Synopsis
In order to get women, you have to understand them first. For over eight consecutive years, The Chick Whisperer Podcast from X & Y Communications has been the gold standard for men of character who desire high quality women. Scot McKay and his expert co-hosts talk women, dating, sex, seduction and 21st century masculinity in a fast-paced and often hilarious style. Ask whatever questions you want 24/7 via voicemail at +1 (210) 362-4400. Visit http://www.thechickwhisperer.com and get free, actionable tips in your inbox that'll make you better with women starting today. | Please subscribe to the show to get updates automatically, and if you love the show definitely leave a review!
Episodes
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How To Be The Man Everyone Looks Up To - TCW73
09/10/2015 Duration: 46minWhat can I say about my co-host for this episode? He makes decisions on a daily basis that hold lives of innocent children in the balance. He fights challenges that give others the chills--even if they only dare to watch from afar. Everyone he knows recognizes his rock-solid character and looks to him for direction and wisdom. His wife adores him endlessly, even as she confidently stands with him in the trenches. Not only have his daughters followed in his footsteps, so have their fiances. By now you're probably picturing a high-dollar family law attorney, elected official, pediatric brain surgeon or even a superhero. But Daryl is a self-proclaimed 'normal guy' just like you and me. Yet no matter what he says, he lives in an extraordinary world where he and his wife are basically the Mother Theresas of Guatemala. Listen as Daryl talks openly about how he makes the gut wrenching life-and-death decisions that most men would wilt under or run away from. Prepare to be left slackjawed by how he talks about being a
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Going After What You Want Without Regrets - TCW72
30/07/2015 Duration: 42minKnown as Rasputin in Neil Strauss's book The Game, my co-host Eric Von Sydow has been teaching men the art of masculine power and attraction for over two decades, mentoring legends along the way. At long last he's on the show dropping wisdom on how to know what you want, giving yourself the best shot at getting it, and how to handle life's inevitable pitfalls along the way. The coolest part about this show was shootin' the breeze with a guy whose priorities couldn't be more different than mine on the surface, but whose overall philosophies are right on the same wavelength. As you listen to this unique episode, you're sure to be empowered with a new sense of freedom--especially when it comes to your lifestyle and the women you choose to share it with. Are you the last guy listening to this show who isn't getting my daily newsletter? If so, you're missing out on actionable content on how to get better with women, build your social circle and get ahead in the workplace: http://www.thechickwhisperer.com === HELP
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Getting Women To Like You Instantly - TCW71
17/04/2015 Duration: 48minMy co-host for this show is Amy Waterman, whose first interview with me nearly nine years ago (still part of Deserve What You Want) became the stuff of legends. I'm excited to announce that she's back from a five year 'retirement' of sorts, and this is her very first foray back into the world of men's dating and seduction advice. As always, Amy has a weird but wonderful knack for understanding male/female interaction in a way few others do. Better still, she is especially passionate about making men uber-successful with women. Wait until you hear what she has to say about how to make women adore you before you even TALK to them, along with some powerful ways to charm women that leave them breathless. Plus, you'll get truly unique insights into how men and women think differently, and why knowing the truth is a 'silver bullet' advantage over other guys. And hey...just for good measure, why not a word on how to get a woman whose just had a boob job to show off for you? Man, you just gotta love a woman like Amy
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How To Win At Strip Poker - TCW70
28/03/2015 Duration: 37minIt all started innocently enough, I promise. I had the occasion to meet sexy professional poker player Anna Khait because she has been interested in dating and relationship science lately. So naturally, I invited her to co-host the big show with me, originally with the idea of talking about how to read "poker faced" women. That in and of itself is a HUGE topic for a lot of guys, and fear not...we dropped a big heavy hammer on it. But things REALLY got out of hand when the the whole idea of strip poker came up. I wasted no time getting Anna to spill every expert secret she had, including her first-hand knowledge on how to get hot women EXCITED to play. Of course, you're also going to want to know how get the whole thing rolling to begin with, and EXACTLY what to do once it's going. Wait until you hear the practically ninja-proof strategies involved there. If that wasn't enough, we then dove off the deep end, bringing up the idea of skinny dipping. Do the same principles apply? And what about 'Spin The Bottle'
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Get Better With Women Faster And More Effectively - TCW69
18/03/2015 Duration: 48minBill and Ted once famously asked the evil version of themselves what number they were thinking of: '69, dude!' Well, that episode has finally arrived, and to celebrate this momentous occasion I got none other than fellow podcast host Angel Donovan of Dating Skills Review to sit in with me as co-host. The topic he's passionate about these days is FAST and EFFICIENT success with women, which sounded good to me. So in this action-packed show we hit the ground running with some CRAZY conversation covering what's potentially been holding you back from greatness with women (could it be physiological?), how to peg your personal power to the redline, how to end the cycle of going through one book or program after another without getting desired results, and even the unique but DEVASTATINGLY powerful steps I personally use with guys in-field that revolutionizes how many women they meet. (Yes I spill it ALL.) Plus we'll talk about why the booming #MGTOW movement is probably doing the OPPOSITE for men as they hope. To t
