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"One person can't fix the relationship alone." Dr. Emily Jamea    In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz speaks with Dr. Emily Jamea, a sex and relationship therapist, about the intricacies of intimacy, the importance of planning sexual encounters, and the challenges women face in maintaining desire amidst the demands of modern life. Dr. Jamea shares insights from her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' and discusses the concept of flow state in sexual experiences, the impact of technology on intimacy, and the necessity of emotional connection in relationships. The dialogue emphasizes the need for couples to actively cultivate passion and connection, especially in the context of parenting and busy lifestyles. In this conversation, Emily Jamea discusses the significance of pre-marital counseling, the critical role of sexual satisfaction in relationships, and the challenges faced in sex therapy. She emphasizes the importance of communication and adaptability in relationships, and shares insights on enh

"Life is short; have an affair." ~ Ashely Madison Website    I'm uncertain about this tagline and the concept of a "dating site for married people," but it's important to hear other people's perspectives on Doing Relationships Right! So, here we go! People like you join the Ashley Madison® network daily to find discreet relationships. Married, attached, looking to explore, or just curious to discover what's out there – Ashley Madison is the world's leading discreet, like-minded dating community. In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Paul Keable, the Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison. The discussion explores the complexities of infidelity, discreet affairs, and the dynamics of non-monogamous relationships. It delves into the reasons behind cheating, the importance of security and privacy in online dating, and Ashley Madison's unique business model. Keable shares insights on gender perspectives regarding infidelity and highlights the platform's role in providing a space for individua

Is EGG FREEZING right for you?  In this engaging conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Beth Gulotta, a licensed mental health counselor and host of the podcast 'Quiet the Clock.' They discuss Beth's journey from finance to mental health, the societal pressures surrounding relationships and parenthood, and the importance of egg freezing. Beth shares her experiences with egg freezing, its emotional weight, and the significance of being ready for major life decisions. The conversation also touches on the changing dynamics of dating, the importance of understanding fertility health, and the need for supportive environments for women navigating these choices. Takeaways:  Beth transitioned from finance to mental health counseling. The podcast 'Quiet the Clock' addresses societal pressures on women. Egg freezing is a personal decision that can alleviate pressure. Time is perceived negatively, but it can be a gift. Readiness for relationships and parenthood is crucial. Women often feel societal pressure to have

"The greatest legacy is love." ~Dr. Kimberly Harms  We all know the importance of life insurance to make certain our loved ones are financially secure after we pass on, but what can we do to ensure they are emotionally secure without us?  Dr. Kimberly Harms has been around the block in life!  She has served as a Commissioned Officer in the United States Public Health Service, a dental school professor, a grief counselor, a clinical dentist and practice owner with her late husband Jim in Farmington, MN, a death doula, a civil mediator, a school board Chair, President of an international women's organization, the first woman President of the Minnesota Dental Association, co-founder of the 65 Eric Harms Memorial Libraries through Books for Africa in Rwanda, an award-winning bestselling author and an international speaker.  She has also suffered many personal losses, including the suicide deaths of her mother and son and the death from the broken heart of her husband, Jim. Her most important role now is as a moth

In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz reflects on her life as she turns 52, sharing valuable lessons she wishes she had known earlier. From self-care tips like wearing sunscreen and using Retin-A to the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health, Jennifer emphasizes the significance of personal growth and self-love. She also discusses the impact of alcohol on health, the necessity of dental care, and the value of travel and experiences in shaping one's identity. The episode concludes with a heartfelt birthday wish and a call to action for listeners to support her work. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Life and Birthdays 03:53 The Importance of Boundaries and Saying No 07:16 Mental Health Awareness and Support 09:44 Understanding Alcohol and Its Effects 12:08 Finding Your Authentic Self 14:29 The Value of Travel and Experiences   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's

Looking for Coconu? Here you go! Just use my code MS15 to get 15% off your first order! https://discovercoconu.com/shop.php In this episode, Jennifer and Jim discuss the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They explore various symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and mood swings, and emphasize the importance of communication and support between partners. The conversation highlights the emotional and physical changes during menopause and offers practical advice for maintaining intimacy and understanding. They also touch on the mental health aspects of menopause and the need for patience and open dialogue in relationships. Takeaways Menopause can significantly affect relationships and intimacy. Communication is critical to supporting a partner through menopause. Hot flashes and night sweats are common symptoms that should be acknowledged. It's essential not to take a partner's lack of interest in sex personally. Menopause can lead to increased anxiety and depression. Sup

"We have to go in there and find out what the core wounds are associated with the trauma and recondition those ideas about ourselves." ~Thais Gibson  In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Thais Gibson, a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School. They discuss topics such as shadow work and attachment styles. Shadow work explores and integrates the parts of ourselves that we try to deny or hide. It involves identifying triggers and examining the root causes of our reactions. In this conversation, Thais Gibson discusses the importance of reconditioning core wounds and beliefs about oneself to heal from trauma and develop a secure attachment style. She emphasizes the need to move beyond simply blaming others for our problems and instead focus on understanding and changing our beliefs. Thais also explains the five key pillars of becoming securely attached: reconditioning core wounds, knowing and communicating our needs, setting boundaries, regulating our nervous system, and positivel

