Dralextrustedvoice

RELATIONSHIPS are all about oysters, but not how you're thinking!! In the fast-moving chaos of our everyday worlds, so often we inadvertantly turn relationships into a 'process of relating'. We polish the shell, and forget about the oyster! We lose our focus on what actually matters, and gradually erode the precious connection that holds two people together - the deep dynamic of being together in some personally fulfilling and meaningful way.Relationships are not merely about walking in parallel with another someone. Nor are they just about hooking up regularly & touching base. The bonds that really hold people together are more about a deep commitment to moving forwards, facing pretty much the same way. It's all about a magic glue that comes from deep inside. About nuances of precious intention that escape most people as they fight their way through their day.To grab hold of that glue takes FOCUS! Love is almost nothing to do with an accrual of shared day-to-day experiences. If it were, why would we have