Dementia By Day

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take! Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on what to do when they think they're still working, in 2022. Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6JnaU9amLNS32lm0cOLPZt?si=f822e81ab4944522

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on the changes, feelings and worries after the dementia care move, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6MHoq4jOd5IjiAoUgz447s?si=1eabd418e8bf4dff

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on what ambiguous loss really is and why it's important to understand that term, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/7B7ZyiIXasASgpr5x8aRjr?si=457fbac766204064

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on the activities every care partner needs to know, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5Adel19p1zobAviPhYe9kp?si=a1f237f731854158

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on how my 16 Things poem almost disappeared.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/29Bpczs4F8h7MYPSFKKX4n?si=6f28362a35ea4c40

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on what the 3 questions you need to ask in dementia caregiving, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1OGmLJ14bXfsOh2FvxrpOK?si=869d8aa2a97b473a

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on what Timeline Confusion™ really is, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Von9LSEFepzXDz3fAgtVQ?si=1f316cdee4934319

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on what it really means to Embrace Their Reality™, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3jLYiH1rtrjKXWTbxwX9Rw?si=5180132830cb4016

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on the #1 reason a routine will save you some drama, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0gGandwz6bRB3y2ZXWd5Eq

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on the worst move-ins, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/32OdyMLRFTF52NZ0jUOHHW

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on answering the question of going home, in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1eevWRMMGZ4T8zH1XOo3cF

Hello and welcome to Season 5, the All-Star Season, where I share my favorite episodes from the past...with a fresh take!  Stay for the entirety of this episode to catch my take on mini-reorientation in 2022.  Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care. Original episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/55TUmpAZ433bVedZsUipzf

Hey guys, this is our last episode of season 4! Thank you for joining me on this journey. “Wanting to go home” is a really common phrase for people living with dementia. ‘Home’ is not so much a place as it is a feeling. I’m sure you can relate to this. What we don’t want to do is try to convince a person living with dementia that they are already home. Instead, let’s focus on the ‘what’ behind the feeling. The feeling may be that they don’t feel sure, or that they are scared, and just need to be in a place where they are comfortable. Stay for the entirety of this episode for some tips and advice on this issue! Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

I had many people reaching out to me on Instagram asking about their loved ones doing different kinds of annoying things. The bottom line is, you may not be able to get them to stop doing these things, at least not completely. Eventually, they will stop doing it, but that would also mean that they have progressed in their dementia. What we can do is try to solve for what the underlying issue is, which is what is causing this person to act this way in the first place? Join me in this episode as I share some stories that may help answer this question! Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

I hear this one a lot. This is typically indicative of someone advancing in their dementia. It doesn’t necessarily mean that the person is in the late stages of their dementia; it could be a result of a lot of causes. It could also mean that the patient is dealing with some depression or that they are taking some medication that makes them sleepy. Once we rule out the other variables, we do need to consider that their dementia has progressed. We need to be aware of this and not fight it so hard. Stay for the entirety of this episode for some insight on this! Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

I hear some versions of this question pretty frequently. Having a spouse living with dementia is completely different from having a parent with dementia. The inherent difference in the relationship is what makes it difficult. The biggest challenge is that previously, this person used to make decisions together with you, and now it’s all up to you. So, how do you keep them involved when they really can’t offer too much on a lot of issues? I have a few tips on this, so be sure to tune in and learn more about how to navigate this! Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

Incontinence is actually a big reason why a care partner may choose to initiate a move to dementia care. Aside from the fact that it’s an embarrassing issue, it can also turn into a big problem because for some care partners, it may begin suddenly. The truth of the matter is, there’s no official timeline for incontinence, so there’s no way of telling when (or if) your loved one will be dealing with this issue. Luckily, more and more adult briefs are becoming normalized in the world of aging in general; and I really appreciate that because it alleviates the stigma around this issue. Stay for the entirety of this episode for some advice on how to deal with this delicate situation. Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

Like I’ve said in past episodes: we can’t convince people living with dementia of anything that’s not in their reality. So, bad news if you are trying to convince them that they have dementia. Here’s my argument – why would you WANT to? Even if you convince them for a couple of hours that they have dementia, what happens the next day? Are you going to re-convince them? If a person has forgotten that they have a disease, why would we want to remind them? This goes for similar reminders, like taking them to the cemetery or showing them obituaries. Just. don’t. Stay for the entirety of this episode for some tips and advice on this issue. Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

What’s the difference between lying and Embracing their Reality? I keep hearing people using this phrase incorrectly. There are a lot of people who consider themselves experts in dementia care communication and they are still telling everybody the same thing that you’ve been hearing for years: Validation, Redirection, Distraction. And that’s NOT Embracing their Reality™. It’s also not lying when you are doing what’s true for THEM. Stay for the entirety of this episode where I break down the difference between these two dementia care approaches. Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.

As you probably know by now, you are not going to be able to convince the person living with dementia that they are no longer capable of handling their own finances. One of the main things that people will hold on to with all their might is money. No one wants to feel like somebody else is taking control of their financial affairs. But when you are living with dementia and things are being taken away from you, it can be even more overwhelming. Remember, dementia is not an ask-for-permission group of diseases: You are going to have to take control. Tune in to learn more about how to navigate this! Visit https://rachaelwonderlin.com/products/ for more in Dementia Care.