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Julie McFadden, RN, is a hospice nurse, educator, and bestselling author dedicated to changing the way we talk about death and dying. With over 15 years of experience in intensive care and hospice nursing, Julie has become a leading voice in demystifying the end-of-life process, helping people navigate it with more understanding and less fear.   Known to millions as Hospice Nurse Julie, she shares compassionate, no-nonsense insights on TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram, where she breaks down the physical, emotional, and even spiritual aspects of dying. Her work has sparked a global conversation about what really happens at the end of life, tackling everything from hospice myths to deathbed visions.   Her book, ”Nothing to Fear: Demystifying Death to Live More Fully,” is a groundbreaking guide that helps people embrace death as a natural part of life—one that, when understood, can actually lead to a richer, more meaningful existence.  

What if the fear you feel isn’t a stop sign — but a compass pointing you exactly where you’re supposed to go?   In this episode of Nobody Told Me!, we’re talking with Jenny Wood — author of Wild Courage: Go After What You Want and Get It — about how fear, ambition, self-doubt, and boldness are all tangled together on the road to creating a life you actually want.   Jenny spent 18 years rising through the ranks at Google, ultimately leading a team responsible for tens of billions in revenue, and founding Own Your Career, one of the largest career development programs in Google’s history. She knows firsthand what it means to step into bigger, braver versions of yourself — even when it feels terrifying.   Together, we dive into how to turn fear into fuel, why being “too much” is actually your greatest strength, and what it really looks like to bet on yourself when nobody else hands you permission.   If you’ve ever wrestled with impostor syndrome, second-guessed your dreams, or wondered if you’re “ready” to make

In this unforgettable episode of Nobody Told Me, we sit down with Rossana D’Antonio — engineer, truth-seeker, and author of the haunting memoir 26 Seconds: Grief and Blame in the Aftermath of Losing My Brother in a Plane Crash.  Rosanna talks about the day her younger brother Cesare died in a commercial plane crash just moments before he was supposed to land safely.   But this isn’t just a story about a tragedy. It’s about what happens after the cameras leave. After the system points fingers. After your loved one is blamed for their own death.   Rossana opens up about the heartbreak of losing Cesare, the painful process of watching him be scapegoated by the airline industry, and the years she spent digging through wreckage — literal and emotional — to uncover the truth. Together, we talk about grief, rage, silence, memory, and what it means to become your loved one’s final advocate.   This conversation is raw, real, and deeply human. If you’ve ever felt powerless after a loss, or if you’ve ever had to fight t

We’re joined by Dr. Guy Winch, a licensed psychologist, bestselling author, and one of the world’s leading voices in emotional health. You might know him from his powerful TED Talks, viewed over 35 million times, or from his bestselling books like Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart.   In this episode, we talk with Guy about something so many of us experience but rarely know how to navigate: the grief of losing a pet. Guy explains why that grief can feel just as intense—or even more so—than losing a human loved one, and why it’s crucial that we treat pet loss with the same compassion, validation, and care.   He shares deeply personal stories, as well as science-backed advice on how to process our feelings, memorialize our pets, and let ourselves heal without shame.   To learn more about his work, visit guywinch.com.

Gabby is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, spiritual teacher, motivational speaker, and podcast host who has been a guiding light for millions seeking healing, clarity, and purpose.   For over 18 years, Gabby has helped people transform their lives by teaching them how to tap into their inner power, release fear, and live with more faith and peace. She’s the author of numerous beloved books, including The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace, which chronicles her own courageous journey through trauma and into deep healing.   Named “a new thought leader” by Oprah and widely known for her raw honesty, spiritual groundedness, and compassionate wisdom, Gabby has inspired a global movement of people choosing love over fear.   She joins us to share the tools that changed her life—and how we can use them to change ours.   Learn more at gabbybernstein.com.

Marc is a veteran Silicon Valley entrepreneur, advisor, and investor—but you probably know him best as the co-founder and first CEO of Netflix. Under his leadership, Netflix grew from an idea sketched out on a car ride to a revolutionary company that transformed how the world consumes entertainment.   Marc is also the author of the bestselling book That Will Never Work: The Birth of Netflix and the Amazing Life of an Idea, where he shares the behind-the-scenes story of Netflix’s early days—and the lessons he learned about risk-taking, innovation, and resilience.   In addition to his work as a founder and thought leader, Marc is a sought-after speaker and mentor, passionate about helping the next generation of entrepreneurs turn their ideas into reality. He’s here today to talk about the highs and lows of building something from nothing, what it takes to keep believing in yourself, and why the words “that will never work” might just be the greatest motivation of all.   Learn more at marcrandolph.com.

On this episode, we are honored to welcome Elizabeth Smart, one of the most inspiring guests we’ve ever had. In 2002, at just fourteen years old, Elizabeth was abducted at knifepoint from her home in Utah by a pedophile, enduring nine months of unimaginable abuse, captivity, and terror before her courageous rescue and reunion with her family. Despite the trauma she endured, Elizabeth has transformed her experience into a powerful force for advocacy, resilience, and hope. As a bestselling author, speaker, and child safety activist, she has dedicated her life to empowering survivors and pushing for change in the fight against sexual exploitation and abduction. Her book, Where There's Hope: Healing, Moving Forward, and Never Giving Up, is an inspiring guide to resilience and recovery, offering wisdom and encouragement for anyone facing adversity. You can learn more about Elizabeth and her work at elizabethsmart.com.

