Alive With Purpose

As humans it is very normal for us to look to the world around us for validation. We want our partner to shower us with adoration. We want our boss to tell us we are doing a great job. We want our friends and family to love our new business idea. But what happens when you don't get the validation you seek? In this episode I will teach you how to find validation from within and one of the tools I teach my clients to make it an ongoing practice This is something we are working inside the Wild Beautiful Love membership program Join us here: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/bundles/wild-beautiful-love)

As a Master Relationship Coach, I watch a LOT of people push away love and not even know they are doing it. In this episode, I will teach you: - where love really comes from - how to stop throwing your "love cocktail" in your partner's face - the subtle ways you are pushing away love - how to stop doing it so you can enjoy your relationship And when you are ready to create Wild Beautiful Love, join our membership before the doors close again: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/bundles/wild-beautiful-love If you need more one-on-one support, you can apply to work with me privately here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation

Coaching is a powerful tool that can help with just about any problem you might be experiencing not only in your relationship but in your business. Part of what I consider the "real life magic" of this work is creating the future you want. But HOW do you believe something that hasn't yet happened? Today my guest is Selena Maestas. She is an expert at creating Belief Blueprints with her clients start with recognizing the stories we tell about ourselves and our life. Learn more from her and get a little gift from her here in the show notes: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast And if you want to learn the most important practices and tools I have used to build my business, join me for my live one day https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/workshop

Today I want to teach you about two important pillars needed for  great relationships, trust and boundaries. In this episode you will learn: what trust is and where it comes from (its not what you think) why cultivating self-trust is important the difference between boundaries and expectations how to know when someone violates your boundaries how to trust yourself to do what is best for you In this episode I mention: How to do this work in our membership or privately: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation Ep 49. How to Create Trust https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-49-creating-trust

It may seem crazy because I am a Master Coach who has devoted year helping people create more love, but the feeling of falling in love is one I never really liked. As a recovering "Emotional Stuffer" I spent many years trying to hold back my emotions and downplaying my strong feelings...especially the good ones. In this episode, I will teach you a simple practice to allow your emotions starting with the one we all want more of-love. And instead of trying to figure this all out on your own going forward, Steve and I have created a way for you to get everything you need to create Wild, Beautiful Love inside our new program. You can join here for only $47/month: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join

Today I am taking you inside the Wild, Beautiful Love membership for a Live podcast recording. (Not in the program? Join using the link at the bottom of the shownotes) We are talking about how to intentionally plan for what you actually want in 2021. No overwhelm, no outlandish resolutions. Just simple, clear, effective planning and celebrating all the way along the path. Join me and plan your 2021 and if having a wildly, beautiful relationship is part of your plan, do yourself a favor and join our membership here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join

When you feel stuck at work it is going to show up everywhere in your life. My guest today is Anthea Dunks who works with her clients to create new possibilities in their corporate jobs. After you listen to this episode, you can connect with Anthea and get her 5 Steps to Get Unstuck cheat sheet here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast Do you want to create Wild, Beautiful Love in 2021? The doors to our new membership are open and we can't wait to help you create the life you want. Join here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join  

I know how it goes. You listen to this podcast, feel inspired, think about the ideas for a day and then return to auto-pilot in your relationship by the next week. This episode is going to change all that. Steve and I are on a mission to help as many people as possible have the Wild, Beautiful Love they have been dreaming of but haven't yet figured out how to create. We want to invite you to a free Masterclass inside our Wild, Beautiful Love membership program here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/sign-up-for-the-end-the-argument-before-it-begins-webinar And if you already know you are in and want to get a free copy of my brand new book, sign up for a one year membership at the special founders price here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join

Sometimes in your relationship you will have to be the leader. Even though you are on a team with your partner, when they go through something challenging, it may be your moment to stand up and take charge. This week my husband got fired from his job (you can hear about that on his new podcast) and almost instantly I stepped into a leadership role, but that didn't happen by magic. It happened because I have a toolkit at the ready and today I want to introduce you to it. You will learn: how to generate gratitude even in tough times how to find the opportunity within a challenge how to honor your feelings and theirs without being insensitive or dismissive If I can create this in my relationship, so can you. Join the Wild, Beautiful Love Membership program here and I will teach you everything I know and be your support every step of the way here: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/bundles/wild-beautiful-love Check out Steve's new podcast Life After Getting Fired here: http://lifeaftergetting

Do you consider yourself a spiritual or religious person? If so, is this something you connect with your partner on? In this conversation with my husband Steve Haase, we are talking about our very different spiritual paths before we met in a spiritual community. It's a highly personal episode were we share things we have never talked about publicly including: divorce celibacy daily spiritual practices how bringing your spiritual self to the table can create a better relationship  If you have been holding back this part of yourself from your partner, today will give you some inspiration to get curious and open up. And if you want to make 2021 the best year of your relationship, apply to join Relationship CEO's right here and I will be your guide: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/ceo    

