Synopsis
Outlining the family journey and sharing experiences for those with loved ones in active addiction or fighting addiction in a recovery program. The host Hank has a loved one who has battled drug addiction and uses candor, real examples, and humor to share a story that is real and hopeful - and always genuine.
Episodes
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043 - 420 or April 20th The World is Changing
20/04/2018 Duration: 09minHank covers 420 also known as April 20 to us older people. Additionally I talk about cannabis legalization the reality of the future of America from a marijuana standpoint in my opinion. I also touch on the fact that much like alcohol being legal and a very small percentage have a problem with it we will see the same thing with marijuana, in my opinion. This is not an endorsement rather a state of reality in the United States in the 21st-century
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042 - WAZE and the Ability to See the Future
19/04/2018 Duration: 19minAnd this podcast cover a little bit about the application for traffic known as Waze and I also talk about being able to see the future as the parent of someone with substance abuse disorder. Equally vital is my in-depth coverage of how to catch poison ivy before it’s even 70°. Also I cover a new parent support groupThat my wife and I recently visited and what we learned and took away.
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041 - Alert to Your Surroundings
13/04/2018 Duration: 04minThis is just a quickie at less than six minutes With a few observations about our surroundings and what we give off and what we take in. Enjoy what I hope will be a wonderful weekend for all of you with some peace some love and some personal recognition that you were doing all you can for you and your loved one.
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040 - One Day at A Time for Parents
07/04/2018 Duration: 11minWe have all heard of ONE DAY AT A TIME but how does that apply to us as parents? When are we getting ahead of ourselves? When are we out over the front of our own skis? It’s a common error for those of us who have loved ones who are in the fight to be hopeful and that is OK. However in my view and experience tempering your thoughts with that mantra of one day at a time as it applies to us as parents has been Vitally important for my own sanity checks.
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039 - The Wisdom to Know the Difference
26/03/2018 Duration: 08minIn today’s podcast I touch on the serenity prayer that is very well known in society and has been adopted by many 12 step programs. The last verse of this prayer has become extremely meaningful to me personally over the past few months. Please take a quick listen and see if you can relate.Peace and loveHank
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038 - Hype VS Real Carnage and Damage
22/03/2018 Duration: 11minWeather apocalypse predictions, who will get elected, who is suing whom, government shutdowns, who was promoted ahead of you at the office etc....we all have stuff to deal with but those of us that have a loved one battling their drug and alcohol challenges are literally in a fight for our lives. I separate a little fact from disinformation and how you may put some armor on to get through the day. I do not think I state it on this particular episode BUT get into a parent/sibling/friend support group with like minded people if at all possible. We have had great direction, companionship and friendship from a few we attend and that is the ultimate self care! As we learned YOU ARE NOT ALONE....
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037 - Review #1 (Eight books worth a comment)
22/03/2018 Duration: 18minA quick review of a few books that I have on my self help shelf mostly focused on understanding addiction and the challenges of substance abuse disorder
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036- RAGE is justifiable! It’s OK to feel this way
11/03/2018 Duration: 06minOK - a Little ramp to really gonna get some things off my chest things I’m upset about things I’m angry about and a recognition that this too shall pass. Thank you for indulging me on this five minutes of going off on the institutions and I’m thankful I have a listening audience or even just a tape recorder to talk into at times.I also understand that there are proper use of medication and that proper opioid use has its place in the treatment market for severe pain. Please do not email me about this although given the title of the podcast no one has ever called me sticking up for pill manufacturers who have really stuffed the market for opioids.
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035 - Phrases in The Recovery World I Didn’t Understand
09/03/2018 Duration: 16minLet’s be honest, there are Phrases And terminology and other bits and pieces of language that I just did not understand when I first got another world of recovery. I found them frustrating, completely baffling and really making no sense. Nearly 4 years in I seem to of obtained a full education With an understanding that resonates in my own life. If you have been frustrated with people in recovery parents whose children were in recovery or yourself in recovery were things that should make sense just did not, then take 15 minutes and listen to this.Peace & LoveHank
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032 - When Your Loved One Visits You
27/02/2018 Duration: 08minThis is just an overview of how I have handled visit from my child who is struggling with substance abuse disorder. We all know about the visits when they may need something, or when they’re using, or in fact they may live with you. However for those of us that do not have loved ones living with us, Visit can be exciting and also fraught with concern. Occasionally we need to take a sabbatical from the mental awareness and constant focus on this devastating disease. We have the power to decide when and where we will spend time with those we love in all areas of life including those with substance abuse disorder. Peace and love this is Hank
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030 - Thank the Counselors
22/02/2018 Duration: 10minHey everybody this is just a quick overview on what I have done that has been rewarding to me psychologically in terms of thanking others.While I’m sure experiences with counselors Varies, my exposure has been almost 100% positive.
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029 - Helping Myself by Giving to Others
20/02/2018 Duration: 05minThis is just a quick story of something I did for my brother that helped me channel some of my own tension and stress about other areas of my life mainly Stemming from the opioid misuse that is going on with our child
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028 - Managing Codependency with Alex Trebek
17/02/2018 Duration: 04minOK this touches on alcoholism, codependency, eldercare, assisted living, parenting, and the game show Jeopardy. In no way shape or form am I Stating that I know anything about Alex Trebek for all the lawyers out there. It’s just a quick rant that when I listen to a second time I actually laughed out loud peace and love Hank
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027 - Getting Yourself Able to Face the Day
16/02/2018 Duration: 12minHere we have an overview of how I personally get myself up when I fall down. There are times of doubt, sadness, hopelessness and these are countered with hope, love, energy and action. I don’t hold myself up to be anything special, Rather I’m just the average dad dealing with a somewhat abnormal situation and trying to get through the day. I hope this helps. peace
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026 - How the Challenges of Substance Misuse May Affect Your Other Family Members
11/02/2018 Duration: 13minI owe an apology to some family members and did it live earlier, but address it here a bit. Admitting when you are wrong is a good move. Best intentions and unasked for advice from your friends and families also addressed. The Myths of what causes addiction.Also rambling a bit on creating opportunities for yourself in this world.
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025 - A Real Life Discussion with My Son Relayed To You
03/02/2018 Duration: 12minThis podcast summarizes a challenging situation with user in active addiction last night. Without question brutally challenging decision and discussion with the person I love very much, however he needs to hold himself accountable. This is not advice for what to do, however this is what I chose to do and while that may be right or wrong and some people’s minds cannot make a decision-I was able.Hank
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024 - Learning How to Speak to Your Child
01/02/2018 Duration: 11minThis quick hit podcast provides an overview of an organization working diligently on southeast Pennsylvania it is called be a part of the conversation. This organization six to equip parents with the opportunity and ability to speak affectively concisely and intelligently with the developing young children with regard to drugs and alcohol. Also addressed is the reality that wall not everyone will become an addict that uses at a young age, it is in total agreement that introducing substances to a developing brain and critical points has the potential for Devastatingly negative results.Also an endorsement of the fact that addiction is a family disease and gaining support direction and assistance on the family journey of recovery is a huge benefit. Mentioned in the podcast is Caron And most especially the counselors in the organization that work with the families.
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