Alive With Purpose

Don't miss the live Love + Success Summit, bringing together best-selling authors and world-renowned coaches to help you create more love in your relationships and success in your business. Register here now: revitalizeyourrelationship.com/summit On this episode, we give you a sneak peak into the upcoming summit and why it's not to be missed.  You will learn: Why love is the best foundation for a successful business and how to keep it front and center. Why creating more success (i.e. money) is not a cold and sterile thing but can actually be a spiritual good. How to practice self-love in a way that supercharges your productivity. We mention many of the speakers we'll be featuring. To learn more about each of the speakers at the Summit and register, visit revitalizeyourrelationship.com/summit

I'm joined by my partner, Steve Haase, for this episode as we share what we've learned about communicating well. If you find that conversations with your partner escalate, sometimes for no apparent reason, this episode will help you understand what's going on.  You will learn: How to listen without "fixing" your partner or making their words mean something negative about you How to speak about your experience without it being a low-key blaming session towards your partner How to connect with your purpose as a couple to elevate the conversation and prevent it from spinning out To learn more about working with us to improve your relationship—including our upcoming free event, the Love + Success Summit—head to the show notes for this episode at: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-159-no-drama-communication

This week's special guest is another wonderful client of mine, Jewel Hohman, the BrainBasedCoach.  We dive deep into common misconceptions people have about creating more love in their relationships. These simple beliefs cause so much suffering, while changing them opens the door to love. If you think that being hard on yourself is the only way to keep from getting complacent, or that withholding love from people is the best way to keep from getting hurt, you must listen to this episode. From our conversation, you will learn: Why accepting yourself as you are is the first step to getting amazing things done. Why some goals drain you while others give you energy and fun. The most painful thought you're probably thinking about your partner and options that feel better and are likely more true. To learn more about Jewel and her work, head to the show notes for this episode at: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-158-building-better-friendships

This past year I realized that every time I get a new "hobby" it becomes something I end up turning into some big think or making it part of my business. That is until I met today's guest, Valerie, the Knitting Fairy Godmother.  In this episode you will learn why: every entrepreneur needs a self-care hobby outside of their work why using your hands to create is so satisfying in our digital world how to keep your hobby fun and not turn it into a perfectionistic obligation If you are intrigued and want to give knitting a try, you can learn everything you need from the Knitting Fairy Godmother here in the show notes: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-157-the-perfect-hobby-for-entrepreneurs

I'm joined by my husband and fellow relationship coach, Steve Haase, for this week's episode about asking for help. If you usually wait until the world is falling apart before reaching out for help, this episode is for you. Whether it's in your business or your relationship, asking for help before things get out of control is a practice that will propel you faster to your dreams and save you needless suffering. In this episode you will learn: Why people often wait until they're in pain to reach out, despite the huge cost of waiting. How to ask for help in a way that creates less drama and more intimacy. How to drop the mask of "being fine" and live a richer life If you are an Entrepreneur who wants to scale your business but doesn't want to sacrifice your relationship in the meantime, join us in Relationship Alchemy for Entrepreneurs here.

This week's podcast features one of my former clients, Savanna Schiavo of Confidence With Savanna. Learn about all things confidence and entrepreneurship through Savanna's personal journey becoming a confidence coach and why that work is so important. I also share my own work on self-worth and how it directly relates to your financial goals and how you scale. If you're an entrepreneur who sometimes freaks out about your goals, you're going to love this episode. Learn more about how to be productive and present at our brand new, free masterclass here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/masterclass

When your partner signed on to life with an entrepreneur, they may not have known what they were getting into.   After all, unplanned work when you're struck by inspiration (or a deadline) can make it hard on your partner when they don't feel the same passion about your business.   While you may know they aren't second fiddle to your business, chances are they don't.   Today we are going to help you clean up the unmet expectations plaguing your relationship. In this live episode you will learn: why expectations are a problem for most couples how to clean up tense moments prompted by an unmet expectation how to drop expectations and create collaborative agreements instead This is just one of the ways we are helping entrepreneurs enjoy their lives. Join us inside https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/alchemy

As an entrepreneur, do you find it hard to "turn off" at the end of your business day? Today Steve and Erin are going to share how to make the transition between work time and being with your partner and yourself. In this episode you will learn: why you can't shut off your business brain how to use self-investing to become more present for yourself and your relationship some simple ways to help you transition between work time and family time This is the episode that could change everything. And if you are ready to get started, join us inside the Relationship Alchemy Program here: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/courses/relationship-alchemy-for-entrepreneurs  

Welcome to the Relationship Alchemy for Entrepreneurs series. Today I am speaking with my husband Steve Haase about the conflict many entrepreneurs feel between their business and their ability to be a "good" partner. On this episode you will learn: how free yourself from thinking you are doing it all wrong and letting everyone down how to reconnect with emotions you shut off when you first started your business how to embrace your True Self as both a parter and an entrepreneur  a simple exercise to help you get clear and actually start to use your emotions to help you If you this episode is exactly what you needed to hear today, this is just a tiny piece of what you will learn inside the Relationship Alchemy for Entrepreneurs Coaching Program. Join here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/alchemy