Your sense of self-worth says a lot about your relationship with yourself, but if you aren't consciously working to make it better chances are it is effecting everything from your core relationships to how you show up at work. In this episode I am going to teach you: why everyone needs to work their self-worth muscle the relationship between keeping your commitments and self-worth a simple daily practice that will help you cultivate self-worth Mentioned in this show Work with us:  https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation Join our free FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/

This week's episode is a Facebook Live I recorded in my free Revitalize Your Relationship community. It concerns one of the common missteps my clients make as they learn to take responsibility for themselves in their relationship. In this episode you will learn: - exactly what it means to take responsibility in your relationship - the quickest way to get on the same page as your partner - how to show up empowered instead of resentful - why it takes time for your partner to notice that you have changed If you aren't in my free Facebook group yet, you can join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/ And if you don't already have a copy of my brand new book, buy it here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book

This week’s episode features my conversation with Dr. Sonia Wright, The Mid-Life Sex Coach for women. Sonia helps women own their sexuality and bring more fun and intimacy back into their lives. In this episode, you will learn about the concept of “for you” sex, the different types of libidos we have, and why it’s important to do the work around exploring your sexuality not only for your relationship but for future women to come. Great sex is available to you at any age. Dr. Sonia is going to teach you how to have it. And if you want to learn more about her course, you can check it out in the show notes here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-136-celebrating-your-sexuality

In this episode, I'm talking to fellow Life Coach Sarah Kennedy. Sarah works with parents and supporters of LGBTQIA youth and helps businesses who want to improve their equality and inclusion. She is passionate about changing the way society thinks about gender and sexuality and nurturing partners and families in exploring their sexuality and diversity. In this episode you will learn: The difference between gender, sex, and sexuality How to navigate identity changes as a parent importance of support for parents, children, and families during those identity shifts Sarah also has a freebie for us. To help people who want to be supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community understand the common terms and ideas. I will link to it in the show notes. If you're ready to start implementing the tools I teach on this podcast into your own life, you can do so by purchasing a copy of my brand new book here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book  Available in paperback or on your Kindle.

In this episode, I'm talking about how we create clearer communication through better connections. I want to walk you through how these intertwine and share insight on how my new book will help you work through these issues in your own relationships. If you've been feeling disconnected from your partner or anxious about having hard conversations-this episode is going to help you tremendously. You're not just getting the book when you purchase, you're getting access to my masterclass + book bonus website with written exercises to go with each section of the book. You can buy the book now here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book Don't forget to let me know you are enjoying it on social media: Instagram: @revitalizeyourrelationship Free FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach

Today is the day. After 2.5 years of writing and coaching my latest book is finally ready for you and in it I not only teach you the tools and concepts normally reserved for my private coaching clients, I am also giving you exclusive bonus classes and tools to help you create a wildly, beautiful relationship. In this episode I introduce you to one of my favourite parts of the book, how to be a Relationship CEO. Buy the book now here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book And don't forget to let me know you are enjoying it on social media: Instagram: @revitalizeyourrelationship Free FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach

This week my guest is Style Coach, lawyer, and author, Judith Gaton. Judith isn't just here to help with your wardrobe, she is here to help you express who you are in the world with confidence. In this episode you'll learn: the connection between your thoughts and your appearance the simplest steps to take to start feeling and looking amazing why holding on to old clothes is draining your energy I truly enjoyed this episode with Judith and if you'd like to learn more about Judith, her book, and the work she does, you can find her links in the show notes here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast

This week my guest is fellow Life Coach Patricia Cimino and if you have been feeling stuck, or you know you've been putting off the inner mindset work required to unlock your next-level life, you need to listen to this episode. In our conversation you will learn: the importance of mindset work when you start something new how to turn your passion into purpose the difference between discomfort due to growth vs. discomfort from misalignment Patricia is an empowerment coach helping people who feel stuck professionally live out their passion, learn more about her here in the show notes: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast And if you want to be the first to know when my book is released and receive exclusive bonuses, join the waitlist here. 

Last week I went Live in my free Facebook Facebook community with important insight about what it means to have your own back. This topic is important if you want to change your relationship and your life. In this episode you will learn:  what it means to have your own back what it is NOT how to support yourself from love without getting defensive Steve and I regularly share our insights and support our community members inside our free Facebook community. If you aren't already a member, join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach And if you want to be the first to know when my book is released and receive exclusive bonuses, join the waitlist here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book  https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-130-have-you-own-back 

This week my guest is fellow Master Coach Candice Toone and if you have ever found yourself tiptoeing around your relationship, this episode is going to help. In our conversation you will learn: how to ask for what you want and not make their answer a declaration why knowing your preferences and looking after yourself is more important than you think how to stop outsourcing your happiness why group coaching may be powerful for you if you feel confused or ashamed about your relationship Candice also has a new book coming out an you can learn more from her here in the shownotes: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast