Still Standing With Valerie Silveira

In this conversation, Valerie Silveira reflects on her daughter Jamie's struggles with addiction and the profound grief that followed her tragic death. She shares her thoughts on the complexities of love and loss, emphasizing that grief is an inevitable part of loving someone deeply. Valerie's insights reveal the emotional turmoil of watching a loved one battle addiction and the lasting impact of that experience.Takeaways:Valerie reflects on Jamie's 15 years of addiction and her subsequent murder.Half of Jamie's life was marked by struggles and challenges.Grief is the price we pay for love,Avoiding grief means valuing nothing or loving nobody.Valerie emphasizes the complexity of grief as an emotion.Love and loss are deeply intertwined in human experience.The conversation highlights the emotional impact of addiction on families.Valerie's reflections provide insight into the healing process after loss.The discussion encourages listeners to appreciate the value of love despite the pain of grief.Your story matter

Your story matters, so live it courageously!

In this conversation, Valerie Silveira shares her personal journey through struggles and the pivotal role of faith in overcoming adversity. She reflects on her lowest point, emphasizing the importance of seeking divine support during challenging times.Key Points: My lowest point was when I told my husband Rich, I don't want to be here anymore.God won't give you more than you can handle. Oh, yes, he will.I was on my knees so many times because I needed God.I couldn't get through this without what only He could give me.I needed divine support during my struggles.Faith played a crucial role in my recovery.Personal struggles can lead to profound spiritual growth.It's okay to seek help from a higher power.Resilience is built through facing our lowest points.Sharing our struggles can inspire others. Your story matters, so live it courageously!

Your story matters, so live it courageously!

n this episode, Valerie Silveira discusses the importance of recognizing and confronting the spiritual battles we face in life. She emphasizes that ignoring these struggles can lead to emotional turmoil and encourages listeners to actively fight against their personal 'beasts,' whether they manifest as grief, addiction, or self-doubt. Valerie shares her own experiences with loss and the necessity of grieving while also advocating for resilience and courage in the face of adversity. Ultimately, she inspires listeners to take charge of their lives and make a positive impact on others.TakeawaysThere's a war going on in our lives that we can't ignore.Grief is a process that needs to be acknowledged.Feelings can be managed; they shouldn't control us.The battle starts in our minds; we must choose our thoughts.Everyone has their own 'beast' to confront.Forgiveness is a powerful tool for healing.We must stand up and fight for ourselves.Our struggles can empower us to help others.Making a difference in one person's li

Your story matters, so live it courageously!

In this episode of Brave, Bold and Unfiltered, Valerie Silveira reflects on the importance of courage and the influence we have on others, especially in times of darkness. She shares personal stories about her daughter Jamie, the impact of addiction, and the lessons learned through grief and resilience. Valerie introduces her new initiative, Unbreakable Kids, aimed at empowering the next generation. Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes the significance of making choices that leave a positive legacy and encourages listeners to stand up and be role models for others.takeawaysCourage is essential in influencing others positively.Messages from loved ones can provide strength and motivation.We often underestimate the impact of our actions on others.Facing personal struggles can lead to growth and resilience.Creating initiatives for youth can help empower the next generation.Our lowest points can serve as catalysts for change.The importance of making conscious choices in life.We have the power to leave a leg

When life comes at you for more than two decades, you either crumble under the weight of it, or you find purpose in the pain. In this episode, Valerie is joined by her husband, Rich, for an unscripted, spur-of-the-moment conversation about life, dreams, maps burning, and purpose.If this message resonates, be sure to subscribe, share, and comment!

This is the episode that can change everything for you. This is YOUR time. Your moment—to choose Freedom.If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe and watch on YouTube. Get a copy of my latest book, Burn the Map. Importantly, share with someone who needs freedom, hope, and courage.

In this episode of Brave, Bold and Unfiltered, Valerie Silveira discusses the themes of resilience and courage in the face of life's challenges. Drawing from her personal experiences, she emphasizes the importance of choosing courage over fear, finding joy amidst pain, and the healing power of laughter. Valerie shares her journey through grief and the ongoing struggles her family faces, encouraging listeners to embrace their own journeys and find meaning in their experiences.TakeawaysLife presents us with inevitable challenges that we must face.Courage is a choice that we must make repeatedly.Finding joy in pain is essential for personal growth.Grief is a long journey, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed.We can rewire our brains to find happiness in difficult times.Laughter can be a powerful tool for healing.It's important to embrace the journey, not just the destination.Choosing to be a victim is a decision; we can choose empowerment instead.Our stories have value and can inspire others.We can turn our struggl

In this episode, Valerie Silveira discusses themes from her book 'Burn the Map', focusing on the importance of igniting hope and courage in oneself and others, especially during difficult times. She shares personal stories of struggle, resilience, and the transformative power of choosing to inspire others despite one's own challenges. The conversation emphasizes the significance of being a light for others and the impact of personal growth on relationships and community.- It's important to share your story to inspire others.- You don't have to wait for life to get better to act.- Your experiences can empower others to find hope.- Being a role model can strengthen family bonds.- You have the power to ignite change in the world.Check out these messages:00:00 Igniting the Spark of Hope10:03 Courage in the Face of Adversity19:05 Becoming a Light for OthersYour story matters, so live it courageously!

Ever feel like you don't know where to begin to live courageously? In this episode, you will be inspired by the importance of courage, being yourself, and so much more.We also have a bonus clip with April, one of the Warriors featured in my latest book, Burn the Map.If this episode inspires you, please share! Spread the hope.

