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The Relationship with Yourself Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 32 Interview with: Love Coach Dani Spikes An essential component in your relationship Love yourself The journey is self-love is on your own, and it will impact the connection in your relationships. Men and women both can experience problems related to self-love. Women need to better themselves to become better wives just as men need to better themselves to become better husbands Loving yourself includes developing Self-worth and Self-value. Some major components in self-love Learn to forgive yourself Be ok with putting yourself Know your own truth Take away points It is impossible to love anyone else if you do not know how to love yourself. Follow the link below to find out more about Love Coach Dani Spikes and The Spiked Brunch www.iamdanispikes.com

  Don’t allow your past relationship to ruin your current relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 31 Chats with Dr. Kia James and Monika Cope-Ward There is a reason why your Ex is your Ex In this week’s podcast we discussed how you can bring your past relationship into your current relationship.  This can happen so quickly and so easily.  Make sure you consider the consequences when you open the door to an ex.  Additionally, be aware that your current behavior may be the result of previous interactions with an ex-lover.  Review and analyze your current behavior.  If your current behavior has the potential to hold your lover responsible for the actions of an ex, it is time to change your behavior. Ways your Ex Can Be Present and Problematic in Your Current Relationship? Social Media Stalking your Ex can be tempting, but this can cause major damage to your current relationship When there are problems in your current relationship, a friendship with your ex may be questioned. If there is unfinished bu

Protect Your Relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 30 Chats with Monika and Kia Affair Prevention Don’t be the victim of an “After School Special” of relationships. You are not the exclusion to being in a relationship where an affair can occur. What is an affair An affair is Any external factor that comes between you and your partner. For the purpose of this podcast, the focus is on an emotional or sexual connection with another person. Factors That Lead to an Affair Stinking thinking is a set up for an affair. Your thought process will definitely leave a gap in your relationship for an affair to occur. There are a few mindsets that can leave your relationship especially vulnerable. Thinking that your vows are enough to save your relationship is not realistic. You have to regularly work on your relationship to continuously strengthen your bond. Putting your partner on a pedestal is a sure set up for failure. No one is perfect, and having unrealistic expectation of perfection can cause stress to

Criticism Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 29 Dr. Kia James A Communication Killer Criticism is not keeping it real, It is an attack of your partner. As opposed to stating that you have a concern, you attack your partner by stating that they have a character flaw. You tell your partner, “something is wrong with you.” as opposed to stating that you have a problem about a specific situation or event. The recipient of the criticism many times feels disrespected. Criticism shuts down communication Criticism many time starts with the statement you always or you never. You always make a mess. You never take out the trash. Being critical leads to high level conflict We all have complaints I am not saying that you should not communicate your complaints. What I am saying is that you should not justify an attack of your partner due to you being dissatisfied with a situation. A complaint allows your partner to know what you like and don’t like. It opens the door for more communication. You are sharing facts a

What do men want in relationships Podcast Episode 28 Interview with Panama Jackson the Co-Founder of Very Smart Brothas (VSB) A Male Perspective on Relationships Panama Jackson is a relationship and pop culture blogger. On today’s episode, he shared a male perspective on relationships. A few of the topics covered in this episode are: Is sex a priority for men in a relationship? Is understanding the mind of a male essential to have a great relationship? Are there things that are known as a real “turn off” for most men? What are common themes that men struggle with in relationships? The Burning Question: “What do Men Want in a Relationship?” Men want to have Inside Jokes with their partner Loyalty is a desired characteristic. Men want to have the desire to want to come home. A comfortable home A relationship that helps him grow as a person. A significant other that can slow him down and capture his attention. Concisely, men and women want similar things in a relationship. The overall goal is to have a relat

Communicating with Your Significant Other Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 27 Chats with Monika The Importance of Communication in Your Relationship What is Communication Communication is the art of expressing yourself.   There is the person who sends the message, and there is also the person who receives the message.  What is actually said is just as important as what is heard.  Both people have a role in this communication dance.  Make sure you take responsibility for the role that you play. You Express yourself through many ways Recognize that you are expressing yourself in many different ways.  Depending on how you send the message, pieces of the message may be missed.  This is especially true when you are communicating in an electronic way.  When you send a text message, you miss much of the non-verbal portion of the message.  Keep this in mind when you are having conversation.  During the podcast, we discussed the different methods of expression: Verbal Non-Verbal Communication Facial Expressions

An Inter-Racial Relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 26 Interview with Shaundra Hudson Diversity Series Part 3 Go to our web page for the show notes: www.RelationshipBoosters.com

Inter-Racial Relationships Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 25 Interview with Julie Hanson  Diversity Series Part 2: Navigating the world of biracial relationships Check out the show notes at www.relationshipboosters.com

Sexual Minorities and Relationships Podcast Episode 24 Xanthia Johnson LPC, LCPC, ACS, RPT-S Diversity and Relationships Series (Ep 1) There are many potential problems and stressors that impact sexual minorities who are in intimate relationships. The term sexual minority refers to individuals who identify as the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender, Intersex Questioning, Queer, and Non-binary. During the Podcast, Xanthia shares relationship do’s and don’ts for sexual minorities. Get the Show Notes: www.therelationshipboosters.com/episode24

