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Embed from Getty Images Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 19: "Our Dating Fails! Learn From Our Biggest Bad Dates and Dating Mistakes" We talk about our dating fails in all the different stages of going on a date from the setting the date up to the very end of the date. Learn from our many, many dating fails so you don’t have to go through the same mistakes. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Our dating follow-up fails. Ray talks about his follow-up fail on texting too long before trying to get her out on a date. His story takes us back to a moment in Las Vegas at XS Night Swim. Another of Ray’s XS Night Swim story and how it took half a year for Ray to meet up with this girl. Attraction has a time frame and you should be getting girls out as soon as possible. Ray’s over planning mistake. How Ray tried too hard to impress her, but still failed to figure out the details. Al

Embed from Getty Images Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 18: How Not Settling and Having Standards Reduces Your Unhealthy Relationships We talk about one of our biggest fears: settling for a relationship you aren't happy in. In the podcast, we discuss our own standards for an amazing relationship and why not settling and having standard not only makes you more attractive, but also reduce your unhealthy relationships. Like always, we share our past mistakes and stories of how we learned this advice the hard way. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: You learn how to create standards for yourself: must haves, would be nice, and deal breakers. You’ll learn our own standards for girls that we date. Jeff’s story of why standards are important and when he was stepped all over. How having standards makes you more attractive. “It’s crazy as weird as you think yourself is. Girls will find

Embed from Getty Images Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 17: Are We Dating? Dating Labels for Types of Relationships We discuss a topic of labels between you and the girl or girls you’re dating. These stories are from our past and present of the ways we dealt with different girls and the labels that were attached to it. This podcast applies more to the labels we use in the United States, but you can apply our experience to your own previous relationships and the labels or titles you use in your own country. This is more of a discussion of the different views of the mainstream “stages of dating.” The overall advice is labels and titles are the smaller details that don’t matter as much. How you make her feel and your overall chemistry with these girls is more important. Whether you’re talking to, going on dates, being intimate, or are exclusive with these girls. Or whatever you want

We ambush Ray and talk to him about his recent break up. Listen to the podcast, and you’ll gain an overall idea of when to break up and leave a relationship. Remember, friends don't let friends be in bad relationships.

A sequel to the last podcast because it was unsatisfyingly cut off short. A practical look on what nice guy and bad boy qualities work. We give you actionable advice to help you become the man that women want to be with.

Embed from Getty Images Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 13: "Do Nice Guys Finish Last?" We bring up an old topic that scholars and women everywhere discuss with their friends. It keeps nice guys up at night. But boy boys don’t even doesn’t even think twice. Do nice guys finish last? With this podcast, we wanted to show you that with our different personalities and how we are a mix of nice guy and bad guy qualities. There are less tactical and practical advice, but internalize the overall concepts and foundations of what our good guy and bad guy qualities that are good at attracting girls. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: How Harry Pottery and nice guys are related Why Ray’s looks are deceiving “Ray’s a book of many covers” – Rodrigo Macy explains her experiences with bad boys and nice guys Which route is more scenic How being really nice can be really fake How a bad b

Day game is my favorite way to meet girls besides social circle or grooving in the club. It was our “gateway drug” into the rabbit hole of improving our success with women and our lives in general. Day game is meeting and attracting women during the day time. There are differences between day game vs. night game, and it goes deeper than if the sun is out or not.

But I think the episode shows our enthusiasm for being new to the “Game”. We dive into what shaped our perceptions and influences that greatly affected our dating lives, and how we viewed relationships.

This is our episode 10. We'll give you our personal tools for overcoming approach anxiety and your fear of rejection. You'll hear stories of our first approaches and how we still deal with approach anxiety today. Most of us at least (Panda doesn't have approach anxiety).

This is our episode 7 where we go over the basics of online dating. You’ll hear about our lack of results and what has not been working for us (except for Panda). Because this isn’t our specialty, we brought in our friend Anthony who has been seeing massive results with online dating. He’s has professional mentor, and he shares his insights and experiences to help you get started.

In our episode 6, we continue the craziness with our HUGE group of our friends and delve deeper into topics about times we have caught feelings or have been hurt when physical relationships start changing into something more. We go one-night stands. This is our advice for having them and creating an awesome shared experience between you and the girl.

In our episode 5, we invited out a group of our friends to share their craziest one-night stand stories: there's interestingly twists that make each story fun and edgy: from 10-minute public sex to "I don't even know her name" to the typical "whatever happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas stories." This is our advice for having them and creating an awesome shared experience between you and the girl.

This is our episode 4 where we go over how to approach, open and start conversation with girls. We cover the 3 general types of openers we were taught when we 1st started: direct, indirect, situational. Plus, we talk about non-verbal openers, and miscellaneous openers.

This is our episode 3 where we go over a dating basic and necessity: how to flirt with girls. We define flirting and bantering, and why you should care. And our own advice on how to flirt and banter.

We provide you with A LOT more information so you can answer that burning question. "Does she like me?" We discuss the numerous ways we've learned to recognize female attraction.

This is our episode 1 where we go in-depth of how to tell if she likes you: signs of attraction. So you can answer that burning question. "Does she like me?"

This is our episode 0 where you get to learn more about our background and insight into why we started to podcast. You’ll learn about Jeff, Macy, Panda, Rodrigo and Tommy’s backgrounds. We define what a Pompous Gentlemen is.