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Hints are subtle. They can help us uncover more details and find answers, but we have to really be able to see them to get them. When it comes to our romantic relationships, dating and love, hints can present themselves in several different ways. These are intended to allow us to see the reality of the situation and provide little glimpses into feelings, intentions and behaviors your romantic partner or person or interest may be trying to hide.  Furthermore, in romantic situations, both parties may be throwing their own hints, and be completely oblivious to the little clues that are being sent in their direction. Hints are like clues to the future, and if we pay more attention to them we can shape the future of our relationships, avoid the wrong relationships, and detour around the potholes in our relationships.

At different phases of our lives we have probably been attracted to a specific type of man or woman. Blonde, brunette, blue-eyed, brown-eyed, tall or short.. it seems that most of us may have specific characteristics in another we find attractive and desirable. What about defining the type of person we find desirable based on their personality and character? Maybe we want someone who is loyal, kind, passionate and a lot of fun to be around. If you have always found yourself dating the same type of person, with dark hair and dark eyes for example, but every relationship with your type left you feeling miserable, lonely and betrayed, wouldn't it be time to rethink what your definition of the right type should be? When we focus to closely on a specific type of person to fulfill our romantic lives, we are very often shutting ourselves off to many people who may be a better type for us because they would never betray us. SO tonight we will ask you.. what is the right type for you?

It's that time again! Last time we did this show we had such a great response from you guys, so once again, we are are taking a break from our regular relationship discussion format and making this show all about YOU and how we can help you. While the majority of our listeners enjoy our relationship topics, a few have told us that they want to hear us do more live readings ... so we have heard you! This show is about YOU. I This show is all about FREE PSYCHIC READINGS, so now is your opportunity to get your questions answered by both of us, at the same time. If you have not been able to speak to us and need clarity on something, give us a call during show time at . Also make use of the Instant feedback option during show time because if we don't answer it on the air, chances are we will answer it on our Facebook Fan page after the show!!   

When it comes to relationships, passive aggressive behavior can take on many forms. Some of these behaviors are very easy to spot while others can be very subtle, going unnoticed for years. Passive aggressive behavior always avoids an honest, direct approach when dealing with your romantic partner, and always deteriorates to acting out, usually in a childish way. You may achieve a temporary result by being passive aggressive but the ultimate result will be either an unhappy relationship or a relationship that ends. Passive aggressive behavior never solves the problems, it only creates more. Are you guilty of being passive aggressive in your relationship? Is your partner exhibiting passive aggressive tendencies? Learn how to identify passive aggressive behavior and what you can do about it with tonight's session of Empower Enlighten Envision your Life!

Closure seems to be as difficult to find in some cases as the holy grail. People seek closure from relationships so they can move on and let go of the past. So many say they need closure from their relationships. But do they really need closure or do they 'need' it as a way to keep obsessing about an ex? Do you really need someone else to give you closure? Why can't you find that closure from within yourself? So, what is it exactly that you need to get closure? Is the path to closure right in front of you yet you are refusing to take the necessary steps to achieve it? If someone has closed the door on your relationship, by ending it or being with someone else, this should be enough closure for you to move on with your life.  

Love triangles might be entertaining in soap operas, Lifetime TV movies or romantic comedies, but in real life they suck! Relationships are supposed to involve two people, and when a third person is introduced into that relationship, it will be devastating for one of them while the other two could be totally oblivious to anything except their own fun and games. What is a love triangle? Well it is a relationship made up of three people, there were two people in the relationship and then one of the parties decided to bring in a third member, usually without telling their partner. Love triangles are selfish because two parties are satisfying their own needs without considering the third member. A love triangle never ends with all three people involved having a happy ending. Someone will lose, it always happens that way.

Do you have drama in your relationship? Are you a Drama Queen because it is the only way you can get your guy to do what you want? Every says they hate drama, especially when it comes to their relationships. Why then, do many people who are in relationships engage in so much drama, or when it is not there, create it themselves? People bring drama into their relationships to get power and control over their romantic partner. Drama Kings and Drama Queens make the worst romantic partners because you will never be able to please them. They will never be happy. You could give them the world and all you will get is more drama....and bullying. Do you know how to spot a Drama Queen or Drama King? What is the best course of action you should take if you find yourself in a melodramatic relationship?  If you are one of the ones who insists that you don't want drama in your life, or the emotional ups and downs that consistently go with that, why are you still in a relationship with a Drama Queen or Drama King?

Have you ever noticed that some appearances can be deceiving? We may know someone, work with someone or see someone at the gym who we might think would make a good romantic partner. But would they? You only know them in one context, as a friend, work mate or gym friend and have no idea how they would really perform in a romantic relationship. Before you go off fantasizing about the perfect relationship you could have if you only had your neighbor's husband or  son's baseball coach, you need to really see and understand that you are only seeing one side of that person. You don't know them. You only know them as the guy who brings pizza, cleans the pool or cuts the lawn. Sure your co-worker may have his work like together because he makes more sales than anyone else and is on the fast track for promotion, but what is his marriage like?  You don't really know for sure. You don't really know how any of these people in your life you may project romantic fantasies on really are in a real life relationship. What loo

When it comes to love, there are times people throw logic right out the window.  They find ways to justify their relationships with emotional logic. With emotional logic, there really is no logic and all decisions, are emotionally based, making zero sense to the logical mind. By fabricating illogical reasons to stay stuck in unhealthy situations, people are refusing to view their relationships from a realistic place. When you think with your heart and emotions instead of with your brain and your logic, common sense is twisted into excuses you use to justify your bad love and relationship decisions. How do you know if you are using emotional logic to make decisions regarding your relationship? How do you move from a place of thinking with your heart toward logical thinking? Tonight we are talking about emotional logic and why using it just simply DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE!