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Recover And Move On After A Breakup - TCW68
20/01/2015 Duration: 27minLet's say you wake up after the nightmare of a divorce or bad breakup. The rest of the world is the same, but somehow you're...different. If you can relate, so can I...along with this episode's co-host, Ben Adams. Hold on and get ready for a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT kind of show this time around. You see, Ben is the author of Six Months To Get A Life. This is no self-help book, but rather a novel about moving on after divorce. Better yet, it's flat-out HILARIOUS. Truth be told, Ben just went through a pretty gnarly divorce of his own so LOTS of what he writes about hits close to home. Let's just say you can count on us to throw all the craziest aspects of moving on after divorce out on the table. That includes (among other things) dealing with exes, unsolicited opinions from teenage offspring and mistaken identity on blind dates. Pour yourself a cold one and enjoy this show, it's got more than its fair share of laughs. As always, if you're not yet getting the daily newsletter jam-packed with valuable tips and hac
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Handling The Second Date - TCW67
22/12/2014 Duration: 59minThere's plenty of talk about there on how to score first dates and what to do when you get there. But what about SECOND dates? Now that you know the two of you like each other enough to go out again, THEN WHAT? Is she going to expect to be your steady girlfriend? How can you tell if she's really into you or just giving you a second chance not to mess up? Shouldn't you have kissed her by now? My guest co-host is none other than Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, who's the perfect guy to help nail down answers to all these crazy questions and more...including how to get physical and even what to plan the second time around as opposed to the first. As a special bonus, you'll even get some 'third date hacks' that'll help you keep the ball rolling if you really like her. On top of all else, we hear from Josh in Philly regarding a particular 2nd date disaster he had to endure. Let's just say figuring out who should pay for the second date can get complicated, as can figuring out what went wrong when things go awry. Get da
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How To Get Over Your Ex-Girlfriend - TCW66
12/12/2014 Duration: 57minSure, there are TONS of books out there on the Internet about how to get your ex back...but what if the relationship is officially DONE for? How do you bounce back FASTER and STRONGER rather than wallowing around in self-pity pining away for her. My co-host Daniel Dennick is the man behind Over Her Overnight and his mission is to help YOU leave your past behind instead of leaving your behind in the past. Wait until you hear some of his 'recovery hacks'...and better yet, wait until you hear the crazy stories BOTH of us have to tell on this subject. Believe me, just about every guys has been left a wreck after a rough breakup, ourselves included. Daniel and I also answer a voicemail from Marius in New Jersey, who has had one too many bad experiences with women and is thinking he flat-out isn't attracted to ANY of them any more. As a reminder, if you like what you hear please leave us a review. Definitely also subscribe to the X & Y Communications newsletter at http://www.chickwhispering.com. === HELP US SEN
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Avoiding Psycho Women - TCW65
17/11/2014 Duration: 57minWhat guy hasn't stopped and asked himself at some point if ALL women are crazy? Well, who better to ponder such deep questions with than a woman? So I invited Heather Havenwood from Dating Triggers to be my co-host, and what do you know? She gladly accepted. (I think, 'What took you so long?' were her exact words.) Now, you may know that the whole topic of psycho chicks is a rather touchy one for me, so you can expect the epic rant you bargained for. What you might NOT be expecting is what Heather contributes to the conversation. In the end, you're guaranteed to be one step farther away from getting tangled up with the WRONG woman. All this and more, after we answer a solid voicemail from David in Oklahoma who asks, 'Where am I supposed to meet women?' Here's a hint: don't even think about 'man spandex'. Are you man enough to accept The Big 4 Man Challenge? http://www.big4man.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === We'll keep the solid, actionable content coming...all for free. If you lov
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Sexual Tension And How To Make It Happen - TCW64
03/11/2014 Duration: 54minWe love women. We love having sex with women. We've heard that women love to have sex with us also. But how is it that some guys seem to turn women on so effortlessly, while the vast majority of others are left completely mystified? In case you haven't heard already, the ability to make women hot for you is a learned skill...the art of creating 'sexual tension'. Tragically, most men completely misunderstand the concept, if they bother to even TRY to wrap their heads around it at all...hence the proliferation of bad texting and lame sexual innuendo that goes on. So what in the world ARE we talking about here? How DO you make it happen? And how are we supposed to reconcile being a 'sexual threat' with the recent proliferation of YouTube videos that would have us believe we're practically rapists if we even talk to a woman on the street? Most of all, how come all of those pickup artists who were telling us that 'marriage is for wimps' back in 2005 all have wives and kids now? New Yorker Chris 'Sixty' Anderson jo
