Alive With Purpose

Wanting to fit in is something we humans crave. But at some point I finally decided that trying to squish myself into the status quo of other people's expectations just wasn't for me. Alison Jamison knows that that is like. She is the Self-Confidence Coach for Misfits. If you have ever thought of yourself this way, I have good news for you. Being a misfit might be your superpower. In this episode you will learn: - why confidence depends of vulnerability  - how to embrace who you are, even if other people think it's weird - the power of sharing your FULL self with someone  This is a beautiful conversation and it comes with a special gift from Alison which you can find here in the show notes: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast Are you part of our free 5 Day challenge yet? Join now and get exclusive access to our Facebook community where Steve and I teach classes and concepts not heard on the podcast. Join now:https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge  

Today in my conversation with Sara Payne I thought we were going to talk about what some of the common issues are for people who are married to someone with a high-paying, intense job. Sara is the host of The Doctors Wife podcast and a mother of 4. She is an expert at helping her clients stop being the backup dancer to their partner's career.  But our conversation went so much deeper. In this episode you will learn: - why self-investing is more essential than you think - how to start teaching your family about their feelings - one of my personal self-coaching practices that gets me through hard times - how to decide when a difficult conversation is needed She also has a gift for you that you can grab in the show notes at: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/127-support-your-future-self

Today I want to teach you about how to change your relationship and life through being more curious. The practice is simple and necessary for anyone who is serious about creating a better life whether you are brand new to this work or a Master Life Coach. After you listen go grab some free bonus gifts from my upcoming book here:  https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/book    

Today things are getting a little personal. I want to share the three ingredients that have made magic in my life. They have helped me create a six figure business, become a Master Certified Life Coach and have a home life I honestly couldn't have imagined in my wildest dreams. Since putting my attention on these things my life has transformed and today I want to share them with you so you can enjoy the success you want in all the important areas of your life. (Spoiler Alert: one of these things involves working with a Life Coach. If you love the podcast and are serious about creating your wildly beautiful life you can learn about working with me or one of my coaches here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation) Are you part of our free 5 Day Challenge yet? Sign up to Bring Back the Love here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge

This is one you should have on repeat especially if you are one of my clients. My guest Catherine Van Wert is a sales and communication expert. And in this epic episode we share the solutions to some of the biggest communication issues couples have. In this episode you will learn: what it means to have "better communication" the important distinction between wants and needs how to hold your ground in a disagreement without losing your cool how to feel compassion without giving up power in your relationship Learn more from this episode and connect with Catherine further in the show notes here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast 

Something I notice when coaching people on their relationship, especially when they are having negative feelings about their partner is that they often think of their partners more like a 2D cardboard cut out rather than an evolving complex person. When we reduce another person in our mind to a bundle of qualities it is a way of thinking we have them all figured out. Not only does this end our curiosity abut them, but it can actually block you from seeing where they are growing and changing. Today I will give you a tool to help you take your partner out of 2D in your mind and see them in 3D. When you learn this you will be able to: stop jumping to conclusions with your partner bring back more mystery in your relationship enjoy getting to know your partner as a dynamic human  stop treating them like a cardboard cutout Check out the show notes for the detailed instructions for how to use this tool here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-123-3d-relationships If you love today's episode

Many people have a dysfunctional relationship with money. In my conversation with Money Coach Rachelle Siebke, we talk about why that is and how to start to shift into a healthier happier relationship with money. Rachelle shares her fresh approach and money wisdom in a way that will get you thinking about how you want to deal with your money personally and in your relationship. You will also hear an insight I had right there on the call that has since helped me not only make more money in my business, but also allowed me to utilize my resources to create jobs and make a family member's dream come true. If you want to learn more from Rachelle, head over to the show notes here for the ways you can get in touch: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast And if you are ready to revitalize YOUR relationship, there is still time to join our 8 week course before the doors close here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/class  

Its a big day. We are opening the doors to our step-by-step relationship transforming course. This was created just for you and we are giving you the GOODS. Join the class here:  https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/class In this episode you will learn about the most important topics and tools that are essential to learn in order to have the wildly beautiful relationship you want and deserve. If you are one of the next 10 people to sign up, you will also get 4 additional private coaching calls (normally only accessible to our high end coaching clients)

My conversation today is with the one and only Alea Lovely. She is the host of the Spiritual Shit podcast. We talk love and relationships especially in the context of following your own spiritual path and living a holistic life. Alea has a refreshing perspective and together we enjoy a candid conversation about all things love, spirituality and how having a romantic partner can actually be a catalyst for personal growth. I will also share a bit about the reading she did for me and what it helped me do. After the show, visit https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-121-spirituality-love to learn more about Alea, her book, podcast and how to work with her.

