My Life My Choice

Do you know the difference between your truth and belief?  Your truth is one of your personal Universal Laws that is used for the manifestation of what you are wanting to create for your life.  Your truth is the LAW upon which the foundation of your belief and belief systems are built.  Your truth is where you live; it’s how you show up in life and how life shows up for you.  Your truth is the adhesive that bonds you to your word, and thus to what you choose to believe.  Your truth dictates how you used the first Universal Law in the Laws of attraction.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expressions coach and artist as we look at what’s the truth about the Universal Law of Truth and you.

Discipline: Definition: activity, exercise, or a regimen that develops or improves a skill; a training.  As a Universal Law, Discipline adds much value to your manifestation process.  Much like belief, faith, silence, gratitude and space, discipline is one of the Universal pillars that support you in staying focused on your objectives.  Discipline improves usability, efficiency and productivity of all the other Universal Laws.  It hones and sharpens their individual and collective actions.  Like all the other Laws, when not used correctly the Universal Law of Discipline will show you what needs to be done, allowing you to course correct and keep yourself on track. Without consciously using the Universal Law of Discipline, it makes it that much harder to navigate the Law of Attraction and manifest what you are wanting for you life. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the Universal Law of Discipline, and how it can improve the odds f

Universal Law of Space supports you in the creation and manifestation of things that you are wanting for your life.   What the Law of Space provides is the understanding that two things cannot occupy the same space at the same time.  So when you are using the Universal Laws of Attraction it’s important to remember this fact.  The Universal Law of Space creates room for the attraction energy to flow unimpeded to the point of creation.  It also so provides you with the space for you to consciously get clear on what you want for your life as well as a multitude of needed to know things when using the Laws of Attraction.   Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we discuss how the Universal Law of Space can support your.

There is a power within gratitude that transcends merely saying thank you or simply being grateful.  When consciously using the Universal Law of Gratitude you are taking the manifestation process to the next level.  Gratitude is more than giving God/The Universe the signal that you have energetically received what you are wanting and that your word IS made manifest. Taking the Law of Gratitude to another level of consciousness means understanding the power that Gratitude wheals for your life, and the underpinning role it plays in the Law of Attraction. Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we explore different facets of the Law of Gratitude.

There is a divine order to everything in creation, including the Universal Laws.  The immutable Laws of Attraction are streams of vibrating energy that transmits your desires to the Universal Creative Process for manifestation.  There is a Universal Law of Divine Order and one of its functions is to oversee the role you play in your manifestation process.  And be under no illusion, you play the starring role in YOUR manifestation process whether you do this consciously or unconsciously. Keeping within the bounds and knowing your role in the manifestation process as stipulated by the Universal Law of Divine Order, isn’t about keeping you from coloring outside the lines; it’s all about giving you the reins, so you take the lead in consciously creating your reality/life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we put into perspective the role you play in YOUR manifestation process.

The Universal Law of Solitude affords us the most amazing experience ever.  It is the end result of The Universal Law of  Silence, which we discuss last week.  Like silence, the Universal Law of Solitude plays an integral role in the creation of what we are wanting to manifest in life.  Understanding the subtle nuances of how the Laws work can be the difference between manifesting what you want for your life, and living a life trying to manifest what you are wanting. Join me, Dr. wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we delve deeply into the Universal law of Solitude and what that may mean to you.

The Universal Law of Silence is multifaceted and malleable like all other Universal Laws with the exception of one. Many people don’t realize the value and the magnitude that consciously choosing to keep silent has on how the Universal Laws of Attraction will work for them.  You’ve heard the sayings, “silence is golden.” Or the proverbial adage, “if you don't have something nice to say, then don't say anything at all.”  Or the one I love “shut the bleep up!”  When consciously using the Laws of Attraction there is a reason for maintaining your silence, and that reason is not about being secretive or sly or cunning.  It’s about creating an energetic dynamic within self, so that you can communicate with your Christ Consciousness, Higher Self, Your God Mind, Spirit or whatever term makes you feel comfortable. Silence creates a space so that, that which you are wanting can develop a strong root system, giving it a chance to thrive or be made manifest.   Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Oliv

It would seem that with every new rerelease of Napoleon Hill’s book “Think & Grow Rich”  and others like it, there is a push to create a master mind group or at the very least to belong to one, grows exponentially.  Yet, for those who do belong, few understand in terms of the Universal Laws what a true master mind means.  The simplicity of the master mind is huge.  Understanding what its true nature and function is, when implemented, will result in you experiencing unparalleled success in all facets of your life. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as well explore the truth about master minds.