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Porn Stars Teaching Sex Advice - TCW63
24/07/2014 Duration: 01h11minThe newest (and arguably biggest) trend in sex over the past few years has been to get female porn stars to teach guys how to pleasure women. As you may know, I've always been extremely skeptical that this whole phenomenon was backed by any real substance. Well, after years of simply avoiding the issue, I've finally invited Joshua Rose, the man behind Porn Star Sex Life, to sit in as co-host and hash this whole thing out once and for all. Is Josh simply hiring the sexiest adult film vixens he can find to teach his programs, or are these women really qualified? And what about porn itself...can guys actually learn anything valid from watching it, or is porn consumption leading to mostly BAD habits in the bedroom? And wait...how did Joshua get this gig to begin with? Get ready for a barrage of more shockingly honest answers than you're probably expecting. As if all of that didn't make for enough controversy, Joshua and I also handle a voicemail from Mike In Cincinnati, whose wife has given him a 'hall pass' to s
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Dating And Sex With The Rich And Famous - TCW62
06/02/2014 Duration: 40minPrior to his current high-profile run for a US Congress seat in California, Antonio Sabato, Jr. was a former Calvin Klein underwear model who's perhaps best known for his role on TV's General Hospital. He's been in countless movies and TV shows since, and along the way has been with women like Pamela Anderson, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Virginia Madsen and Madonna. Now he's giving out all of his advice about women on his blog. Believe me, I know what you're wondering...and yes, I asked him ALL of those questions and more. So what can this guy POSSIBLY have to say that relates to you and me? Well, suffice it to say you're about to find out as you listen to this truly unique episode...which could be the strangest and most surprising one ever. Just to make things even more interesting, Antonio and I answer a great voicemail from Jason in Oakland, California who wonders how often he should call or text a woman between the first and second dates. If you're not yet getting the X & Y Communications newsletter, what a
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Geeky Hobbies And The Women Who Love You Anyway - TCW61
25/11/2013 Duration: 53minMark Manson is a former pickup artist, wildly popular blogger, world traveler and now the wildly-popular New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*uck. He checked in for this episode from Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam to share adventure stories with me about world travel and the women you're likely to meet along the way. What's it like to immerse oneself in both the best AND the worst that India can possibly throw at you? What's it REALLY like to be in a Muslim country? And most of all, what are the most surprising ways that travel changes you as a human being? Count on hearing some crazy stories about everything from chess to cricket, even as we debate the psychology behind the mystique surrounding foreign women. We also throw everything we've got at a seriously deep e-mail from another Mark in Twin Falls, Idaho. He asks the existential question that haunts millions of men all over the world: 'How on Earth can I pull an endless stream of hotties while still indulging my boundless pass
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Decoding Women's Sexual Attraction Signals - TCW60
25/10/2013 Duration: 56minIt's no secret that women think differently than we as men do, therefore their actions are oftentimes difficult to interpret. It can drive us stark raving nuts...as well as keeping us from enjoying the company of the very women we desire the most. Well, this time I'm joined by Craig Miller, who has recently authored something called the Sexual Decoder System. He's about to reveal to you some shocking secrets about the type of hints and 'hidden messages' that women send us all the time when they're attracted to us, but which most men completely miss. The truth is pretty straightforward: if you're missing the signals, you're missing out on a LOT of women in your life. But the good news is once you know what to look for, your fortunes with women will increase exponentially...and fast. While we're at it, we address a voicemail from Chris in San Diego who's not exactly a 'party guy', but he finds himself particularly attracted to 'party GIRLS'. Does he stand a chance at getting in on the action he wants? And if so
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Conscious Masculinity - TCW59
09/10/2013 Duration: 01h02minIt's been in the works for over two years now, but the stars have finally aligned and my co-host this time around is none other than Dr. Robert Glover of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' fame. If you know anything about this guy's work, you've already figured out that he and I think a lot alike when it comes to how masculinity and femininity ignite each other. Well, in this episode we engage the epic topic of how to be a quintessentially high quality masculine man. What's more, we reveal how to be intentional about it in a way that demonstrates you know exactly what you're doing. I can double-dog guarantee you that once you've taken in this fluff-free hour of top-notch content you'll be igniting femaleness like some sort of masculine pyromaniac (which is a very good thing). Just to make sure this episode truly blows you away, we also answer a voice mail from Robert in Indiana on how to raise our sons to be real men. Have you taken advantage of all the inexpensive but action-packed Kindle e-books on Amazon yet? If not,
