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Why You Need to Build An Attractive Lifestyle... Living a life that you love is one of the main pillars of changing your dating life. Building an attractive lifestyle is a good predictor for the quality of women you can attract. When a woman is deciding if she wants to date you or if you are relationship material, an important factor is if she can see herself in your life. Not only does she need to see herself in your life, but is it a lifestyle she wants to be apart of. Ask yourself this, if she was able to watch you during the week without you knowing, would she still be interested in getting to know you. Improving your lifestyle will make you a more well-rounded man. When you are more well-rounded, you'll be able to connect and build commonalities faster and easier. There's a simple way to start improving your lifestyle. Start doing more things that you love. Stop doing that you hate. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: The basics to building commonalities with anyone How building an attractive lifes

To Be Monogamous or Chose Non-Monogamy... With over 50% percent of marriages failing, we seek better solutions. We create our own rules of being monogamous. Or experiment with non-monogamy. Whether that's strengthening a monogamous relationship through monogamish options or through full consenting non-monogamous possibilities. Our world isn't so black and white. The path is entirely up to you, and what you want. Sharing our own experiences, we hope you gain insight into your own needs. But nothing beat living and fully experiencing it first-hand in all the potential glory or disaster. It's like having sex. As much as I can describe it to you, it's entirely different when you lose your virginity the first time. There are things that words can't entirely describe. And choosing a relationship model is something that needs to be experienced. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: The benefits and drawbacks of monogamy and non-monogamy How the different skills that make both a monogamous and non-monogamous rela

Stop Overthinking... Visions of horrible rejections, awkward silences, and a crowd of people pointing and laughing. Overthinking is what stops you from talking to her... As men, we often are too analytical. We get locked by our overthinking and suffer from analysis paralysis. Sure, that ability may serve you well in your career where you need to strategize and plan using excel sheets and data. But that's not going to help you connect with your date. Especially when you aren't present in the moment and you're real personality is trapped behind the screaming negativity in your head. You'll learn how to deal with being trapped in your head because of overthinking... IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: How Newton's laws of physics apply to stopping your own negative emotions The different obstacles you run into at the various stages of dating you'll experience Our own stories of how we were in our head and were able to turn into relationship Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your com

So what aren't they telling you about dating abundance? You'll learn about the benefits or the pitfalls about having abundance in your life. Sure meeting a lot of women, going on a lot of dates, and having a lot of fun sounds good when you're first starting your journey. But it's not all unicorns and rainbows. Don't just blindly follow other people's goals. It's about aligning with what you actually want. We share our own experiences after coming from the other side, and now being settled in relationships. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: What are the benefits of dating abundance What are the pitfalls and drawback of abundance that people don't tell you Do you really need abundance to reach your dating goals Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Dating UpDate Free 30-Day Confidence Program USB You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and

We try to tackle the Goliath of a question, What Women Want? Through the podcast we talk about different topics like authenticity, vulnerability, and confidence. Every woman you meet, will be unique and have her own experiences and personality you need to take into consideration. But we've narrow it down to 3 main areas to consider that span across culture, region, and nationalities. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Different stages women go through in their ideal man... Learn the difference between self-expression or over-sharing... 3 main areas that women want regardless of country, location, and ethnicity... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Confidence UpDate Free 30-Day USB Program You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and more importantly, good job on taking steps to improve your dating life. And becoming the attractive man y

Want a lower risk and easier way to ask a girl to go out with you? Ask her to join you on a group dates! It's a less stressful way to get a girl to come out and see you. It's a low commitment way that's inherently non-needy because you are inviting her out to something you were already going to be doing. And if she doesn't come out, you won't be devastated because you'll still be able to go out and have fun with your friends. Learn how to harness the power of fun group dates. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Why leveraging group dates will make it easier to transform your dating life... How to engineer group dates so it utilizes natural attraction triggers... What you need to start doing to make group dates work for you now... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: 30-Day Confidence UpDate Free USB Program You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for l

Value is a concept that been around for awhile especially within the dating advice community. It's about being a man of value when your attracting women and giving value to those around you. No, I'm not talking about the old pickup community term DHV (demonstrating higher value). But this is embodying the genuine belief and following through with actions that truly give value. You ACTUALLY care about the well being and how people are feeling because you want to see people be happy, have fun, and succeed overall. When you give value to those around you (not only women), you're helping people grow and people like being in your presence. This is the gentlemen side of the Pompous and the Gentlemen: improving your dating life and impacting the world through giving value. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: What does it mean to give value Why is being a value-taking person so unattractive How can you give value How to become a high-value man If you feel like you don't have value, how to see that you're a

Amidst the pain of the break up you keep thinking if you should get back with your ex. Do you really miss her? How do you know if you made the right choice?

You hear all the time in movies, TV shows, and from women, that all they want is honesty. But what does this exactly mean? Is there a wrong time or right time to be completely honest and genuine? In episode 32, we’ll discuss how to be genuine and the common pitfalls many people fall into.

Racking up those friendships points huh? So eventually she'll become your girlfriend in real life instead of your I-wish-this-were-real wet dreams. If that's you, then listen to his podcast. We talk about what you can do if you are stuck the dreaded friend zone.

