My Life My Choice

Did you know that your choices, the choices that you make in life are considered a contractual agreement?  An agreement that has been signed sealed and delivered by you!  Did you know that your choice/contract is between you and the Universe, and as such is Universally binding?  Your choice invokes the Universal Law of Free Will.  How you exercise your ability to choose is the key to everything that you want in this life and the next.  Before you can have "it" whatever, "it" is, you must first choose “it.”  Everything in your life the good, the bad, the ugly, the sad and the beautiful is there as a result of your choices.  Do you understand the power to be had in your conscious choice?  This show is dedicated to the understanding of the power of choice.  Join me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach as we discuss you and choice

Can you trust you?  If not you then who?  Do you trust YOU with your life.  Do you trust the choices that you are currently making are in the best interest of self?  The ability to trust you, consciously without reservation will allow you to create the life that you want to live, by taking the most direct route. Join us live, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Coach and Expression Coach Olivia Lashley on Wednesday @ 1.00PM  PST on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice as we discuss YOU and the empowerment you will experience by trusting YOU implicitly.  Unable to join us live?  Download the archived podcast edition at http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com/apps/podcast/

Do you want miracles to happen in your life?  Many of us have prayed for a miracle, longed for a miracle, even witnessed other people’s miracles.  We often speak in lamentable terms of miraculous things happening, secretly believing that what we are asking for will never ever happen.  We may even have experience a miracle or two.  But what many of us fail to realize is that no matter what unfolds in our lives "we are the miracle!"  Join Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Life Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression Coach and Art as we look at miracles.

There is a presence in your life that is constant in all things.  It’s the common denominator.  This presence is in everything that you do; everything that you think, everything that you say.  It’s present in the good times and bad times.  It’s in your breath, your life…it’s even in your death.  This presence is with you throughout eternity.  It can never be destroyed, it can only move into form and out of form, evolving with every chrysalis and metamorphosis into something new.  “What is the common denominator in your life?”  Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at the “denominator” and what it means to you, your choices and creating the life that you want to live. On Wednesday Jan 4 @ 1.00pm PST on http://www.blogtalkradio.com/mylifemychoice

2011!  What an awesome year!  This year on “My Life My Choice” has been dedicated to the power of Belief.  We manifest that which we believe.  What we perceive of, will not manifest if it is not injected with the fuel of your intrinsic belief.  As you look around you, as you take in your macrosphere, all that you see around you is a result of your inner beliefs made manifest.  We’ve witness births and deaths of loved ones.  We’ve witness all these transitions that has been marked by the Sunrise and sunset of each day and the waxing and waning of the moon each month…and we are here, we’ve survived and are stronger…should we choose, for our experiences.  Join Dr. Wendy Dearborne, Choice Expert and Olivia Lashley, Expression Coach and Artist, as we embrace the endless opportunities that 2012 offers us.

As the dawn of 2012 rapidly approaches, millions of people all over the world, like you, are going to make 2012 New Year’s resolutions, which really are going to turn into lies. Because by the middle of January 90% have already unceremoniously given their resolution the boot, right into the gutter.  Why?    Because creating your New Year’s resolution actually takes planning...proper planning.  Most resolutions are not thought out and lack proper planning and as a result, they do not come to fruition. This also creates a premise where you start in with negative self talk, which only compounds your ability to create the life that you want to live.  So how do you solve this issue?  With implementing your 4 C's!  What do clarity in choice, commitment; concentration and consequence have to do with your New Year’s resolution?  Join us, Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Expressions Coach Olivia Lashley as we discuss resolutions, lies and you!

Allan Silberhartz is the curator of The Bridging Heaven & Earth International Healing Art Project and is our guest today.  Did you know that Art can heal?  Have you ever looked a piece of art and got lost in the moment?   Then you have experienced the feeling of healing that art can bring.  Allan has created this project to bring healing to individuals and the world through the powerful medium of art.  Join us as Allan tells his story and invites you to join in healing the planet. Visit Allan’s website  http://www.scoop.it/t/healing-art-project 

What sort of regrets will you have if someone close to you transitions NOW?!      Or if you were to transition NOW?! Don't think that it won't or can't happen to you. Because it can and it will. It happens to all of us whether we want it or not. There is nothing like the unexpected loss of someone close to you to put life into perspective. Are your relationships with self and others clean? By this I mean, are you honest and truthful with yourself and how you express yourself and interact with others? Integrity is not just a word that describes someone’s personal style or personality type. Integrity is a tangible substance that binds your relationship with self and your relationship with others together. It's a Universal adhesive. Join Coach Olivia and Dr. Wendy  as we talk about this sensitive subject of relationships, you and your integrity.

Living in the future can be as detrimental as living in the past.   That’s right your future and how you think about it can be holding you back.  Many people underestimate this fact.  Many haven’t realized that living in the future can “hold you hostage” anchoring you to your past and to a future that is unknown.   You can become paralyzed as you try to move toward your perceived future.   This is for a variety of reasons i.e. fear of the process, anxiety over the right move or not knowing how to get there…wherever there is.   There is a difference between setting goals, working a plan of action and living in the future.  Join us as discuss what this means to you and your dreams.

Are you being held hostage by your past?  Do you want to dump things from your past and start living again?  Many of us are unable to move forward to create the lives that we want. This is because we chose not to release the past or we are afraid to…or we don’t know how.    Motivational speaker and queen of affirmations, Chantilly Elijah-Eggerson, producer and host of Inspired Lady Radio and creator of Conscious and Sassy Radio and T.V, along with Dr. Bernadette Elijah, co-host and producer will be our guest this week to talk about the need for you to,  “Let Go of Your Past and Live!” This inspirational duo, will be discussing the importance of letting go of the past and the positive impact it will have on your life.  They will share transformative methods of cleansing and clearing away old out dated baggage, freeing you to create the life that you want to live.  Join us for an exciting life altering show.