We are a mother-daughter duo, and on this episode, we’re joined by a father-daughter duo—Dr. Drew Pinsky and his daughter, Paulina. Dr. Drew is a practicing internist and addiction medicine specialist, as well as a New York Times bestselling author. You probably know him as a trusted voice in medicine, mental health, and relationships from his decades of TV, radio, and podcast appearances, including Loveline, Celebrity Rehab, and Dr. Drew on Call. His expertise has made him a go-to resource for navigating the complexities of human behavior, addiction, and personal growth. Joining him is his daughter, Paulina Pinsky, a writer and educator with a unique perspective on relationships, identity, and consent. Together, they’ve co-authored the insightful and much-needed book, It Doesn’t Have to Be Awkward: Dealing with Relationships, Consent, and Other Hard-to-Talk-About Stuff, which aims to help young people and their parents have open, meaningful conversations about life’s most important topics. Today, they join u

We’re excited to welcome Humble The Poet to the show! Born Kanwer Singh, Humble The Poet is a Canadian-born writer, musician, spoken word artist, and former schoolteacher whose work explores self-discovery, resilience, and personal growth. With a unique blend of raw honesty, poetic insight, and cultural wisdom, he has captivated audiences worldwide through his bestselling books, including Unlearn: 101 Simple Truths for a Better Life, Things No One Else Can Teach Us, and How to Be Love(d). His thought-provoking words have inspired millions to rethink their perspectives, embrace discomfort, and find their own path to fulfillment. Beyond writing, Humble The Poet’s work spans music, public speaking, and creative storytelling, all with the goal of challenging norms and encouraging deep reflection. Today, he joins us to share his wisdom on unlearning the lessons that no longer serve us and embracing the beauty of imperfection. Learn more at humblethepoet.com.

We’re thrilled to welcome Dr. Delatorro McNeal II to the show! A renowned peak performance expert, bestselling author, and Hall of Fame keynote speaker, Dr. Delatorro has spent decades helping people unlock their fullest potential in business, leadership, and life.   He’s the author of Shift Into a Higher Gear: Better Your Best and Live Life to the Fullest, a powerful guide to breaking through barriers and accelerating success. With an electrifying stage presence and a gift for transforming mindsets, he’s worked with Fortune 500 companies, top athletes, and high achievers worldwide.   Today, he’s here to share how you can step into your greatness, take charge of your future, and create the life you truly want. Learn more at delatorro.com.

We’re thrilled to welcome the legendary Captain Sandy Yawn to the show! With over 30 years of international maritime experience, Captain Sandy has navigated the high seas and the high stakes of leadership, earning worldwide recognition as the star of Bravo’s hit reality series, Below Deck Mediterranean. Beyond the drama of television, she’s a trailblazer in her field, proving that resilience, adaptability, and strong leadership can chart the course for success—on land and at sea. She shares her wisdom in her book, Be The Calm or Be The Storm: Leadership Lessons from a Woman at the Helm, offering powerful insights into navigating challenges with confidence. She’s also the co-host of The Captain Sandy and Leah Rae Show podcast, where she continues to inspire with her leadership lessons and personal journey. Learn more at captainsandyyawn.com.

On this episode of Nobody Told Me!, we are beyond honored to welcome the legendary Martha Beck—one of the most influential thought leaders of our time. A Harvard-trained sociologist, New York Times bestselling author, and the woman Oprah Winfrey calls her ‘life coach,’ Martha has helped millions of people around the world break free from fear, self-doubt, and societal expectations to create lives of radical authenticity. Her book, The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self, became an instant bestseller and was named Oprah’s Book of the Year. As the founder of the Wayfinder Life Coach Training Program, she has redefined what it means to be a coach, mentor, and guide for those seeking clarity and purpose. You can learn more about her groundbreaking work at marthabeck.com.

Robert Greene is a bestselling author, strategist, and expert on power, influence, and human nature. Known for his meticulously researched and often provocative insights, Greene is one of the most influential thinkers on strategy, psychology, and social dynamics. His books—including The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, and The Laws of Human Nature—have been embraced by business leaders, politicians, athletes, and cultural icons like Jay-Z and 50 Cent.

