Sex With Emily

On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily, along with Anderson, is giving you the tips you need for your sexual debuts! That’s right, this show from the SWE Vault is all about having sex for the first time.  The two try to squash any qualms you first-timers may have around sex – from technique to what to expect to how to do it safely. Plus, innovations on period sex and an explanation of how “manspreading” might actually help you in the dating game. Who knew? Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by NY Times best selling author and host of the Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, The Genius Life & becoming the better, healthier version of you. They discuss the hyper-palatability of food addiction and porn addiction – and how they’re somewhat similar, ways artificial light is affecting our health and our bedroom activities, why it’s important to get the D – vitamin D that is, and ways making small improvements in all areas of your life can translate to a better sex life. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow Max on all social @maxlugavere For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author and filmmaker Tiffany Shlain to talk about her book, 24/6: The Power of Unplugging One Day a Week, and why this is important – not just from electronics – but from work, relationships, and whatever other stresses life throws at you. They discuss how taking a break from technology for one day isn’t as hard as it seems, the benefits of truly unplugging and reconnecting with your partner and family, and tips on having your own “tech shabbat” whether you’re single, married, or have kids. Plus, with less time for tech, there’s more time for sex! Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Tiffany, visit http://www.tiffanyshlain.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by comedian Margaret Cho to talk about sexuality, BDSM, and they’re making it fun. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.  The two discuss sexuality as a spectrum – and how you may have moments of feeling everywhere from a-romantic to bisexual, plus a small BDSM breakdown as to why pain can be pleasurable. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner’s new smoking habit is a complete turn off, and when your partner won’t say they love you, whether it’s time to rethink the relationship. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow Margaret Cho on Instagram @margaret_cho For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Dr. Emily is talking about what happens to your body when you run into an ex and a few reasons why people sext. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.  She reveals why running into an ex causes you to go into fight or flight mode, reasons why people sext – and it’s not just because they’re horny, and what to do when you’ve gotten out of a sexless marriage and you ready for your sexual awakening. Plus, how to handle it when your partner thinks masturbation is gross. Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily For even more sex talk, tips, & tricks visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by Alice Vaughn & Yvette d'Entremont from “Two Girls, One Mic: The Porncast” to talk about the funnier sides of porn and the true entertainment aspects of it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They talk about why porn can be great, when it’s too much, what you should be bringing into the bedroom, and what should stay on the screen, as well as the plot holes from porn parodies. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when Instagram is causing recurring problems in your relationship and how to get people to stop putting you on a pedestal when you’re dating. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Alice & Yvette, visit https://www.twogirlsonemic.com// For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by bestselling author and one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about his book, The End of Mental Illness, why mental health needs to be rebranded as brain health – and how that change can alter how we see relationships.  They discuss why looking more closely at the brain can severely help people get a better understanding into their own psyche and actual tools to heal, how trauma work like EMDR therapy can reprogram our brains to release or cope with said trauma, and ways that our neurohormones have a direct impact on our libidos and how we act in relationship. Plus, an exercise in killing your ANTS or automatic negative thoughts. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Dr. Daniel Amen, visit https://danielamenmd.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about orgasm denial – what that means, and how can you use it to focus on all your pleasure. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.  She discusses what orgasm denial is and how can you make it super hot, some workarounds to having sex in public to satisfy your partner’s kink, and how to make pegging more enjoyable for the receiving partner. Plus, how to help support and deal with a partner who has sexual trauma. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by writer and journalist Peggy Orenstein to talk about her new book, Boys & Sex and how we need to change the way we talk to and treat young men.  They discuss why young boys and men feel like they’re so emotionally stunted, how “locker room” talk truly affects other people beyond the locker room, and why porn is causing an immense issue in developing healthy views on sex in young minds. Plus, how parents can be better emotional role models for their sons. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Peggy Orenstein, visit https://www.peggyorenstein.com/ For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by friend and marriage and family therapist Jamye Waxman – and they’re giving advice and taking calls on all the sex and relationship things! They discuss ways to fix your sex life and rebuild appreciation for each other, why we’re in a connection crisis and what we can do about it, and how dating has changed since technology has advanced. Plus, some sex toy talk from someone at We-Vibe! Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more on Jamye Waxman, visit waxmansextherpay.com For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about women’s orgasms and the masturbation habits of Americans. Plus, she’s taking your sex and relationship questions. She discusses some of the latest research about women’s orgasms and some thoughts on it, how often Americans are masturbating – what they’re thinking about, and so much more, and whether sex addiction is real and if it’s over or under diagnosed. Plus, ways to keep things sexy when you’re trying to conceive. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about why your partner may be rejecting your sexual advances and how to get a better understanding around it. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She discusses the dreaded sex rejection – how to make it sting a little less and hopefully place more understanding around it. Plus, she gives advice on ways to handle different stress responses when it comes to sex, how to give your partner more sexy surprises when your confidence is low, and what to do when your wife is no longer interested in nipple play. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of all things V-Day! She goes over the origin story of Valentine’s Day, along with some stats and facts on the day, reads letters of lovers’ past, gives some examples on how to make the day special, and so much more! From gifts to why hotel sex is the best –– enjoy this mash-up and have a pleasure-filled day – and year – of love! Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by incredible food creator, Chef Amber Caudle to talk about the sensual sides of food – from cooking to eating – with a few ideas to use on V-Day or even all year round!  They discuss how food can be truly healing for the mind, body, and soul, the sensual side of eating – especially since so many foods look like penises and vulvas, and why body acceptance from your head to your toes and everything in between helps you in and out of the bedroom. Plus, if you’re cooking for a hot date – what foods are a hell yes and what foods are a definite no-no. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow Amber on all social @chefamberLA For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by “the Angry Therapist” John Kim to talk about his book “I Used to be a Miserable F*ck” as well as the true way to “man up.”  They discuss how you can go from being an angry, macho guy to an evolved version of yourself, what steps fathers – and parents in general – can take to become better role-models, and why being vulnerable can help you when it comes to maintaining your relationships. Plus, how working on your mind can help you be more attentive in the bedroom. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow John Kim on all social @theangrytherapist For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author Courtenay Hameister to talk about her new book, Okay Fine Whatever, and how getting over your fears in and out of the bedroom can make for a profusely better life all around. Plus, she’s answering your sex and relationship questions.  They discuss how someone who has an anxiety disorder went from being afraid of everything to going to sex parties, dating over 100 people, and went to a professional cuddler – as well as why it’s okay not to know what you like sexually – as long as you start taking steps to get there. Plus, advice on what to do when there’s a possible 4 way in your future, and whether or not online interactive porn is actually cheating. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Follow Courtenay on Twitter @wisenheimer For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about the different sexual personality types and where people seem to be going for sexual health information – but probably shouldn’t be. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions.  She goes over what might make you a giver, a decompressor, or an explorer when it comes to sex, how to come clean about dating your best friend’s soon to be ex-husband, and whether or not it’s worth it to teach someone better oral skills. Plus, whether or not to tell your girlfriend you’ve been having sexual dreams about men. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more info on the sex personality types from Vanessa Marin, click HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator, writer and contributor for the SWE site Isabella Frappier to talk about her sexual liberation work – as well as how to take charge of your own sexual destiny. They discuss what it means to have sexual sovereignty and whether everyone can achieve it, how you can partake in BDSM and still feel like your partner respects you, and why our sexual pasts don’t need to dictate our sexual futures. Plus, a little sex magic – what is it?! Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For more info on Isabella, visit http://www.isabellafrappier.com/  For a discount on Isabella’s course or eBook, use code SEXWITHEMILY For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit http://sexwithemily.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford to talk about her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression and how it can affect your relationships – including the one with yourself.  They discuss where the line is between perfectionism and using it to mask depression, how to recognize the signs you or a loved one might have perfectly hidden depression, and why people need to do their emotional work – because having emotions doesn’t make you weak. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily Find more on Dr. Rutherford HERE. For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to manifest the sex life that you’ve been craving for 2020, and she taking your sex & relationship questions. She gives you a plan to get you and your partner on track for the sex life you deserve – only if you both have to commit, how to actually keep things going in the bedroom once you’ve gotten all the toys and outfits, and how to get past a traumatizing conclusion to a blowjob. Plus, what to do when you just can’t seem to make a relationship last longer than two years. Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemily For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit sexwithemily.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.