Beyond Bitchy: Mastering The Art Of Boundaries

This is the fifth of a five-part series taking a deeper dive into each step of the 5-Step Boundary Solution process. If you haven’t heard the episodes covering the first four steps, go back to Episode #10 and start there so that you can get a firm foundation for all five steps. Today, you’ll learn how to evaluate the results of your boundary work, and what to do if the boundary you attempted to set wasn't as successful as you had hoped. Biggest Takeaways From Episode #15: If the boundary you created as a result of working Steps 1-4 has been successful—even if it wasn’t 100% perfect—it's time to celebrate! If the boundary didn't turn out as you planned, or the person you established a boundary with broke an agreement, there are almost always more steps you can take. If your boundary didn’t work, ask yourself three questions: Did you follow through on what you committed to in Step 4? If you made a request of another person, was the agreement clear? Was the agreement broken, or was there a boundary violation?