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We all want to achieve something in life. Yet we fail at them because of the lack of willpower. Fortunately, Eli Shahaf has hopes for all of us. He believes that willpower is a learned skill, which you can train to be stronger and stronger. Eli is a life and business coach specializing in achieving long-term results, and CEO and founder of WINNER'S HABITS LTD. He talks about the things that keep us from our goals, from low self-esteem to limiting beliefs. He delves into NLP, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, discussing the different positions we take in our lives and where we can change and improve. Rounding it back to having a willpower of steel, he shares his personal journey while sharing its real meaning of being able to create everlasting massive action.

Jenny Fenig, creator of the Get Gutsy movement, is a coach to spiritual women on a mission. Urging you to listen to your body in relation to the cycle of the moon, she talks about how that connection could help your business and overall life. She shares how a business has to be the reflection of your soul while laying down the ways and tips you can find your unique ability and convey it online. Inspiring and empowering women, she also discusses the problems she commonly sees among women in terms of having a successful business, their worth, and building a strong brand. Tying all of these with the moon cycle, she guides you to work through priorities and know your calling.

I have with me a 24-year-old veteran of the FBI. This man is the real deal. He is an international hostage negotiator and he knows how to win in negotiating. His stories are off the hook and his methodology of finding the Black Swan, a small piece of information that has a huge effect on negotiation, is extraordinary. He's been featured in TIME, Business Insider, Entrepreneur, CNN, ABC and so many more and now on my show, Stellar Life. I am so honored. You have to read his book and learn from him because these skills of negotiating can help you in everything that you do in life. I've read his book, Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It, and I highly recommend you getting it. Without further ado, onto the show.

Do you have money blocks? Do you know that even billionaires have money blocks? You're in good company. Sometimes it's good to get extra help and external help to help you with those blocks when it comes to success and it's an interesting combination. You do need to know all the tools and how to do it in Facebook Ads, how to build a community and you also need the mindset. From a personal experience and what I believe in, everything starts in mindset and 80% of your success is mindset. That's why I invited Pamela Bruner to be on the show. She is an author, a coach and a speaker. She conquered her own fears around money and she teaches conscious entrepreneurs to build six and seven-figure businesses by combining effective strategies with cutting-edge mindset tools. She's the co-author of Tapping Into Ultimate Successand she also owns a digital marketing agency. I hope you will enjoy this show as much as I did.

Go inside your subconscious mind and create connections and heal past traumas as Charlie Morley shares his expertise on lucid dreaming. As a bestselling author and teacher of lucid dreaming and shadow work, he takes us into a deeper understanding as well as the benefits that lucid dreaming has to offer. He combines his knowledge on Tibetan Buddhism to talk about the spiritual side of lucid dreaming, tapping into the idea of “oneness” as well as the dimensions of reality. He also talks about how things get into dreams such as nightmares and traumas. Providing a beginner’s guide on how to lucid dream while discussing the benefits of nap, he urges us to create a dream plan and with it find healing not only emotionally and mentally but physically as well.

Channeling her inner goddess and empowering women to do the same, Lauren Friedman talks about how fashion and style should bring out that authenticity in you. She is an author, illustrator, stylist, and blogger who creates stories with her outfits. She talks about how women are made to feel small in the patriarchal society and how we can fight back by embracing our vulnerabilities and listening to our inner voices, carrying them out into the world. Discussing also subjects like body shaming, she inspires women to be comfortable with who they are. She also offers some great style tips that can up your style, wardrobe and fashion game that all women can really appreciate.

We are all human. We all want the same thing. Your worth is not in direct correlation to how much money you make. Your worth is the person that you are, the gift that you are to the world, your love and your kindness. This is not a cliché, this is the truth. You are worthy just because of who you are. Personal development coach Christian Mickelsen shares his rags to riches story and talks about inviting money and miracles into your life. He is a leading authority on personal development and personal coaching and is the author of four best-selling books, including Abundance Unleashed and Get Clients Today. For over eighteen years, he has helped hundreds of thousands around the world experience the life-changing power of coaching. He is on a mission to get the whole world coached because if we all get coaching, we will become better people and the world becomes a better place.

One in three women have experienced either domestic violence or sexual abuse, and sometimes they go together. A lot of us have some kind of sexual trauma from the past. Regardless of where you are right now, there is always a way for you to have more pleasure. There is always a place for you to heal, let go and embrace the past as a gift rather than punishment. Whatever you've experienced in the past, you can heal it and move on. Kristina Campbell is an empowerment and pleasure guide. She’s inspired to help women cultivate their sexual freedom and authentic sexuality as a means to healing, wholeness, and connection with spirit. Kristina shares how she has healed her own sexual childhood traumas through a multidisciplinary approach, including therapy, energy work, and sacred sexual practices.

