Ask Sue Bates Podcast

Compromising: you have heard it a lot. "Relationships are all about compromise." But how much is too much? How do you know when to settle and when you are getting screwed? I give you several examples of what is reasonable compromise and what is settling. Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

We hear from Diane today what should she do when she states dating and then she is not interested? Should she leave if she has doubts? Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

A great Question today! How young is too young? Melissa says she is in her mid 30’s ish… and want to know if dating a 28 yr old is too young. Hear why maybe not, but what to look out for. Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

We answer Leah's question today! She says, "I get in relationships with men who have pursued me and then at 2-3 months they want distance. Why is this happening and what do I do? Just walk away?" Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

It’s a test today! Be sure and listen to the episode to find out how to access the test. What you will learn: How does your partner ACT? What do you really want? Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

In this episode we talk about how to break up with a friend. What you will learn in this lesson How to know if it’s time to break up with your best friend. How to do it so you don't blow it up. Grieving the breakup of a best friend. When to stay and when to go. And more! Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

In this episode we talk about the 3 myths that will kill your chances of having a good relationship. What you will learn in this lesson Myth #1: Believing you are in a relationship when you're really just hooking up. Myth #2: Thinking if you meet the right guy it will all just work out. Myth #3: Needing a guy to love & accept you for who you are (unconditional love). And more! Be sure to stick around for the end of the episode to find out how you can get a free t-shirt!

I give you the exact words to use to say no, ask for what you want, break up with someone, after the first date… & more.   Visit asksuebates.com and leave a voice message with your question. If I pick your question you'll get a free t-shirt!

Are you dating or in a relationship? Do you have the same argument over and over? Find out here what you can do differently to get different results! Cynthia continuously tries to persuade her husband to change. It is too scary for Cynthia to see the reality of what is going on and what might happen. What she needs is to make some changes to what she is saying... instead of doing the same thing over and over. See what the changes are... What you will learn in this lesson: How to change your dating patterns or relationship.

Audrey, was 27 years old, a student of life, married and... miserable. She was a smart, talented and successful professional woman. But within her relationship, what was happening on the inside didn't match what was happening on the outside. Audrey learned over time that it was okay to have the life she wanted but she needed to learn how and when to take action and how to stop repeating negative relationship patterns. Audrey's story is inspiring. She needed to learn how to be her own hero. What you will learn in this lesson: How to navigate relationships by having the right tools and information to be able to make quicker decisions and move on to getting what you really want.