Havilah Cunnington

Today I have a special guest and friend on the podcast with me, John Bevere. We will be talking about the wilderness season together and how God takes us through different seasons in our lives. God allows us to go through the wilderness to develop character. God told David, he would be king, but then David had to go through the process, which is the wilderness. Joseph was given a dream but was forced to go the exact opposite direction of that dream to be ready for the promise. God wants to put us into a place of influence, but we need the character first. We don't always go through this season because we did something wrong but because we need it to go where He's called us to go. Promise. Process. Promotion. In the wilderness, it feels like God’s presence is far away from us and the promises He made us even further. But when you understand the purpose of the wilderness, you have the proper behavior to grow through it. If you don’t steward the wilderness properly or understand it, you will never understand wha

In this podcast episode I want to talk about rejection, abandonment and building more confidence. I grew up in a safe home. But just because we’re not raised around something doesn’t mean we’re not touched by it. My Dad’s story was a story of rejection, abandonment and a lack of confidence but when he found Christ, he started to go after those things and find healing. I was raised in a home of love and safety, but that generational thread that followed my Dad would love nothing more than to knock on my door. Instead of saying those were his issues, I realized that spirit of rejection and abandonment wants to follow my story as well. The narrative of abandonment and rejection sounds so familiar in our thoughts that it doesn’t even sound surprising to us. But when we hear those negative narratives in our mind, we have a decision to make. We can go to self-pity, or we can stay soft and open to the people around us and realize God is divinely orchestrating everything in our life. In those moments we have to rej

In this episode, we continue on with part three of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love.  To learn more about Leap Into Love, visit: https://truthtotable.com/leap-into-love/ –> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ –> You can also find lots of resources including books, Bible studies, online course and more at truthtotable.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, we continue on with part two of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love. To learn more about Leap Into Love, visit: https://truthtotable.com/leap-into-love/ –> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ –> You can also find lots of resources including books, Bible studies, online course and more at truthtotable.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, we dive into part one of a live teaching from my recent study, Leap Into Love. We explore the power of making a conscious, and intentional choice to embrace yourself as God’s most significant work. To learn more about Leap Into Love, visit: https://truthtotable.com/leap-into-love/ –> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ –> You can also find lots of resources including books, Bible studies, online course and more at truthtotable.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

If you don't steward the mundane, then you won't be prepared for the supernatural. It isn't always easy but we are all called to grow and refine the gifts we've been given. Routine is the foundation that allows us to stay diligent and become the person we are called to be. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

I want to talk to you about the power of parenting. I’m so excited to have my mom joining us today for this topic. I wanted to take this time to encourage you in this holiday season, especially if you’re a mom or you’re a working woman or have a lot to navigate! Give yourself the grace to learn and be open during this time of the year. This podcast will hopefully help you keep your focus on the important things this holiday season. Our kids can't take a backseat to the hustle of the season. If we don’t have a strategy, the season will take over. We will arrive in January and have forgotten to parent in December. This month is critical for parenting, but it can be challenging to navigate when it comes to how generous and how strict we should be. In the end, your kids want you and your time. How are you spending quality time with your children and investing in them this holiday season? It doesn’t have to be perfect, just one day at a time. Thank you for joining us today! You can do this! Here is a special P

On this episode, Bill Johnson joins us in a fascinating discussion about life, faith and the supernatural. The power belongs to the believer to decide what we have in our world. We underestimate the power of permitting the enemy to steal and destroy. Havilah and Bill talk about how we often do not understand the struggles but faith is proven faith when the mystery remains. Want to learn how to preach? Take the survey here: https://goo.gl/forms/pQqqzm4ylhYzL0Ts2 –> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ –> You can also find lots of resources including books, Bible studies, online course and more at truthtotable.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this podcast episode, I want to share with you how we created our family values. I want to give you some tools that are working for us. This is not something I want you to idolize, it’s not a formula and it takes me a lot of effort to think about these things. Our family values: 1. Jesus is the center of our family. 2. Our family is a team, everyone counts. 3. We gather our family and friends around the table. 4. We are givers. We exist to give love and serve. 5. We value creating over consuming. 6. We steward our time, schedule and responsibilities. 7. We honor God by living healthy. 8. We live within our means and save for the future. 9. We value experiencing the world together and making lasting memories. 10. We live grateful lives by expressing thanks. I hope this helps you today! Keep going, you can even start today! Get your vision clear and spell it out. Figure out what works for you and do it! Thank you for giving me a few minutes of your day, I always appreciate it. --> You can connect with me

In this podcast episode, I am going to talk about setting healthy boundaries. Learning about healthy boundaries in my life set my world on fire in the best way possible. One of the biggest questions I get is “How do you do all that you do?” and my answer to that is “I don’t!”. But I do have very clear boundaries that allow me space to be me in a really crazy life. It’s no ones responsibility to know what they’re taking from you. You are the only one who knows whose taking from you and you need to be unashamed in your ability to say yes and no to fight for the things others will never know about. We can put a lot of blame on others for us being exhausted, overwhelmed and conflicted. Often we can expect others to put limits on us in order for us to say no. At the end of the day it’s no one else’s responsibility, we need to show up as adults and own our day and our responsibilities. --> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: t

In this episode, I want to talk to you about your most productive moments, the hours in your day that you use to build your life on purpose, with clarity and passion. These are your tiger hours. They are those two - three hours a day that are your perfect work hours, where you get so much done! I know what it's like to have a busy life and I also know that I am not the only one. So let us steward those hours well, in order to be as productive as possible. That includes setting boundaries, prioritizing our time well and guarding those special hours. When are your tiger hours? Can you set them aside to tackle those things that build and grow you? You'll be amazed how far you can go by simply investing a small amount of time each day! Thanks for tuning in! Book recommendation: Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind By Jocelyn K. Glei https://www.amazon.com/Manage-Your-Day-Day-Creative/dp/1477800670 Also, everything I do is over at truthtotable.com. A place