Being conflicted about who you are and what you are wanting for your life, will create or manifest or result in conflicted situations, events and experiences.  These will show up in your personal macrosphere as health disorders, financial woes, relationship blues, career blocks, environmental chaos and OMG! I hate my life.  Let’s get clear here, it’s not your life that you hate, it’s the unfolding of it that you hate, because if it was your life that you truly hated, you would cease to exist.  No matter the spiritual or religious doctrine that you personally subscribe to, you will find that this phrase is written everywhere, “what you sow is what you reap.” In the metaphysical community it’s, “what you send out into the Universe  is what comes back to you.”  If you are conflicted it simply means that you don’t have clarity surrounding what you want.  Conflict, in all honesty is not a bad thing and if looked at in its true nature you will see that it invokes the Universal Law of Contrasts.  Join me Dr. Wendy

I get asked this question all the time.  Why can’t I get The Law of Attraction to work for me? People say The Law of Attraction works sometimes; they think this is because they have a vague understanding of the process.  Others say that it’s bogus and it just doesn’t work.  While others can get fairly consistent results, but they are not sure how they’ve achieved them.  Today’s show is about dispelling the uncertainty surrounding  the use of the Laws of Attraction.   It’s also about laying the ground work and establishing a solid foundation upon which you can build.  Remember it’s your foundation and you get to build it the way that will support you best. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and life coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist, as we share some of the fundamentals needed to establish your Laws of Attraction foundation.

 Millions of people have tried it, most have a hard time getting it to work and others are unable to maintain it consistently.  Yet, all seem to be a little more than curious about the Law of attraction, even when all is said and done, most have said it doesn’t work.  In a recent blog I wrote for Coaches4coaches, I stated that The Laws of Attraction have been erroneously condensed down to The Law of Attraction.  Omitting the “s” to make the word law instead of laws, have given the wrong information and impression to millions of people on how conscious manifestation works.   It’s Laws; not law of attraction.  If you want to be able to consistently and consciously manifest what you want in your life you must have an understanding of what this all means. In today’s show we will be discussing the Laws of Attraction verses the law of attraction and what this means for you and your ability to get what you want in life. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we

When you get out of a bad relationship, whether it was just plain and simply wrong, or mentally and or physically abusive, most women and some men know what they don’t want ever again.  In talking with women who have been victims of abuse, most will speak candidly about why they stayed as long as they did.  They’ll discuss the turning point that encouraged them to leave.  They all know categorically what they don’t want to happen in their next relationship.   But, as a choice expert and coach, one of the most startling things I discovered was that most of the women didn’t know what they wanted.  Yes, they had it down in regards to what they didn’t want to happen, but not what they want to happen for their lives, for there future and this can turn out to be problematic. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look beyond what happens after an abusive relationship.

Do you understand the Universal Law of Return? No! Do you really understand what this law means?  It's one of the fundamental laws of attraction that many people have a tendency to gloss over.  As a result return on that type of investment, leads to disastrous occurrences happening in their lives.  The Universal Law of Return is The Law of Attraction 101 and because it's so basic I feel that the raw potential and power of this law it is misunderstood or at the very least, underrated. Join me, Dr Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we look at the latent untapped power found in the Law of Return.

Have you ever asked God or your chosen deity for something, a sign, anything to let you know what you should do next?  And then waited and waited and waited, and then waited some more for an answer?  An answer that didn’t come, only to realize later that you may have missed it because of how events are unfolding in your life.  Did you know that the Universal Creator uses people, places and things to answer your requests?   So why do we miss out on the answers?   Answers which do come to us, yet we don’t seem to hear them. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert as I explore why we may be missing out on some of the most important messages in our lives, and what to do to tune in so you’ll hear them.

For as long as man has known him/herself and continues to know him/herself, this burning question, “what is my spiritual pathway?” will to be asked for eons to come.  Spirituality.  Dictionary.com suggests that it means “the state or quality of being dedicated to God, religion, or spiritual things or values, esp as contrasted with material or immaterial things.” This word encompasses so much, and yet to define it is simply impossible, even when you look in a dictionary. Why is spirituality so hard to define?  Why are people continuously seeking a pathway to spirituality?  Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and Olivia Lashley expression coach & artist as we take a look at spirituality and our pathways to it.

Today’s show is about real talk, real situations and real lives.  Do I, don’t I? What to do.  What not to do. Love, marriage, death, birth, mistakes, nutrition, conscious awareness, spirituality, choices, drugs, divorce illness, relationships, joys, pains are all apart of living.  So we will share our understanding, knowledge and expertise.  We are going to, as I call it, “Picasso Out.”  We’ll be talking on many subjects as they intuitively pop up. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne choice expert and coach and Olivia Lashley expression coach and artist as we sit down and have a fireside chat about life and living it.

Somewhere there has been a huge disconnect between the food we eat and where it comes from.  We have lost the art and understand of the value food brings.  But more importantly we have disconnected from the fact that food by nature of its creation is sentient, making it just as spiritual as you and me.  Like all things including you, food was and has been created on purpose for a purpose.  From texture, to shape, to color, to how and where it is grown plays a vital part how we live our lives.                                                                  "Your body doesn’t give you life: You give your body life." Food isn’t only the purported building block of your life; the food you choose to eat influences the way in which you make your life choices.  And as everything you do for your life is predicated on “choice,” food then become an integral part of your choice making equation. Join me, Dr. Wendy Dearborne, choice expert and coach Olivia Lashley, expression coach and artist as we discuss The Spiritua

Setting life goals is all you hear about these days, but how do you know if you have set the right goal for yourself. Part of achieving and succeeding in what you want in life is determined by the goals that you set for yourself or the end result that you want to happen. Many people set goals and in reality they have not set the stage for success.  You may have set some goals for yourself and found that it felt a tad anticlimactic when the goal was achieved. "Is this feeling normal?  Yes!  Far more than you’d think."  So how do you set goals that will allow you to be successful in all areas of your life and not experience that anticlimactic feeling? Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and artist as we look way in which to set your life goals.

It happens all the time, images in black and white or full Technicolor surge to the forefront of your mind making you feel like screaming, crying and curling up into a tiny ball. Words, sounds, the memory of smells, the visceral feelings that you felt, the knowing within your scope of understanding that you know, the visions of past events that you’d rather keep buried or locked in the recesses of your mind.  New and old hurts that you’ve dissected and then catalogued for some sort of future reference…if needed.   The problem is, these catalogued events seem to magically escape the mental lock and key and surge to the forefront of your mind replaying like a horror movie starring you.  This is what I call going down into the rabbit hole of Alice’s wonder-land.  I wonder if I said this or I wonder if I did that.  These innocent questions start a chain reaction that compound.  And before you know it, somehow you’ve slipped and the perceived negativity that has happened in the past now runs rampant around your

Finding a new perspective for an old or new troubling situation can be a challenge.  It’s a challenge, because looking at the situation in the same way, from the same vantage point, doesn’t inspire new and creative thinking.   To create a new perspective, you have to take a step away from the situation.  This will enable you to look at it from a slightly different vantage point, or at the very least move around it.  Whatever you choose to do, the requirement is for you to find an answer to your troubling situation. And to achieve that you must do something different.    You may be familiar with the phrase, “I need to take a step back from the situation so I can clear my head!”  What does that really mean to you?  Outside of you wanting change, there is within that driving force something compelling you to do something different. You may have thought to solve your problem that you must change the attitudes, beliefs mindsets etc. of the players involved.  Changing or manipulating people, places and things to