So many people think about creating change in their lives and their relationships. Unfortunately, many expect these things to change as the result of a miracle. When we want change in our lives, we have a responsibility to ourselves to be instrumental in creating that change. It is part of the reason we are here, to grow and evolve, and to change what we don't want or like in our lives, to make them better... to have the lives we want. We can find excuse after excuse to stay stuck and not create the changes we desire and often need, out of our own fears, insecurity or instability. On the other hand, when we do create change, we can often become impatient, expecting the changes we are making to manifest outwardly in a very short period of time, which is very unrealistic. Tonight we will discuss creating the changes you want in your life, what to expect from those changes and why it can take a while to reflect these changes in our lives. Bottom line is REAL CHANGE takes time... do you have what it takes to chan

In today's fast-paced, quick-moving world, so many people seem to want everything right away. Instant oatmeal, instant pudding, faster phones, high-speed this and that, and unfortunately, many also believe they can have instant relationships. When you fall into an instant relationship you are not allowing yourself to get to know your romantic partner, nor allowing them to know you. What happened to the days of allowing things to unfold naturally, while you are dating and learning about each other? What happens when you fall into an instant relationship? The majority of instant relationships are doomed to fail. They just do not have the foundation required to build a lasting loving relationship. They are all about the hype and not about the substance, which is what real love requires.

At times you may find yourself in a relationship with someone who is just not available, either physically or emotionally. Life is just too short to waste on someone who is unavailable, because these guys and girls, are very difficult to be with. When you are emotionally available to them but they are not with you, the relationship will be very unbalanced, dysfunctional and draining.  This situation happens quite a bit when it comes to matters of the heart, that the one we love is emotionally unavailable but what can be done about it? Sometimes the relationships we want to work out the most, don’t.  Not all emotionally unavailable men will stay that way. Will the one you love ever be emotionally available to you? Is there any way you can help create that change? Loving someone who is emotionally unavailable is very draining because you are doing all the work. They are doing nothing. You are giving and not receiving anything. You can only do that for so long until all your reserves are gone. Sitting back and h

When you are stuck in a difficult situation, waiting for something to change, do you often feel the need to do something? Are you action oriented?  A mover and a shaker who just gets things done, and makes things happen? Are there times when you have tried to force something, by taken action, only to see if fall apart? Do you believe that if YOU don't do something, no one ever will? Do you try to create change, even at the risk of creating a negative change to your situation? There are times and occasions where taking action is a good thing, like when you are preparing for a hurricane. Then again, there are actually times when it is best to stand down, be idle, and do nothing. Doing nothing, can be one of the hardest things to do, but very often the only thing to do, especially where life lessons are involved.

Are you the victim of a toxic relationship? Have you lost the confident, self-assured woman you used to be? Can you barely recognize who you are anymore? Has your joy been replaced by fear, worry and insecurity? If you are in a relationship with a toxic man (or woman) you have probably lost complete control of your life. A toxic relationship is the most difficult of dysfunctional relationships. There is no way to win with a toxic man, no matter how hard you try or how much you love him. It is time to seriously consider a DETOX and get the toxicity out of your life, once and for all.

Have you ever had a friend who disappeared from your life when she started a new relationship? Have you ever abandoned your family and friends because they disapprove of your romantic partner because they think your relationship is no good for you? Do you put your romantic partners feelings and desires before those of your family or friends who have always been there for you? Do you sacrifice your own desires and needs at the expense of your 'team'? If your family does not think he is the right one for you, perhaps they have experienced changes in your behavior and personality.

Is your romantic partner pushing the envelope with their bad behavior? Do you wonder why they keep crossing your boundaries? Why aren't they afriad of the consequences? Do you ask yourself (and others) “Why aren't they afraid of losing me?” There are two answers to this question: 1)Because you have taken all that fear away and 2)Because they really don't care if they lose you! Which one is it? Today, you will find out!

Mercury retrograde usually occurs three or four times per year, wreaking havoc upon our personal lives as well as our relationships. Mercury rules communication, travel, the internet and all electronic gadgets. We can expect travel delays, miscommunications, missed communications, computer snafus and crashes, appliances breaking, appointment cancellations and problems with our automobiles. With all the craziness in our communication attempts we usually experience misunderstandings and arguments in our romantic, professional and personal relationships. So how exactly will Mercury effect you? Listen in and find out!

Valentine’s Day evokes thoughts of chocolate, flowers, romantic cards, and cherubic angels shooting us with arrows. There are special diamonds, jewelry, lingerie and secret indulgences you can buy your Valentine. Much of today's society views Valentine’s Day as an obligation who feel they better recognize their sweetheart with flowers and fluff or endure resentment for the rest of the year. Yes folks, it is Valentines day once again, and in many cases, it won't live up to the hype or the high expectations placed on what is allegedly the most romantic day of the year.

Many women have searched for Mr. Right, think they have finally found him, only to discover later on that he is Mr. Wrong. They may even try to turn this Mr. Wrong into Mr. Right, erroneously thinking that he will still fulfill their dreams and expectations in their relationship. We really are all smart enough to notice when a Mr. Wrong enters our lives and we should get away from him as fast as we can. But what do we do? Wait it out, hoping he will change into Mr. Right. This weeks show will focus on how to differentiate between Mr. Wrong and Mr. Right and what you can do about it.

Do you love someone but have no clue how they feel about you? Are you unable to figure out, without that decoder ring, what they are thinking, feeling or wanting from you, because their actions and words are in conflict. Mixed signals and inconsistent behavior may have you so confused at this point, you are not even sure which way is up! Do you try to read between the lines but usually end up on seeing a blur? Well tonight, we are discussing how to read between the lines, when you need to do it, when you don't need to do it and how to do it right.