Black Couple Getaways Podcast Episode 23 Interview with Jerome (JD) Davis, Executive Director of Black Couple Getaways Get the Show Notes For todays episode www.therelationshipboosters/episode23 Don’t Miss The Couples Breakaway Cruise: Our upcoming cruise on the Norwegian Breakaway leaves from NY on September 17th - 24th. We will have a couple’s workshop, 3 DJ’s from NY, 5 Private Parties, All You Can Eat, All You Can Drink, and much, much, more.   The current price includes all gratuities, taxes, and fees. DON’T MISS THE BOAT! Building Your Extraordinary Relationship: As relationship counselors and coaches, we have packages to help you improve your relationship. If your relationship is in need of a jump start or relationship repair, contact us and we will be glad to help with boosting your relationship. Events Workshops and Retreats: “Improve Your Relationship & Have an Enjoyable “Couples Playdate” Retreat Style. We recognize the need for couples to continue to enhance their relationship. We host couples

The impact of trauma on your relationship Podcast Episode 22 Laura Reagan LSCW-C Trauma Specialist  How Emotional Pain from Childhood Can Cause Problems Something that happened at 5 years old can affect you at age 65; therefore, it is important to recognize that things that occur in childhood can impact you as an adult.  Ultimately, childhood trauma can cause major problems in your intimate relationships.  Intimacy requires vulnerability, which can be difficult for individuals who have experienced trauma or have difficulty with trust.  Check out the show notes. www.relationshipboosters.com

Enhancing Your Emotional Connection Podcast Episode 21 Chats with Monika Don’t Allow Your Relationship to Run on Auto-pilot A common theme we hear, providing relationship counseling, is that couples feel that they have grown apart. They go through the day taking care of everyone else in the family, making sure that the kids are fed, homework is complete, and that all the tasks associated with maintaining a household are done, all while putting the relationship needs to the side. This distancing between you and your partner can negatively impact the relationship and eventually erode your emotional connection. Get the Show Notes at www.relationshipboosters.com    

The importance of Good physical health & your Relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 20 Interview with Risa Ganel, Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist & Fitness Coach. Risa has a passion to help couples strengthen themselves physically and emotionally to develop strong relationships. GET OUR SHOW NOTES WWW.RELATIONSHIPBOOSTERS.COM

The importance of self care or women Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 19 Interview with Alice and Judy of Just Breathe Ministries: AVOID LOSING YOU IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP Just Breathe is an organization that empowers women. They work to help women access their dreams. Many women may have dreams, goals. and desires that may be closed off due to life. The founders of this organization want women to know that they are valued. Show Notes: www.relationshipboosters.com

Valentine’s Day When You’re In a Relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 18 Host: Dr. Kia James Making Your Valentine’s Day Meaningful For your information, many couples struggle around Valentine’s Day.  It can be a great, but stressful time for those in relationships.  There are 364 other days that can make or break your relationship.  If you are waiting for Valentine’s Day and other holidays to express your love, your relationship may be in trouble.  To master your relationship, you must work on your relationship regularly.  Happy Couples know that their partner is thinking about them regularly. John Gottman recommends to do Little Things often. Pump your partners gas. Prepare a surprise lunch. If your relationship is on auto-pilot, Valentine’s day can be a gift to your relationship Use this day to reconnect and recommit to your relationship. Valentine’s Day is the gift giving holiday.  Gifts can be a nice gesture, but being creating and thoughtful does not have to come from an expensive gift

Relationships and religion Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 17 Interview with Dr. Green, Senior pastor of Bethel Ministries A Religious Perspective on Relationships Get the show notes for todays episode: www.relationshipboosters.com

An entrepreneurs love story Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 16 Interview with Author LR JACKSON: Relationship Advice for Entrepreneurs and Their Lovers As discussed last week on the podcast, there is evidence to support that entrepreneurs are not the best relationship partners. There are many entrepreneurs who are successful in their relationship or marriage; therefore, it is more than possible for an entrepreneur or executive to have relationships success. Today’s interview will be with LR Jackson. She is an entrepreneur in the process of writing and publishing books. In addition, she works as a vice president for a company. LR Jackson shares how she makes her relationship work despite her employment. How One Entrepreneur Has Made Her Love Story a Success. Both LR Jackson and her partner are secure in their relationship. Her partner is encouraging and supportive. He pushes LR Jackson to follow her dreams. She feels good about her relationship. This allows her to focus when she is at work. If she was s

Are Entrepreneurs Bad Lovers? Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 15 Chats with Monika: Relationship Advice for Entrepreneurs and Their Lovers There is much speculation that the divorce rate for entrepreneurs is higher than the general population. In addition, there are many reports supporting the idea that entrepreneurs are bad relationship partner’s. Since relationships are important, take a moment to make sure you are not the next entrepreneur put in the horrible relationship partner category. How Entrepreneurs Can Improve Their Relationship. Make deposits in your partner’s emotional bank account. Invest In your relationship Go to retreats for couples Read books about relationship success Use counseling services to work through emotional and sexual problems. Respond to your partner’s phone calls. Make quality time a priority. Eliminate distracted during “couples time.” Have frequent conversations about your business and personal goals.  

  Boundaries with In-laws Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 14 Interview with Dr. Pauline Belton: Are your in-laws building a bridge between you and your partner? Go to our show notes and get some tips that healthy couples use to prevent their in-laws from causing relationship problems. www.relationshipboosters.com  

Work Stress and your relationship Relationship Boosters Podcast Episode 13 Interview with LeAndrea Banks:  Do you allow work stress to highjack your life and your relationship? In today’s world, it is so easy to allow stress to negatively impact your life. Ultimately, it can put a damper on your relationship if you allow it. Recognizing that work stress impacts family life is a must.  How can you prevent your work life from becoming your real-life problem? Get the show notes at www.relationshipboosters.com