Some reach a point in their life where they feel disembodied. The mind and the body seemed to be so out of sync that it begins to take a toll on the person’s life. By becoming physically active, you may just get yourself out of that rut. For Cecile Raynor, that happens to be through dance and yoga. Teaching one of the best-kept secrets of performers and Olympic athletes for 25 years, the Alexander Technique, Cecile shares how reconnecting mind and body through dancing and yoga has helped her overcome body image issues. As a Thai Yoga therapist and Reiki practitioner also, she advocates for the total body intelligence, helping people feel more embodied and confident in life.

In this day and age, becoming a successful coach takes more than knowing how to talk with your client; it is also about learning your know-hows as a marketer. Coaching and marketing needs to go hand in hand now for your business to thrive and for you to continue inspiring people. That is the alchemy of marketing. Let's face it, getting in to all of this can be overwhelming. Dov Gordon lays down the basics to marketing. Known as the Alchemist Entrepreneur, he goes down to the core without all the fillers and offers a more systematic approach to getting your true message connect to your clients and even ideal clients. Dov shares some much needed insight to understand why one method or path didn’t work out and how to overcome them. 

Influence is undoubtedly a very important world in the business. It's what measures your success. How you reach other people and create an impact on their lives shows the value of what you do. But not everyone can get this right. Some fail to give the right kind of influence that it ends up ruining the reputation. Master publicity strategist and consultant, Jill Lublin, breaks down business influence and how to do it the right way. Talking about being known and finding your unique self, she gives some great advice that will inspire you to reach out and create a good message. Jill says we should align our energy with other people when it comes to networking and going through all the ropes of getting our business out. She shares some tips on confidence and fear to help resonate our own brand and help foster the kind of value that we can offer to the people.

There are laws in the universe that govern the way we experience our lives and they're in operation 24/7, 365, whether we know it or not, understand it or not, like it or not, just like gravity is in operation all the time. Valerie Sheppard says it doesn't matter what culture you're from or where you live on the planet. You are held by the law of gravity to the earth. Laws like the law of gratitude, the law of resistance, whatever you resist persists, whatever you're grateful for, you have end up having more to be grateful for, there are laws like that. When you work in harmony with the laws, then your life can be easier and you flow into success rather than struggling and striving up the mountain towards success. Valerie brings that energy into the world and she shares her book, Living Happy To Be ME, which outlines the four-step process to happiness. Valerie truly believes there is no other way to happy. The true, lasting happiness that never goes away comes from doing this dance with ourselves.

Creativity is the purest expression of our divinity. It is a source of energy as people learn to express themselves authentically. Catalyst for creativity Adam Roa says we are all creative. We're all able to unlock our inner artists and express ourselves. As we are doing that, we are expressing the highest frequency that we're able to tap into. The cosmic philosophy is that what we're facing on the planet right now and a lot of the issues that we're seeing are asking for new ways of being and new systems to be designed that will work for everyone. In order to do that, we get to create from higher levels. Adam believes that creative energy is important and that is why he uses it and helps activate it in others.

Do you feel like you’re overwhelmed with things to do, but can’t get caught up because you blink and the day is over? If so, this is the episode for you! Here to dig into amazing and potentially life-changing tips is the incredible Erin Falconer. She’s a partner and editor-in-chief of Pick the Brain, and cofounder of leaf.tv. I’m excited to share this stimulating conversation with a wonderful human being who will help you refocus and reorganize your mind so you can breathe, enjoy life, do less, and achieve more. Connect With Erin: Pick the BrainLeaf.tv@erinfalconer on TwitterErin Falconer on InstagramErin Falconer on LinkedInerin@pickthebrain.com The Mission Log: [02:01] - Erin starts things off by sharing a bit about herself, and how she has accomplished so much in a relatively short time. [05:50] - Has Erin always been an extremely productive person? [07:02] - We hear about what Erin does to avoid slipping into negative old habits. [09:38] - Is there a way to change things so you start enjoying doing the t

Rene Brent is a certified clinical hypnotherapist and the #1 international bestselling author of the book How Big Is Your BUT? A former ICU and ER nurse, Rene is passionate about helping her clients to use the power of the deep inner mind to release blocks and reach personal and professional goals. If you’re ready to break your patterns and reprogram your own mind for success, this is the episode for you! Connect With Rene: Rene Brent HypnosisPractice Happy Now@ReneHypnosis on TwitterRene Brent Hypnosis on Facebook The Mission Log: [04:55] - Rene shares a bit about herself from her personal perspective, and explains the path that she took to discover hypnotherapy. [07:38] - We hear about Rene’s first experience with hypnotherapy. [08:59] - What does it mean when Rene says that the mind will never be something it disagrees with? [10:28] - Rene talks about what “living on the outside” is, and why it’s a problematic way to go through life. [12:40] - Why does Rene think hypnotherapy and NLP can be so powerful?

