Love Via Hashem

When you invest in the child, you are giving .... & you start to love the child more and more. When you invest in others, they usually begin to notice and like you, but just the same, you start to like them more. It’s like the person who takes the teacher job because they just want money, and something easy to do. But, as they start to pour love, time, energy into the children, they start to like the the kids more, and their investments turn into their passion, their love grows. In a way, as we pour into our partners, we start to love them in way unimaginable. In fact, we find this even when the love isn’t reciprocated. The second idea is that women need love and men need respect. Take a look at the book - “Love and Respect.” Somehow, if you take a gander at female and male energies, the majority of how humans interact allow for this system to play out nicely. Each of us contain within our neshamas these female and male energies within us, but the ratio / proportions are different depending on what HaSh