If you are an entrepreneur who feels spread too thin, chances are that comes along with a big dose of guilt on the regular. In this episode you will get the foundation you need to make the most of my upcoming free Masterclass which you can join here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/masterclass Today on the show you will learn: - when to USE guilt to your advantage - how to stop beating yourself up - a simple technique to make sure you are aligned in your business and your personal life  

As someone who has always had a love/hate relationship with "the rules" I have come to see how creating certain guidelines in love and business can set us free when they are aligned with our highest purpose. Today I will share five rules that I follow and will be teaching inside the new Relationship Alchemy for Entrepreneurs course because I think they are refreshing, loving and will help you create what matters most to you. Listen to this episode and use the rules that resonate with you. And if you know you need to create better, more supportive rules in your life, you can come and join us for our new Relationship Alchemy for Entrepreneurs course here: http://revitalizeyourrelationship.com/alchemy

Welcome to Season 3! I have something very special for you if you are an entrepreneur who wants to create a better relationship. In this episode you will hear about some of the common pitfalls for entrepreneurs who are trying to scale their business and maintain a thriving relationship with the people who matter most. If you ever feel spread too thin, guilty about where you are spending your time, resentful for how much people expect of you and too exhausted to enjoy this wild ride of life, you are not alone. This episode will give you a place to start and if you want an invitation when we open our new program, you can join the waitlist here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/alchemy   

As humans it is very normal for us to look to the world around us for validation. We want our partner to shower us with adoration. We want our boss to tell us we are doing a great job. We want our friends and family to love our new business idea. But what happens when you don't get the validation you seek? In this episode I will teach you how to find validation from within and one of the tools I teach my clients to make it an ongoing practice This is something we are working inside the Wild Beautiful Love membership program Join us here: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/bundles/wild-beautiful-love)

As a Master Relationship Coach, I watch a LOT of people push away love and not even know they are doing it. In this episode, I will teach you: - where love really comes from - how to stop throwing your "love cocktail" in your partner's face - the subtle ways you are pushing away love - how to stop doing it so you can enjoy your relationship And when you are ready to create Wild Beautiful Love, join our membership before the doors close again: https://members.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/bundles/wild-beautiful-love If you need more one-on-one support, you can apply to work with me privately here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation

Coaching is a powerful tool that can help with just about any problem you might be experiencing not only in your relationship but in your business. Part of what I consider the "real life magic" of this work is creating the future you want. But HOW do you believe something that hasn't yet happened? Today my guest is Selena Maestas. She is an expert at creating Belief Blueprints with her clients start with recognizing the stories we tell about ourselves and our life. Learn more from her and get a little gift from her here in the show notes: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast And if you want to learn the most important practices and tools I have used to build my business, join me for my live one day https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/workshop

Today I want to teach you about two important pillars needed for  great relationships, trust and boundaries. In this episode you will learn: what trust is and where it comes from (its not what you think) why cultivating self-trust is important the difference between boundaries and expectations how to know when someone violates your boundaries how to trust yourself to do what is best for you In this episode I mention: How to do this work in our membership or privately: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/consultation Ep 49. How to Create Trust https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast/ep-49-creating-trust

It may seem crazy because I am a Master Coach who has devoted year helping people create more love, but the feeling of falling in love is one I never really liked. As a recovering "Emotional Stuffer" I spent many years trying to hold back my emotions and downplaying my strong feelings...especially the good ones. In this episode, I will teach you a simple practice to allow your emotions starting with the one we all want more of-love. And instead of trying to figure this all out on your own going forward, Steve and I have created a way for you to get everything you need to create Wild, Beautiful Love inside our new program. You can join here for only $47/month: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join

Today I am taking you inside the Wild, Beautiful Love membership for a Live podcast recording. (Not in the program? Join using the link at the bottom of the shownotes) We are talking about how to intentionally plan for what you actually want in 2021. No overwhelm, no outlandish resolutions. Just simple, clear, effective planning and celebrating all the way along the path. Join me and plan your 2021 and if having a wildly, beautiful relationship is part of your plan, do yourself a favor and join our membership here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join

When you feel stuck at work it is going to show up everywhere in your life. My guest today is Anthea Dunks who works with her clients to create new possibilities in their corporate jobs. After you listen to this episode, you can connect with Anthea and get her 5 Steps to Get Unstuck cheat sheet here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/podcast Do you want to create Wild, Beautiful Love in 2021? The doors to our new membership are open and we can't wait to help you create the life you want. Join here: www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join  

I know how it goes. You listen to this podcast, feel inspired, think about the ideas for a day and then return to auto-pilot in your relationship by the next week. This episode is going to change all that. Steve and I are on a mission to help as many people as possible have the Wild, Beautiful Love they have been dreaming of but haven't yet figured out how to create. We want to invite you to a free Masterclass inside our Wild, Beautiful Love membership program here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/sign-up-for-the-end-the-argument-before-it-begins-webinar And if you already know you are in and want to get a free copy of my brand new book, sign up for a one year membership at the special founders price here: https://www.revitalizeyourrelationship.com/join