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Increase Your Sex Drive...And Hers - TCW58
20/09/2013 Duration: 41minLet's face it, it's good to have a strong, powerful sex drive. The horny life is the good life, and unfortunately a lot of guys only fully realize that after it's too late. It's for that exact reason that I welcome sexpert Jason Julius from Orgasm Arts as my co-host on this episode. Jason's one of those completely cool, down-to-earth sex teachers who tells it like it is without a lot of "woo-woo" stuff to get in the way. Discover what his three pillars to a consistently high sex drive are, and how you can make sure yours are always, um...rock solid. Don't worry, I made sure to ask all the questions everyone else might have been too shy to. We also answer a particularly good voice mail question from Tim in Oakland, CA who wants to know what to do when you'd like to get frisky with a woman but don't have a place of your own. Have you heard the news? The brand new book Stop Chasing, Start Choosing has just been released on Amazon.com. It's comes with 10 audio programs for free: http://www.stopchasingstartchoosin
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Re-Inventing Yourself As Wildly Attractive - TCW57
09/06/2013 Duration: 52minAll too many times, we as guys start stockpiling a series of 'limiting beliefs' without really paying much attention. Over time, our self-perceived challenges start looking so insurmountable that we're more likely to give up than to try to tackle such a formidable list. But that's where my new friend Greg Palumbo comes in. According to him, the best way to get a handle on EVERY potential issue keeping you from greatness in virtually every area of life is actually to handle just ONE of them. Weirdly, he also claims that a very easy 'metabolic trick' is the answer. And check it out...he just may be on to something because dude's been walking his talk, majorly. You'll be able to tell immediately that this guy is the real deal, simply by the enthusiasm in his voice as he spills his secrets. We also answer a solid voicemail from Raj in DC, who asks how in the world to figure out what kind of woman is best to get into a long-term relationship with. Have you grabbed your copy of Women Made Easy on Amazon.com yet? It
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The 21st Century Man - TCW56
05/02/2013 Duration: 31minBy popular request from literally dozens of you over the past couple of years, I'm joined on this episode by my brother from a different McKay mother...that's none other than Brett McKay from the wildly popular Art Of Manliness blog. The topic we just HAD to hit was what it means to be a real man in today's modern world. Sure, you may not have to defend Sparta with an undermanned army, but you DO have to know what it means to be a man in the way women can't get enough of. And yes...you've also got to have some key knowledge down nowadays that ancient Greek badasses never had to concern themselves with. Look forward to some seriously profound new insights into what being a man is all about, as Brett has done at least as much thinking--and probably twice as much writing--as I have on all of this stuff. We also answer a voicemail from Jacob in Albuquerque, who's definitely barking up the wrong tree when it comes to finding the right place to meet like-minded women...geez, dude. If you haven't heard about Female
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Man Up And Get Your Act Together - TCW55
23/11/2012 Duration: 52minWhy is it so hard for us as guys to get our lives on track and get on with the business of 'living the dream'? Is it that we're too lazy? Are we not talented enough? Or is it something else? Listen in as my co-host Zach Browman drops some shocking truth about why laziness is probably a MYTH (at least as you know it), and how you can finally start outperforming the true slackers in your graduating class. Wait until you get a load of what Zach has to say--rest assured you'll laugh yourself to sleep tonight thinking about how easy it really is to kick your life into gear and get women to naturally want you. We also answer a really good voicemail question from Rene in 'Nawlins' on how to handle women who are rude are disrespectful to you, but who you can't exactly just walk away from--like co-workers, relatives, etc. If you've never gotten around to checking out Zach Browman's killer anti-procrastination program Find Your Focus, don't put it off another second. You can find it at http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/
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TV Wives, Single Moms And Mail-Order Brides - TCW54
24/09/2012 Duration: 51minIt was over a few beers in Las Vegas that my co-host Dean Cortez and I decided it was time to 'break the mold' and do a completely different episode of this show. Suffice it to say that's exactly what you're about to experience. Join Mr. M.A.C.K. Tactics himself and I for a totally off-the-wall and at times completely inappropriate rant on those crazy women you see on shows like Bridezillas and Real Housewives of NJ. While we're at it, we segue into a frank discussion of how likely it is you'll actually find the woman of your dreams in another country as opposed to her getting her green card and ruining you shortly thereafter. Dean currently lives in the Philippines, so you can bet he's got a take on that. Finally, we go back and forth in response to Nate in Sacramento's question about whether or not it's a good idea to date single moms. As a special free gift, you can download Dean's decidedly edgy but totally kickin' e-book called The S.W.A.T. guide just by visiting http://www.thechickwhisperer.com/mack. It