Love Via Hashem

“When I appreciate the good in my life, the good appreciates” Knowledge brings intimacy. Confess, talk, speak … know God -- HaShem wants you to know Him. Learn about His deeds, his creations, look and spend time in His nature. In this same way we should come to know our partners in the relationships. Our spouses, husbands, and wives, need accept, see, feel and bring into meld their consciousness into the other person, so that a positive outlook can be build. Then, focus on the good. Having a positive outlook is so crucial to building a healthy and long-lasting relationship. It’s easy to look at the negative in someone. “Oh look, you left your shoes out in the hallway …. Like ALWAYS!!!” …. How negative - and as science now shows, it is positive reinforcement that brings about positive change. Checking the words that we use also comes into play. Words like “always ” e.g. you always forget to turn off the lights downstairs …. Or “never” … e.g. You never seem to clean up after yourself do you? … ARE VERY HAR