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 30: "15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women - Part 2" This is part 2 of 1. If you haven't yet (and so you're not confused), listen to part 1 here. A few of our friends are messing up with girls and are missing out on potentially good relationships because they are making these fundamental mistakes. I think it important so I'm pasting what we wrote for part 1 below: Don't be that guys that messed up a relationship (casual or serious) because of your own insecurities and lack of understanding of the biggest mistakes men make with women. Like everything, this is just a guideline. Learn the rule and break them later. The most important part is to understand the "why". Why are guidelines being setting for typical guys? Usually the guidelines are created for men to not display anything that kill attraction for women. Insecurity. Neediness. Desperation. When you come from a place of confidence and the girl is having fun, you usually can break

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 29: "15 Biggest Mistakes Men Make With Women - Part 1" A few of our friends are messing up with girls and are missing out on potentially good relationships because they are making these fundamental mistakes. Don't be that guys that messed up a relationship (casual or serious) because of your own insecurities and lack of understanding of the biggest mistakes men make with women. Like everything, this is just a guideline. Learn the rule and break them later. The most important part is to understand the "why". Why are guidelines being setting for typical guys? Usually the guidelines are created for men to not display anything that kill attraction for women. Insecurity. Neediness. Desperation. When you come from a place of confidence and the girl is having fun, you usually can break all the rules and have little to zero consequence. Build the foundation, and then experiment when you understand the basics. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: 15

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 28: "Dealing with Awkward Silence and How to Build Sexual Tension" In the podcast, we talk about dealing with awkward silence and tension. What exactly is tension? How do you deal with the impending doom of an awkward silence? Can tension be a good thing? If so, how can you build different type of good tension. And in the end, we discuss how to turn that tension sexual. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Coming Soon... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Audible Free Audiobook Free Approach Women Anywhere Email Course Pompous Gentlemen YouTube You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and more importantly, good job on taking steps to improve your dating life. And becoming the attractive man you were destined to be. Please share this episode if you enjoyed it or want to say tha

This podcast talks about how you can avoid potential relationship problems (especially in the beginning) by not making your partner your ONLY priority. This is an old, archived podcast that we recorded nearly a year ago. The irony is at the time of the podcast, Jeff and Panda were single, but they are now exclusive dating. Yes... the world is ending. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Why you shouldn't make your partner your ONLY priority. We didn't say don't make your partner a priority (even though we forgot the ONLY a few times in the podcast), but don't make them your ONLY priority. This is actually a lesson Ray learned recently, but we'll give him some time to share that on a future podcast. Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Audible Free Audiobook Free Approach Women Anywhere Email Course Pompous Gentlemen YouTube You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 26: "How to Approach a Girl in Groups: Group Dynamics 101" We go over the basics of approaching a girl in groups, and how to win her friends over. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: How to open and approach groups The easiest ways to approach groups Our favorite ways of opening a groups up More to come... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Audible Free Audiobook Free Approach Women Anywhere Email Course Pompous Gentlemen YouTube You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and more importantly, good job on taking steps to improve your dating life. And becoming the attractive man you were destined to be. Please share this episode if you enjoyed it or want to say thanks. Use the social media buttons at the side or bottom of the page. Also, please leave an review for the Pompous G

This is a podcast to help you overcome your negativity and stop your negative thoughts. It's inspired by Ray's depressing mood on the last podcast episode 24. We all go through ups and down especially when it coming to dating. You'll quit or lose yourself in a dark and depressing path if you allow your negative thoughts to take control. We talk about our own advice for remaining positive when everything seems so shitty.

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 23: How to Turn Around a Bad Night for Meeting Women for You and Your Wingmen This podcast is dedicated to all the shitty nights we've had that we weren't able to turn around. From those horrible nights, here is our advice and experiences we gained from learning the hard way. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Coming soon... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Free Audible Trial You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and more importantly, good job on taking steps to improve your dating life. And becoming the attractive man you were destined to be. Please share this episode if you enjoyed it or want to say thanks. Use the social media buttons at the side or bottom of the page. Also, please leave an review for the Pompous Gentlemen Podcast on iTunes! Ratings and reviews help us

Pompous Gentlemen Podcast, Episode 22: Self Amusement and Why It's Attractive to Girls How being self amused is attractive to girls and the stories of how we make ourselves laugh when talking to girls.  How using your own humor and making yourself laugh is attractive. This is a skill we've already had before we got into game. So listen to the podcast and how we are constantly making ourselves laugh. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL LEARN: Coming soon... Right click here and save-as to download this episode to your computer. LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Dance Floor Attraction You Are A Badass, Action-Taker! Thanks For Listening! You are now a Pompous Gentlemen. Thank you so much for listening and more importantly, good job on taking steps to improve your dating life. And becoming the attractive man you were destined to be. Please share this episode if you enjoyed it or want to say thanks. Use the social media buttons at the side or bottom of the page. Also,

We are all about making it easier and not harder. One of the best ways to make it easier to talk to girls is by getting into "state". State is the seduction community term for "getting in the zone", "being on fire", or "being on". Basically, state is operating fully in the moment where everything just flows. It's where everything feels easy and natural.

Under pressure and need to find a last-minute date in less than a day or two? Or maybe, your date flaked on you, and you need a date in a couple of hours. We decided to release a last-minute guide for finding a last-minute date because Valentine's Day is tomorrow. And we want to make sure it's not Alentine's Ay, which the day for people who don't get the "V" or the "D" on Valentine's Day.