Is it more than "just life?!"  It most certainly is much more than “just” the life that you are currently living.  Your life isn’t happening by accident.  There is a Universal ebb and flow to everything that happens to us.  To empower yourself you must first discover the secret that will allow you to create the life that you want to live.  The secret is the key of personal conscious choice.  Today's show explores conversations that we've had about choice and conversations that we may want to have.  We will be delving into subject matter that we covered on previous shows and things that we may not have touch upon...yet.  We’ll elaborate on a point or to bring something fresh and new to your choice making equation.  Today we “free style” because life is choice and it's about you, its' about me, it's about Olivia, it's about us and the tools and the choices that you make to create the life you want to live.  We welcome you…join us!

Trust is the adhesive and underpinning of all that you do.  Trust is the foundation of commitment.  Break a commitment to self and others and you undermine your ability to trust yourself.  Your inability to trust yourself means that you will lack belief in any choice that you make.  Your life manifests according to your beliefs.  “As a man thinketh in his heart; so he is.”  So, since our lives are based upon, built upon and created one choice at a time, trusting you…is imperative.  Join us as we explore trust and you! http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com

Your history does not define your destiny, your choices do, so who are you without all your bling, rings and things?  Who are you without all the drama, hurts, wounds and victimology?  Who are you without your spouse, siblings and children?  Who are you without your religion, science and theological teachings?  Who are you without your labels, titles, jobs, ABC’s and 123’s?  Who are you when death is swirling, engulfing and consuming you…who are you then…when everything is stripped away, who are you?  The more important question is WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE!  Join us! http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com

Isn’t that what you feel like saying to all that insane, never ending chatter that goes on inside your head?  Yes!  You know exactly what I mean.  The seemingly useless chatter that follows us and torments us wherever we go…even while we are sleeping.  We possess multiple facets that assist us with our choice making process; including the logical, analytical and reasoning minds… they have the unique ability to produce that inane chatter that leads to mental and emotional paralysis of our choice making process.  Do you need to flip the switch and dial it down so that you can move forward in your life?  Join us and see! http://www.itsmylifemychoice.com

Do you need to change your life? Do you want to change your life?  Most of us live out our lives with fleeting moments of true and authentic thankfulness and gratitude.  Many of us just get caught up with the business of living and making it through the day.   Over the last 5 years we have heard much about having an "attitude of gratitude."  There is so much power to be found in the simple act of being grateful.  Gratitude has the ability to transform your life from one of lack to that of abundance.  It has the ability to enrich every facet of your life, and can instantly reframe any situation, taking something from a negative to a positive. Join Motivational Life & Choice Coach Dr. Wendy Dearborne and Expressions Life Coach Olivia Lashley as we look at how gratitude can reframe and transform your life.

Marcus Dearbone is the create power behind Temposetta and the music that is produced.  Today we'll take a candid look at the lyrical and spiritual journey Marcus has taken.  The challenges overcome and what inspires him. His music always sends a compelling message of triumph.  And that triumph is ours for the taking should we choose.  Join us as we listen to his music and what is happening next in his life!

Your intuition is one of the most powerful guides in your life.   It’s up close and very personal.  It has no vested interest other than assisting you in getting what it is that you need, want or desire.  Listening and acting on your intuition can be the difference between life and death...or living the life that you want to live vs. living the life that someone has chosen for you. Listening and following your intuit voice, not only gives you pertinent information that will get you what you need, followed by what you want, it will also give you confidence.  It’s the kind of confidence that comes from the intrinsic belief that “I AM, therefore I CAN! Because that all knowingness inside of me is telling me it is so!”  Having a conscious relationship with your intuitive self is one of the keys to you being able to live and create your life the way that you want it.  Intuition assists you in your choice making process. Join us as we talk about you, me and intuition.

Color is a powerful force in our lives. Often overlooked and understated as a viable tool to help us to create the lives that we want to live.  Color, just like an artist’s palette, has the ability to affect us in numerous “subtle” ways.   It heals, it encourages, it motivates, it empowers, it energizes, it influences our moods and it connects you to all people and all things in the earthly and heavenly realms.  Join us as we explore the power of color.

What Happens When “Next” Doesn’t Show Up?    When I read the phrase “what happens when “next” doesn’t show up”  it literally, stopped me "COLD" in my tracts.  What happens when the next thing in your life doesn’t show up as it should do, could do, would do?  Where do you go from there?  This question actually lead me to thinking all sorts of things, but I came to the conclusion that we always have a goal in mind for everything…even when we think or say that we don’t.  This was written in a blog that I read on LinkedIn by  motivational speaker, author, image and brand consultant - S. Renee. http://bit.ly/nhKbzm   Join Olivia and I, as we explore what does happen when your “Next” doesn’t show up!

As the school year starts, will the daily grind of getting everything that needs to be done in a 16 hour day that really requires 28 hours, leave you “just” going through the motions with your children.   The husband, the kids, the house, the dog, homework, cooking, washing, cleaning, shopping, extracurricular activities, job, socializing, etc.  Does the end of the day fatigue and the early morning rush leave little time to listen to communicate effectively, with yourself, much less your children?  Today, Heather Criswell our resident child care expert and coach is back to share with you the potential of what can happen when you are parenting “Unconsciously” and how not to let that happen and what to do about it if you are!