #con #fraud #socialengineering #influence Video here: https://youtu.be/dKegfebsEvk If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Schools of Psychotherapy: Which approach should you choose?
23/09/2020 Duration: 10minSo you’ve decided you need some support… but then, what type of therapy should you choose? Are they all essentially the same anyway? A quick dive into how to consider the various approaches. JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #therapy #psychotherapy #psychology #therapist #support #counselling #cbt #psychoanalysis Video here: https://youtu.be/LQEmFrXp9p0 If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.
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Harnessing Fear: How to put it to good use
21/09/2020 Duration: 06minFear is brilliant, right...? Okay fair enough- it can range from challenging to immensely debilitating. However that doesn’t change the fact that it is a powerful safety mechanism that cares deeply about your wellness. Video here: https://youtu.be/XetgzQ7vTaA JFL (Dr John Francis Leader) explores the psychology of wellbeing. #bodymindself #fear #safety #worry #stress #anxiety #panicattack #mentalhealth If you find these ideas valuable do Like, Subscribe and Share. You can contribute questions, topic suggestions and share your experience in the Comments or using #bodymindself on social media. Check out https://jfl.com for lots more content. Important: Wellbeing is very individual, and what fits well for one person may not for someone else. The ideas explored here are for informational use only. Always first contact a specialist for personalised assessment and advice.