Have you ever thought your heart's not built for what you're going through? In this episode, Sean and I talk about the courageous heart. And this week we have a BONUS session where Sean interviews my husband (his step-dad), Rich, about a huge loss Rich sustained as a teenager. Sean and Rich have a shared grief, but they also have a shared courage. P.S. We had no plan for Rich's interview and no idea how emotional it would be. That's the price we pay for love—and it's worth it.

Nobody signs up for adversity. We do everything we can to avoid it. But no matter how hard we try, storms, setbacks, and fire will find us. The good news? You weren’t just built to survive the fire—you were forged by it.In Episode 8 of the Burn the Map series, I share the lessons from Chapter Seven, Forged in the Fire. From sea turtles struggling to reach the ocean, to the minefield moments that shake us, this episode is about how adversity doesn’t just test us—it reveals and strengthens us.This episode also includes a special bonus clip from Shawnie, one of the Warriors featured in Burn the Map. In this episode:Why adversity is not here to bury you, but to strengthen youWhat sea turtles can teach us about struggle and survivalHow to stop making life harder than it needs to be“Minefield moments” and how to handle the unexpectedWhy adversity is not your kryptonite—it’s your superpowerShawnie’s inspiring clip

Life’s storms come in many forms—grief, betrayal, loss, health battles, unexpected change—and they rarely show up when we’re ready. Some storms give no warning. Others we see coming from miles away. And some rage on for years.In Episode 7 of the Burn the Map series, I share stories and lessons from Chapter Six, The Storms That Shape Us. We’ll talk about the different kinds of life storms, what they leave behind, and how they can shape us into overcomers rather than victims.In this episode:Earthquakes: The storms with no warningHurricanes: The ones we see comingTornadoes: Chaos that hits fast and hardWildfires: The long-term battles that reshape everythingHow to find meaning and strength in the aftermathIf you’re in the middle of a storm right now—or still feeling the fallout from one—this is a reminder that you are stronger than you know.Your story matters, so live it courageously!

In this episode of 'Brave Bold and Unfiltered', Valerie Silveira discusses the themes of her book 'Burn the Map', focusing on the importance of letting go of control and embracing life's uncertainties. She shares personal stories and insights, emphasizing that true strength lies in acceptance and the ability to manage one's thoughts, words, actions, and feelings. The conversation explores the impact of labels, the necessity of releasing unhealthy relationships, and the freedom that comes from surrendering control.Takeaways:Letting go is essential for personal growth.You can only control your thoughts, words, actions, and feelings.Life is unpredictable; embrace the uncertainty.Labels can limit your identity; you are more than them.Releasing control can lead to peace and acceptance.It's okay to let go of relationships that no longer serve you.Trusting others' journeys is part of letting go.Emotional strength comes from acceptance, not control.Recognizing when to let go is a sign of maturity.Your moment to set y

What does it take to truly master the warrior mindset? It’s not about perfection—it’s about perspective, persistence, and the willingness to get back up no matter how many times life knocks you down.In Episode 5 of the Burn the Map series, I talk about the habits, choices, and mindsets that keep Warriors moving forward, even in the face of devastating loss.This episode also includes a powerful bonus clip from Shawnie, one of the Warriors featured in Burn the Map, who faced two heartbreaking losses within a single month. Her “gratitude attitude” will challenge and inspire you to reframe your own perspective.Your story matters, so live it courageously!

The big fat lie we’ve all believed? That courage is reserved for the obviously brave. In reality, courage is built in the middle of fear and uncertainty—and it belongs to everyone.In Episode 4 of the Burn the Map series, Sean and I sit down to talk about Chapter Three of the book and why courage isn’t about being fearless or perfect. We dive into the messy, raw moments where real bravery is born and share how this chapter’s Warriors redefined what courage looks like in their own lives.In this episode (with Sean):

Fear isn’t just an emotion—it’s a thief. It steals dreams, relationships, and opportunities. In Episode 3 of the Burn the Map series, I dive into Chapter Two of the book: Fear Is Killing Us.This episode is about recognizing the Beast of fear, how it shows up in your life, and how it silently convinces you to settle for less. In this episode, Sean & I share:Fear isn’t just an emotion—it’s a thief. It steals dreams, relationships, and opportunities. In Episode 3 of the Burn the Map series, I dive into Chapter Two of the book: Fear Is Killing Us.This episode is about recognizing the Beast of fear, how it shows up in your life, and how it silently convinces you to settle for less. I’ll also share how I learned to call fear out, stop letting it control me, and lean into divine backup when my own strength wasn’t enough.In this episode:How fear disguises itself as logic or safetyWhy you can’t “wait” for fear to disappear before actingThe Beast of fear—and how to name yoursWhere I found strength when fear felt ov

What happens when the life you planned suddenly burns to the ground—or when you realize you lit the match yourself?In Episode 2 of the Burn the Map series, I dive into Chapter One of the book and the moments that change everything. From the first time my daughter Jamie was shot… to Sandy’s wake-up call… to the kind of fear that paralyzes you when the map disappears—this episode explores the fires we don’t ask for and the ones we start without realizing.We don’t always choose the fire—but we can choose what happens next.Some maps burn slowly, and others disappear in a flash. Sometimes we unknowingly or purposely set fire to the plan. No matter how you got here, you are standing on foreign territory. It's all about what you choose to do next. Your story matters, so live it courageously!