 "You need to know if you like the human being. How you feel with them, if they are good, you can work on the rest later. If you don't like the human being, I don't care how they feel. It means nothing." ~ Aleeza Ben Shalom  Aleeza Ben Shalom is a renowned matchmaker, dating coach, speaker, and soulmate clarity expert who empowers marriage-minded singles to find The One. As a dating coach, Aleeza works with people of all backgrounds. Her impressive track record has earned her the title of “Jewish Dating Guru,” as she has successfully coached hundreds of people, regardless of age, affiliation, or life stage. As an entrepreneur and the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, she connects singles globally with skilled professionals, having trained over 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide. Aleeza has been featured across various media platforms, including The Cut, NBC News Daily, Men’s Health, NPR, Rolling Stone, Good Day NY, Time Out, The Guardian, and Insider. She lives in Israel. If you watched the first s

In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses dating during midlife and provides tips for navigating the modern dating scene. She emphasizes the importance of being authentic, confident, and patient while dating. Jennifer also encourages daters to be open-minded and to use technology effectively. She reminds listeners to stay positive and not settle for perfection. Overall, she highlights the rewards and challenges of dating over 50 and offers her services as a dating coach. Takeaways Dating during midlife differs from dating in your 20s or 30s and comes with challenges. Be authentic to yourself when dating. Embrace your unique qualities and be honest about your interests, values, and goals. Prioritize your health and well-being, both physically and emotionally, and be confident in yourself. Be open-minded and date outside of your usual type or criteria. Focus on deep connections and broadening your horizons. Learn to use technology effectively for online dating and be mindful of your online presence.

If a financial counselor and a personal organizer decided to create the perfect "lab love child," it would be Nikki Tucker! She's a mom and financial professional who firmly believes all women deserve financial security. Going through a separation or divorce is hard enough. When a woman’s economic security is threatened, the stress can become overwhelming. Nikki’s goal is to help women feel confident, inspired, and ready to take control of their financial futures during one of the most challenging times of their lives. In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Nikki Tucker, a financial professional and mom, about the importance of financial security in relationships. They discuss the impact of money stories on individuals and relationships, the need for financial compatibility, and how to approach money conversations in relationships. They also touch on red flags in money-related relationships and the importance of teaching children about money from a young age. In this conversation, Jennifer and Nikk

Is texting another person when you're in a relationship cheating?  In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz discusses whether texting someone while in a relationship is considered cheating. She believes that if you are doing something you can't share with your partner, it is cheating. She shares her experience texting her ex and how it started to feel wrong. Jennifer also talks about poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it. She provides examples of when texting can be considered emotional cheating and emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and communication in relationships. Takeaways Texting someone while in a relationship can be considered cheating if it is something you can't share with your partner. Poaching, where someone reaches out to a person in a relationship and tries to undermine it, is a common issue in relationships. Examples of emotional cheating through texting include skipping time with your partner to text someone else, sending risque or

"Acknowledge and notice the times when you didn't listen to your intuition and learn from those experiences." ~ Colby Rebel  Colby Rebel is an award-winning International Celebrity Psychic Medium, best-selling author, and host of the acclaimed Colby Rebel Show podcast. Her unmatched accuracy and precise guidance have made her the go-to confidante of Hollywood’s elite, serving a roster of celebrity and influencer clients. Colby’s unique no-tools approach emphasizes her authenticity and natural gifts and has made her one of the most sought-after psychic mediums of our time. In 2022, she was awarded the distinguished title of Best Psychic of Los Angeles.  In this conversation, Jennifer Hurvitz interviews Colby Rebel, an award-winning psychic medium. They discuss intuition, trusting oneself, forgiveness, and fearing death. Colby shares insights on how to trust your intuition, including surrendering to the universe and practicing breathwork. She also emphasizes the importance of forgiveness for personal healing an

In this episode, host Jennifer Hurvitz interviews private investigators Bari Kroll and Jennifer Rosant about infidelity and cheating in relationships. They discuss the prevalence of cheating, the role of social media in infidelity, and the different types of cheating. The private investigators also share their stories of getting into the business and explain the process of hiring a PI. They emphasize the importance of trust and communication in relationships and offer advice for those who suspect their partner is cheating. In this conversation, Bari Kroll and Jen Rosant discuss the signs of infidelity and the role of technology in relationships. They emphasize the importance of trust, communication, and the need to listen to intuition. They also share tips for investigating suspicions of cheating, such as checking phone bills and receipts. The conversation highlights the impact of past experiences and trauma on relationships and the importance of therapy in moving forward. Bari and Jen also mention their podc

