Beyond Bitchy: Mastering The Art Of Boundaries

If you’ve ever gotten into an argument with someone else about the reality of a certain situation, or what “really happened,” this episode is for you. The fact is that your reality is what is true for you in the moment, and someone else having a different reality doesn’t mean that yours, or theirs, is either “correct” or “wrong.” Tune in to learn why it’s okay to disagree about reality, and why (as Terry Real says) there is no place for objective reality in relationships.   Biggest Takeaways From Episode #111: It’s very common for two people to experience the same situation or event very differently, and come away with different thoughts, emotions, or experiences. In the end, your reality is the only reality that you truly need—and it’s the only one you can have. This doesn’t mean that another person’s reality doesn’t matter, but you don’t need to come to an agreement about which one is “true” or “correct.” In a relationship, two people can share their realities with each other, and may or may not come to an