Our guest on this episode is Jim Kwik, a world-renowned expert in speed-reading, memory improvement, and optimizing brain performance. For over three decades, Jim has been on a mission to help people unlock their full cognitive potential and become limitless.   He is the New York Times bestselling author of Limitless: Upgrade Your Brain, Learn Anything Faster, and Unlock Your Exceptional Life, which has empowered millions to rewire their thinking, enhance their memory, and accelerate their learning.   As the founder and CEO of Kwik Learning, Jim has worked with top universities like Harvard, Stanford, and Columbia, as well as leading companies such as Nike, GE, SpaceX, and Virgin. He’s also a sought-after coach for Hollywood actors, entrepreneurs, and high achievers looking to sharpen their mental agility.   Jim believes that in today’s fast-paced, information-heavy world, upgrading your brain isn’t just an advantage—it’s a necessity. In this conversation, he shares powerful techniques to boost memory, enhanc

Joining us on this episode is New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and philanthropist Bob Goff, who continues his mission of inspiring people to step boldly into the lives they were meant to live—before fear, doubt, or someone else’s opinion told them otherwise.   Bob, known as an “encourager to millions,” is the creator of the popular Dream Big framework and conferences, where he helps people turn their wildest aspirations into reality. He’s also the bestselling author of Love Does, Everybody, Always, Dream Big, and his latest book, Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy.   Beyond writing and speaking, Bob is actively involved in humanitarian work through his nonprofit, Love Does, which has been impacting lives around the world for over two decades. Whether he’s teaching at Pepperdine Law School, skydiving on a whim, or answering every phone call from strangers who find his number in his books, Bob lives by his belief that whimsy, love, and action can change the world.  

Our guest on this episode is Carson Kressley—Emmy Award-winning TV personality, style expert, fashion designer, and New York Times best-selling author.   Carson became a household name in 2003 as one of the original “Fab Five” on Bravo’s groundbreaking Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, revolutionizing the way we think about style, confidence, and self-expression. Since then, he’s graced our screens on Dancing with the Stars, Celebrity Apprentice, RuPaul’s Drag Race, The Traitors, and many more.   Beyond television, Carson is also a celebrated author, with books like Does This Book Make My Butt Look Big? A Cheeky Guide to Feeling Sexier in Your Own Skin & Unleashing Your Personal Style, helping readers embrace fashion with humor and heart.   We loved this conversation so much that we’re bringing it back! Tune in as Carson shares his journey, style wisdom, and some unforgettable behind-the-scenes stories.

In this episode, we are honored to sit down with David Bedrick, author, therapist, and advocate for dismantling shame and reclaiming authenticity. Known for his groundbreaking work on trauma, self-blame, and personal transformation, David brings a compassionate perspective to the complex ways shame impacts our lives and relationships.   We dive into his upcoming book, The Unshaming Way, and explore practical tools to unlearn harmful narratives, heal from trauma, and embrace the parts of ourselves we’ve been taught to hide. With David’s insights, we uncover how to transform our struggles into wisdom and live more authentically.   Whether you’re curious about healing, self-compassion, or navigating shame in your own life, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired, empowered, and ready to reclaim your story. Don’t miss this deeply moving and thought-provoking episode!

Steven Petrow is an award-winning journalist renowned for his ability to illuminate the human experience with warmth and insight. Known for his columns in The Washington Post, The New York Times, and USA Today, Steven has built a career offering thoughtful commentary on topics ranging from modern manners to personal wellness and aging with dignity.   In this episode, we sit down with Steven to discuss his latest book, “The Joy You Make”.The book is a powerful and uplifting exploration of how we can create joy in our lives, even in challenging times. Steven shares inspiring stories, actionable a dvice, and deeply personal reflections on how small, intentional acts can lead to profound happiness. Together, we unpack the transformative power of kindness, connection, and perspective in shaping a more joyful world.   This conversation is a heartwarming reminder of the beauty in everyday moments and the impact we have on one another. Tune in to be inspired by Steven’s wisdom and leave with practical ways to infuse

Could you use a new approach to your life and work?  Would you like to be better able to get your point across to others?  Is there a way that you could be more inspirational to others?  If you answered “Yes!” to any of those questions, you’ll want to hear what our guest, Jason Harris, has to say.   Jason is the Co-Founder & CEO of Mekanism, an award-winning creative advertising agency.  He’s also the author of the bestselling book, "The Soulful Art of Persuasion:  The 11 Habits that will make anyone a master influencer". Ritual’s clinically-backed Essential For Women 18+ multivitamin has high-quality, traceable key ingredients in clean, bioavailable forms.  It’s gentle on an empty stomach with a minty essence that helps make taking your multi-vitamin enjoyable. Our Nobody Told Me listeners! Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/NTM.  Start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ to your subscription today. Thinking about starting your own business?  Already have one?  Shopify is the all-in-one commerc

How can you become a great public speaker?  Our guest on this episode, Michael Gelb, has thoughts about public speaking that are refreshingly different than what you may have heard before.  Michael is an executive coach who’s worked with companies like Nike, Microsoft, Merck and DuPont over the past four decades giving presentations on creativity, innovation and leadership.  He’s the author of, "Mastering the Art of Public Speaking: 8 Secrets to Transform Fear and Supercharge Your Career".  His website is https://michaelgelb.com/ Ritual’s clinically-backed Essential For Women 18+ multivitamin has high-quality, traceable key ingredients in clean, bioavailable forms.  It’s gentle on an empty stomach with a minty essence that helps make taking your multi-vitamin enjoyable. Our Nobody Told Me listeners! Get 25% off your first month at ritual.com/NTM.  Start Ritual or add Essential for Women 18+ to your subscription today. Thinking about starting your own business?  Already have one?  Shopify is the all-in-one com