Kelly Lynn Adams joins me in this conversation to teach you how to be a leader. Kelly is a certified leadership and life coach, writer, speaker, and founder of The After 5 Club, a movement that helps women juggle responsibilities and grow their side hustles. She has helped thousands of women build smart and sustainable businesses and redefine success through shifting their mindset. She helps her clients increase their confidence and step into their divine power. Connect With Kelly: Kelly Lynn AdamsKelly Lynn Adams on Instagram@KellyLynnAdams on TwitterKelly Lynn Adams’ Facebook fan pageKelly Lynn Adams on FacebookKelly Lynn Adams on YouTube The Mission Log: [03:58] - Kelly introduces herself and talks about her history in the coaching industry. [04:45] - What is the biggest obstacle for women who want to start their own business while working a 9-5 job? [07:50] - Kelly talks about the gap that she bridges between what women say they want and what they actually do. [12:14] - Orion talks about Dr. Demartini’s

Have you ever felt pulled in so many different directions that you were completely overwhelmed? Mary Shores is an expert in personal development, as well as a businesswoman who developed a roadmap for how to take control of your life. She generates pragmatic solutions for people who are freaking out or feeling stuck. Mary blends personal experience with her extensive knowledge of neuroscience and human behavior to guide businesses and individuals to their ideal life. Connect With Mary: Mary ShoresMary Shores on LinkedInMary Shores on Facebook@mary_shores on TwitterMary Shores on InstagramFearless Ambition group on Facebook The Mission Log: [04:43] - Mary introduces herself, talking about starting her first company as well as a tragic personal loss. [06:34] - How did Mary deal with everything, and shift from loss and trauma into building her own business? [10:05] - The starting point to change the feeling of unworthiness is to think about empowerment, Mary explains. [13:58] - Orion reiterates and expands on w

When it comes to your work in the world, you can’t spend too much energy worrying about being liked. When you’re operating in the role of a leader, odds are people will either love you, or won’t like you at all. Jeffrey Van Dyk joins me today to share this and many more insights into leadership. In our conversation today, we’ll talk more about leadership, as well as how to upgrade from a wound-driven operating system to a purpose-driven operating system, finding and connecting with your tribe, and how to bring who you truly are into your work and into your life. Connect With Jeffrey: Jeffreyvandyk.comJeffreyvandyklive.comTribalmarketing.biz Jeffrey Van Dyk on LinkedIn@jeffreyvandyk on Twitter The Mission Log: [02:56] - Jeffrey starts off the conversation by telling us a little bit about himself. [04:20] - Who are the people who have influenced Jeffrey the most as far as what he teaches today? [08:17] - Orion shares her story of wanting to be liked when she came to the United States after spending several ye

Lisa Shield posted her first online profile when online dating was still considered taboo. She went on a hundred first dates, one after another, over the course of the next two years. Finally, she met and married the love of her life. 16 years later, she still describes herself as one of the happiest women on the planet. Her success led her to become one of the first dating and relationship coaches in the nation. She’s a sought-after relationship expert who loves helping couples and singles use their emotional nakedness to attract and keep a life partner. Connect With Lisa: Lisa Shield@LisaShield on TwitterLisa Shield on FacebookLisa Shield on LinkedInLisa Shield on Yelp The Mission Log: [03:26] - Lisa talks a bit about herself and how she got to the point where she is today as a love coach. [06:54] - We learn that Lisa’s first husband, who she was with for 13 years, was a pathological liar. [08:14] - When Lisa started coaching, no one else was doing it and she had to do it on her own. [08:34] - What does Li

My incredible guest and partner in this conversation about sex is Kongit Farrell, a licensed marriage, family, and sex therapist who specializes in helping people get the healthy lives, lasting love, and great sex they deserve. Kongit originally focused on helping women have the best possible lives and relationships before she transitioned to sex therapy. Whether or not you’re currently in a relationship, this episode is packed with good information that you need to know. Connect With Kongit: Kongit Farrell @KongitFarrell on Twitter Kongit Farrell on Instagram @KongitFarrell on Facebook The Mission Log: [03:18] - Kongit talks about sex therapy, explaining that it’s very normal and not taboo. [04:11] - How did Kongit get into sex therapy? [05:40] - We hear about some of the most common complaints that people share with Kongit. [07:55] - Kongit talks about when couples decide they need sexual therapy, and what it generally looks like. [10:26] - Does Kongit believe that the majority of sexual pleasure is in the