It's Podcast Takeover Week with Steve Haase Each day Steve will be sharing a Facebook Live he did for our community on a topic we help our clients with. If you haven't joined our free 5 Day Bring Back the Love Challenge yet, you are missing out on teaching and tools like these. Head here to sign up: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge THEN join our free Facebook Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/  

It's Podcast Takeover Week with Steve Haase Each day Steve will be sharing a Facebook Live he did for our community on a topic we help our clients with. If you haven't joined our free 5 Day Bring Back the Love Challenge yet, you are missing out on teaching and tools like these. Head here to sign up: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge THEN join our free Facebook Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/      

It's Podcast Takeover Week with Steve Haase Each day Steve will be sharing a Facebook Live he did for our community on a topic we help our clients with. If you haven't joined our free 5 Day Bring Back the Love Challenge yet, you are missing out on teaching and tools like these. Head here to sign up: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge THEN join our free Facebook Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/      

It's Podcast Takeover Week with Steve Haase Each day Steve will be sharing a Facebook Live he did for our community on a topic we help our clients with. If you haven't joined our free 5 Day Bring Back the Love Challenge yet, you are missing out on teaching and tools like these. Head here to sign up: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge THEN join our free Facebook Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/      

It's Podcast Takeover Week with Steve Haase Each day Steve will be sharing a Facebook Live he did for our community on a topic we help our clients with. If you haven't joined our free 5 Day Bring Back the Love Challenge yet, you are missing out on teaching and tools like these. Head here to sign up: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge THEN join our free Facebook Community here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/RYRcoach/      

Today I want to introduce you to one of my Coaches, Caryn Gillen. She is one of the most grounded, authentic and purposeful people I know. She has helped me grow my business, even before I worked with her officially. Today we are talking about why you need the same tools to run a successful business as you do a thriving relationship and how to stop compartmentalizing your life when you run your own business. PLUS Caryn is launching a brand new course and has some special bonus's just for my listeners Learn more about this episode in the show notes here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/business-relationships-caryngillen  

Today I am sharing with you my conversation with the brilliant Dr. Chavonne Perotte. Chavonne is a Life and Marriage Coach who helps her clients not only learn how to DO things differently, but how to BE different in their marriages by redefining expectations, positioning themselves to receive what they want and creating contentment in the here and now. I suggest you grab a pen and paper and take notes as you enjoy this episode. And when you are done you can learn more about Chavonne and grab some beautiful bonus's she created for you here in the show notes: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast

Today we are talking about how men can function and thrive more in their relationships. In this conversation with my husband Steve, we explore gender roles in our current culture and talk about self-worth and drive as a man. This one gets personal Steve shares his spiritual path that led him to his own journey to self-discovery and what it means to be a man in a relationship. This episode is for everyone and we hope you enjoy it. And, if you can't wait to join our upcoming 8 week course, get on the waitlist by signing up here and you will also receive 5 days of relationship-transforming insights. 

This week Steve and I are leading a free 5 Day Challenge in our community. We are sharing the tools and concepts we have used not only to support our clients but also to create a thriving marriage. Today I want to share with you Day 1 of the Bring Back the Love Challenge because being vulnerable is one of the quickest ways to create a better relationship and it also happens to be one of the things most people try to avoid. If you want to take this deeper, I hope you will join the free challenge here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/challenge And if you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, our summer program is open for enrollment now. Sign-up for the course here  

Today we are talking about shame, how to become aware of it, how to support yourself through it and how self-investing can help you manage it. My guest Lindsay Poelman is no stranger to feeling shame. She is a Life and Marriage Coach who helps women deal with their husbands porn use.  This episode is a powerful and personal conversation were we not only talk about our approach to working with shame but how we have personally done it. After the episode head over to the show page here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/shame and get some additional classes with Lindsay and to learn about the programs we offer our clients.  

Team work makes the dream work, but if you don't have a great team dynamic the concepts and questions in this episode will help you start to build that no matter where you are starting from.  And when you are ready to do this work in a way that is specific to your situation, book a free consultation with me here to learn how to get started: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation