Empower ~ Enlighten ~ Envision

Take a good look at the relationship you are in. Are you being treated unfairly, unkindly or unjustly? Do you fear the relationship is falling apart as the two of you drift further apart? Is there more drama in your relationship than there is on television? Do you find your self-esteem, self-respect and dignity, free-falling off a cliff? Are you frequently tolerating behavior and treatment you swore you never would? Lets face it.. does your relationship suck? Well then you are in a dysfunctional relationship and let's be real here.. there is no FUN in dysfunctional relationships.

50 Ways to LOSE Your Lover.. Nope that is not a typo. People can become so focused on what they can do to keep their romantic partner around they unwittingly miss what they are doing to repel them. There are so many ways to turn a guy, or gal, off and make them head for the hills so fast they leave skid marks. Now is your opportunity to learn what they are, so you do not do them, and risk losing your lover...unless you want to, of course. Otherwise known as "The Silly Girls Way to Get Her Guy to Dump Her".

Relationships can be confusing and it is often difficult to tell what your romantic partner thinks and feels concerning your relationship. If their words say one thing but their actions say something completely different, you may feel your are on a roller coaster ride to nowhere. Tonight we will give you your own personal decoder ring to help you figure out if actions speak louder than words or vice versa.

Taking a detour from our usual relationship topics we are focusing on being accountable and responsible for our lives. Rather than staying stuck as a victim, when we are accountable and responsible, we take ownership of our careers, relationships, and ourselves. Although at times we may feel like pawns in the chess game of life, we all have Free Will to make changes at any time we feel victimized, unhappy or disempowered. Life really does not happen by chance, we must be willing to be accountable and responsible for our own fate.

Relationships come in and out of our lives. It is the natural flow of how relationships work. Sometimes someone is in your life for a lifetime, but very often the one we love is only in our life for a reason or a season... or even just a few weeks. When you are hanging onto the wrong relationship, with the wrong person, to try and make it work, you could be creating a block for the right person to enter your life. Some relationships are meant to work out and last, but others simply are not. How do you know if your relationship is meant to last?

Are you ready to take action to create the job you desire? Do you want a relationship that is loving, supportive and giving? Are you living the life you want? Are you fulfilling your dreams? If you are just trudging through life, reacting to everything that comes your way, how about taking a more proactive approach?  Tonight we will share insight and provide guidance on how to secure the job, relationship or life you have been yearning for. You can live the life you dreamed,  you just have to know how to co-create it with the Universe.  Sarah and Sophia will support your ability to regain control over the obstacles and people that are getting in the way of your hopes, dreams and desires and empower you to live the life you want to live and deserve. They will bring you out of the darkness and into the light and give clarity to all your questions about career, finances, life path and love.

Defeating fear can be a major obstacle for many people. They say the only thing to fear is fear itself. But fear is a very real thing in all of our lives. We can fear failure and rejection in our personal and professional relationships. Fear and Love are the only two human emotions that truly exist. If we have fear we can not experience love and when we are love, all fears and negative emotions dissipate. Where to do you fall? Do you live with fearful emotions of anger, depression, insecurity, worthlessness and anxiety? Or are you joyful, peace-filled and happy with your life and living in the space of love? During our broadcast we will discuss how fear can manifest in your romantic relationships and cause you to behave in ways that could be disastrous to your love life. We will discuss how you can start to get control of your fears and the negative emotions that go with that and replace them with love.

There is no topic for today's episode as we have decided to answer your quesitons about spirituality and metaphysics. At the end of our last episode, we encouraged our listeners to write in there spiritual or metaphsyical questions which we will answer live on the air for you. Spirituality and metaphysics covers a wide variety of topics including spiritual growth, manifestation, soulmates, twinflames, how the Universe works, spirit guides and many other areas. 

Having unrealistic expectations in relationships can prevent you from finding real love. We all listened to tales of Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and Cinderella when we were kids and have held on to the fantasy that "some day my prince will come". In the real world, this usually does not happen, and yet, most of us want it. Instead of seeing the reality of the relationship in front of us we can allow our fantasies to distort real love. 

Patience and waiting are so important to prevent doing something you regret by  being impatient. We have heard it many times over when we do readings with our clients, that it is very difficult to be patient, especially when you are waiting for something you really REALLY want. We agree! However, when you become impatient and feel a need to take action, you can actually push that thing you want so badly further and further away from you!! During our broadcast we will discuss why waiting and patience are so important, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. When we are in an emotional state we are not thinking logically. We want something and we want it NOW!! Remember Veruka Salt from Willy Wonka and how she wanted everything NOW? Well, she went right down the garbage shoot!

At times a soulmate relationship can get stuck, or broken, and you find you are at a stalemate. Soulmate relationships are often challenging ones, and getting unstuck will require some effort and work. Many people believe soulmate relationships will work out based on some kind of divine intervention. This is usually never the case. We will spend about the first 30 minutes discussing this topic as only Sarah and Sophia can do. Sarah and Sophia Elise have been providing guidance to thousands of women (and men) for over two decades. They will help you reach your highest potential in love, career, finances and all other aspects of your life. No SCHTICK, no airy FAIRY TALES, just REAL PSYCHIC READINGS with REALISTIC ADVICE!

Does your relationship make the grade? Better yet, do you pass the tests on how you handle the different dynamics in your relationship? There is a grading system for diamonds, work evaluations, college entrance exams as well as scholastic endeavors in general. There is even a grading system in place for eggs! A grading system allows us to test by some predetermined standard, if something qualifies to 'pass' based on those defined guidelines. But when it comes to our relationships, which are supposed to be some of the most important things in our lives, it seems that any qualifications or guidelines go right out the window! Do you have guidelines set up to see if a relationship can qualify? What guidelines should be in place? Does your relationship pass the test? During this show we will also be doing FREE PSYCHIC READINGS, so now is your opportunity to get your questions answered by both of us, at the same time. If you have not been able to speak to us and need clarity on something, give us a call during sho

Hints are subtle. They can help us uncover more details and find answers, but we have to really be able to see them to get them. When it comes to our romantic relationships, dating and love, hints can present themselves in several different ways. These are intended to allow us to see the reality of the situation and provide little glimpses into feelings, intentions and behaviors your romantic partner or person or interest may be trying to hide.  Furthermore, in romantic situations, both parties may be throwing their own hints, and be completely oblivious to the little clues that are being sent in their direction. Hints are like clues to the future, and if we pay more attention to them we can shape the future of our relationships, avoid the wrong relationships, and detour around the potholes in our relationships.

It seems that everyone is attracted to a certain 'type' of man or woman who they believe meet a certain number of physical or character traits. Also the 'type' we are attracted to may change over time. But when we insist that we must find someone who meets our 'type' criteria are we deliberately sabotaging our relationship possibilities and limiting ourselves from finding real love? 

When it comes to relationships, passive aggressive behavior can take on many forms. Some of these behaviors are very easy to spot while others can be very subtle, going unnoticed for years. Passive aggressive behavior always avoids an honest, direct approach when dealing with your romantic partner, and always deteriorates to acting out, usually in a childish way. You may achieve a temporary result by being passive aggressive, but the ultimate result will be either an unhappy relationship or a relationship that ends. Passive aggressive behavior never solves the problems, it only creates more. Are you guilty of being passive aggressive in your relationship? Is your partner exhibiting passive aggressive tendencies? Learn how to identify passive aggressive behavior and what you can do about it with tonight's session of Empower Enlighten Envision your Life!

People seek closure from relationships so they can move on and let go of the past but in some cases getting closure seems to be as difficult to find as the holy grail. So many say they need closure from their relationships. But do they really need closure or do they 'need' it as a way to keep obsessing about an ex? Do you really need someone else to give you closure? Why can't you find that closure from within yourself? If someone has closed the door on your relationship, by ending it or being with someone else, this should be enough closure for you to move on with your life.

Love triangles might be entertaining in soap operas, Lifetime TV movies or romantic comedies, but in real life they suck! Relationships are supposed to involve two people, and when a third person is introduced into that relationship, it will be devastating for one of them while the other two could be totally oblivious to anything except their own fun and games.  A love triangle never ends with all three people involved having a happy ending. Someone will lose, it always happens that way.   Sponsored by Voice of the Angels.com. New clients click here for a free 3 minute psychic reading at Voice of the Angels.com.

Everyone says they hate drama in their relationships... but they seem to participate in it no matter what. How can you identify drama queens and kings so you can steer clear of them in your relationships? If you are in a relationship with a drama queen or king what course of action should you take to ensure you can live in the drama free zone?  Sponsored by Voice of the Angels.com. New clients click here for a free 3 minute psychic reading at Voice of the Angels.com.  

Have you ever noticed that some appearances can be deceiving? We may know someone, work with someone or see someone at the gym who we might think would make a good romantic partner. But would they? You only know them in one context, as a friend, work mate or gym friend and have no idea how they would really perform in a romantic relationship. Before you go off fantasizing about the perfect relationship you could have if you only had your neighbor's husband or  son's baseball coach, you need to really see and understand that you are only seeing one side of that person. You don't know them. You don't really know how any of these people you project romantic fantasies on really are in a real life relationship. What looks good on the outside, may not be so attractive on the inside, especially when it comes to love.  Sponsored by Voice of the Angels.com. New clients click here for a free 3 minute psychic reading at Voice of the Angels.com.

When it comes to love, there are times when people just allow their logic to go right out the window.  They find ways to justify their relationships with emotional logic. With emotional logic, there really is no logic and all decisions, are emotionally based, and make zero sense to the logical mind. By fabricating illogical reasons to stay stuck in unhealthy situations, people are refusing to view their relationships from a realistic place. When you think with your heart and emotions instead of with your brain and your logic, common sense is twisted into excuses you use to justify your bad love and relationship decisions. How do you know if you are using emotional logic to make decisions regarding your relationship? How do you move from a place of thinking with your heart toward logical thinking? Tonight we are talking about emotional logic and why using it just simply DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE! Sponsored by Voice of the Angels.com. New clients click here for a free 3 minute psychic reading at Voice of the Ang