Love Via Hashem

Getting the know the other person is so important in dating, relationships, and definitely marriage. Don’t go to a movie while you’re in the beginning stages of dating because you’re not going to be communicating or coming to know the other person. Something like a walk in the park, or benched face-to-face conversation is better. So this brings the question: Why do we date? We date for clarity. So, if you’re involved physically, there’s a good chance that you’re not going to be thinking as clearly. If you’re doing things with the person that doesn’t allow you to receive adequate knowledge of them, it’s not bringing you that clarity. Check out the 36 Questions That Lead to Love when you can. It will certainly bring a better understanding of this other human. Also, wanting marriage is essential. Determine, of course (step one), if that is what you want. And, if so, it is a good idea to bring up that subject to get the clarification from the other person, about their desires in light of the idea of marri