 In this episode, Jennifer Hurvitz shares the best relationship advice she has ever heard and uses when coaching. She emphasizes the importance of saying goodbye and hello to your loved ones, learning how to communicate effectively, understanding attachment styles and love languages, and watching your tone. She also discusses the benefits of sharing household and child-rearing duties, finding levity in the relationship, taking turns in emotional support, prioritizing mental and physical health, picking your battles, owning your mistakes, staying calm during arguments, and never stopping dating your partner.   Takeaways  Always say goodbye and hello to your loved ones. Learn how to communicate effectively and seek help if needed. Understand your attachment style and your partner's. Be aware of your love language and your partner's. Watch your tone and avoid belittling or emasculating your partner. Share household and child-rearing duties to increase happiness in the relationship. Find levity and laughte

In this episode of Doing Relationships Right, we dive deep into sober dating.  Whether you're newly sober or have been sober for years, dating can present unique challenges and opportunities. I’m thrilled to have my guest, Holly Walsh, a Positive Psychology and Alcohol-Free Coach. Holly is a positive psychology and alcohol-free coach and will host wellness retreats starting in 2025. She has been sober for almost one year and will be launching a sober dating app so that people can go on dates without alcohol! She is also training to become a yoga teacher and is on an exciting path of self-development that happened when she stopped drinking in 2023. Join us as we explore tips, share personal stories, and offer insights on how to build meaningful connections without the influence of alcohol. Understanding Sober Dating  What does sober dating mean, and why is it important? The benefits of dating without alcohol. Challenges of Sober Dating Common hurdles faced by those in recovery. Navigating social si

Jennifer Hurvitz returns with a new season of Doing Relationships Right!  She's got BIG NEWS to share!  She briefly updates her life and introduces her new gig as a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today. Jennifer also mentions her courses and offers an Ask Me Anything session for those seeking dating advice. She encourages listeners to follow her on YouTube and Instagram. Jennifer is excited to be back and looks forward to connecting with her audience. Takeaways Jennifer Hurvitz is back with a new season of Doing Relationships Right She is a relationship guest expert on Charlotte Today Jennifer offers courses and an Ask Me Anything session for dating advice Listeners are encouraged to follow her on YouTube and Instagram Happy Dating and Healthy Relationships!  xo j   Doing Relationships Right hits the pages of VOGUE MAGAZINE- check it out!  Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT! 

  If you don't already know, your attachment style, which is basically how you relate to others in your close relationships, falls into one of four categories: secure, anxious, avoidant (sometimes known as dismissive-avoidant), and disorganized (also known as fearful-avoidant). Today, we’ll focus on romantic relationships with someone with an avoidant attachment style — a discomfort with emotional closeness, a deep need for independence, and a reluctance to rely on others. Having a relationship with someone with this attachment style has some unique challenges.  Thank you, Jim Healey, for being so honest and open!  Happy Dating!  xo j      Please grab a copy of Midlife Priceless wherever you find your books! jenniferhurvitz.com Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!    Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/ Youtube: CLICK HERE ♥️ TikTok: CLICK HERE! Pin

Are you finding the guy but need help to get past the three-month mark?  Does online dating seem frightening and way too time-consuming?  Give this episode of the Doing Relationships Right podcast a listen to learn about the dating mistakes you might be making and how to fix them! Dating isn't easy. I've experienced divorce, dated, and been in numerous relationships - some good, some not so good. I've lived it, so I understand! Dating can be challenging, but it can also be amazing!

We're back and better than ever- after our one year breakup, that is!  Today's episode features my all-time favorite guest, Jim Healey, my best friend and partner for the last eight years.  We will delve into our entire story, including what's beyond the pages of my book, Midlife Priceless, and leave no topic untouched. In this episode, we're plunging into a subject many of you have been asking about navigating the path of rekindling a relationship with your ex the right way! It's been some time since I last recorded an episode, and Jim and I haven't spoken on my show in over a year. Our discussion was nerve-wracking and emotional as we shared our personal lives. But, we recognize that our conversation may help those experiencing relationship struggles. We're excited to share this with you! xo j    Here's the link to my Online Dating Course: DOING DATING RIGHT!      Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast   Where to find me: W

  In this episode, we delve deep into gaslighting in relationships. We discuss what gaslighting is, its signs and symptoms, the psychological impact on victims, and ways to address and overcome it. Jennifer shares her personal experiences with gaslighting and how she found herself in these situations repeatedly, even in her role as a coach. Jennifer will discuss:    - Definition and origins of the term "gaslighting."    - Historical context and examples. Identifying Gaslighting    - Common tactics used by gaslighters.    - Signs and symptoms of being gaslighted.    - Real-life examples and scenarios.  Impact of Gaslighting    - Short-term and long-term effects on mental health.    - How gaslighting undermines self-esteem and self-trust.    - The cycle of abuse and why it’s hard to break free. Handling Gaslighting in Relationships    - Strategies for recognizing and acknowledging gaslighting.    - Communication techniques to address the behavior.    - When and how to seek professional help. Recovery and Healin