In this episode, I talk about how we can navigate conflict well. Conflict is normal and sometimes we think without conflict we are peaceful people. It’s important to realize that we can’t resolve everything but we do have a part to play. Today I want to share some things with you that I use almost on a daily basis to resolve conflict and live through conflict. 1. You are fully responsible for yourself. 2. Use empathy and put yourself in someone else’s shoes for a minute. 3. Own up with what you have and ask yourself if you should have a conversation about it. What can you do without the other person participating? 4. Practice saying: “I am so sorry, will you please forgive me?” 5. Let it go and keep no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5). 6. Come up with a plan and ask yourself the right questions. I hope this helps you today. Always ask the Lord to guide you. Let go of the things He is asking you to let go of and fight for the things He is asking you to fight for. “My dear brothers and sisters, take

In this episode, I talk about how we grow and develop our lives especially when we find we are struggling and it feels like we are walking on water. What you are feeling today may not be directly linked to what you invested in today, prayed today or developed today. Everything is because of yesterday. The Bible is very clear that we will reap what we’ve sown, however, what we don’t often realize is that our harvest is directly linked to what we’ve sown long ago. Where are we sowing today in order to reap next year? How are you stewarding what God has given you so that you can double it by next year? What do you want to reap in 2019? It’s important to take ownership of the seeds we’ve been given to sow and steward them well because He wants to entrust more to us. Don’t be discouraged by the doing, step out in confidence and keep going because you are going to reap a great harvest in the future. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We are back for part 3 of the Conversations on Motherhood series! In this podcast, my mother and I have a conversation about the joys and challenges that come with parenting children. We cover topics like fun, the importance of intentionality and taking advantage of every opportunity to sow into our children. My prayer is that this podcast will leave you empowered and ready to sow into the next generation of world changers! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We continue in our series on Motherhood with a special guest and great friend of mine, Lisa Bevere. I blitz Lisa with a handful of questions on what motherhood was like for her and we'll talk about the good, bad and ugly seasons of life as a mom. *Find and connect with Lisa Bevere: www.lisabevere.com www.instagram.com/lisabevere *Buy Lisa's latest book "Adamant" here: www.amzn.to/2KNAefc --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this podcast, I start a new series of conversations on motherhood with a wonderful friend of mine Andi Andrew. We chat about the real-life joys and challenges of motherhood and more. This is the first of a few conversations I'll be hosting on this very relevant and fun topic. To connect with and learn more about Andi Andrew, visit: www.andiandrew.com www.instagram.com/andiandrew Get the Mother's Day gift set here: www.bit.ly/2FvuAug Order by May 9th for delivery for Mother's Day - Signed copy of my newest book Stronger than the Struggle - 12- part E-Course Mom's of Men with Havilah and Lisa Bevere - Beautiful Journal --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We are His creation. If we constantly hate what we see every time we look in the mirror, how can we trust that God has a great plan for our lives? The reality is that the picture we see in the mirror is His greatest work. We are His creation. How He created us, whether we like it or not, was part of His plan and there is an acceptance we have to come to. The message of Jesus has always been one saying we are accepted, made perfect, and loved beyond comprehension. Ground yourself in this reality and self-rejection will begin to lose its power. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this podcast we're continuing with our Growth series. Tune in as we talk all about "development" as a stage of growth. If we miss the season, we will miss the moment. If we don’t know what season we are in and what stage of development we are in, we can often times miss the moment entirely. In order to develop our spiritual life, we need to know what season are in. We need to acknowledge that the season you were in may not be the same season you are in today. “There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven” Ecclesiastes 3:1 (MSG) You must embrace the season you’re in because the moment you embrace the space it becomes easier. “Let us not grow weary or become discouraged in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap, if we do not give in.” Galatians 6:9 *To learn more and join our Truth to Table membership community visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership *To save $10 on your first month register with this podcast only link: ht

Can a Christian have a meltdown? We often times know that a crash or meltdown is coming but we don’t know what to do. In this week’s class, we’re going to talk about "environment." Who are you waiting for to participate for you to live an abundant life? We are called to live an abundant life without anyone else participating. How do you get your power back? Galatians 6:5 (MSG) Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life. The environment in which you are growing life is your responsibility. God is the gardener, he is the center of our life! For more information about becoming a Truth to Table member, visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership Join membership today and save 50% off with this podcast only link: https://truthtotable.com/courses/register/the-table-membership/?coupon=tttria

In this podcast, we'll be starting a new series on Growth: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth. This series will actually give you a sneak peek into our Truth to Table membership experience. Part 1: All growth starts at baseline. It’s often the incremental growth that causes us to become who we want to be and who we are called to be. In this week’s class, we’ll be discussing subtle shifts for radical change. “I Should” is based in shame and it doesn’t allow us to be in the process. It requires us to be perfect and causes discouragement. God does not hold us to the “I Should’s”, he is the ‘I Am” and “I will”. He operates in timing and seasons. Activation: We encourage you to soak in God’s love by listening to “Reckless Love” by Cory Asbury here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xx0d3R2LoU **Special podcast promotion ==> Join Truth to Table Membership and save 50% on your 1st month. (enrollment closes April 17th, 2018) Join here ==> https://bit.ly/2GMtlYN --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spo